angeline, if you want to TBF and you are sure Trinity is latched on properly, then you have to decide whether to
- continue bottle feeding and express 100% (like I used to) to maintain supply and feed her EBM
- give up bottle feeding now and latch her until she becomes efficient eater via latching. Reason for giving up bottle completely, at least for now, is she will be "forced" to suckle when latched on.
The above was advices given to me by lactation consultants, my PDs and gynaes, as well as my breast specialist in the past. Notice EVERYONE said same as they were all pro-TBF.
Right now as Trinity is still considered newborn, it is easy to make her give up the bottle for the breast. if they are hungry, they will work harder at the breast. Babies are smart, they will choose the easy way which is to SUCK a bottle for the quick flow, than to SUCKLE at the breast. She will cry in the beginning, but without the bottle, she will feed when you latch her. So after 2 to 3 feeds or so (if you can persist), she should be on her way to become efficient eater via direct latching.