Support group - Miscarriages


Give a hope said:
Seen like baby aspirin not strong enough to support also. Did dr mention any other solution towards it?
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Hmm the baby asprin just supplement only. Cox no guarantee will work. Cox I have no issues with my blood. So they just trial and error. Anyways must kan Kai if got one kind of medicine sure work one then we will all be very happy. Lol.

No lah very got so fast. I on subsidy very tough to see dr Sheila one. I refused to pay pte to see her. So wait until 27jan. I have learn to take things easy Liao. So rush if still mc also no use.

Besides the best is don't take medication. Since they don't know what prob so just feed me with medicine loh. I also just take hope can help. Like they say since I can conceive quite easily just slowly and see how. :)
 
mangohope said:
Cos my blood will thicken and clog when preg so cannot maintain the pregnancy :(
My solution is heparin.
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Problem w solution better than trying luck again which is more hurt lor. On co bus to work met a col from hr asking is that pregnant and resting at home. Haiz make my heart pain n tired early in the morning sian ttm.
 
mangohope said:
My nose just bleed think start to heaty le...
I'm still having brown discharge, don't know when den finish.
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1st m/c had more blood and luang lai come and go that type but that time still blur blur just thought is cleaning the body so nv think so much this time only 1st week but not much now worry clear or not n etc. haiz
 
hopeful_mum said:
Hmm the baby asprin just supplement only. Cox no guarantee will work. Cox I have no issues with my blood. So they just trial and error. Anyways must kan Kai if got one kind of medicine sure work one then we will all be very happy. Lol.

No lah very got so fast. I on subsidy very tough to see dr Sheila one. I refused to pay pte to see her. So wait until 27jan. I have learn to take things easy Liao. So rush if still mc also no use.

Besides the best is don't take medication. Since they don't know what prob so just feed me with medicine loh. I also just take hope can help. Like they say since I can conceive quite easily just slowly and see how. :)
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Ya lor at least there is solution for the problem than dunno and try luck. I really worry for my next tue appt dunno blood test result will out by den or not. What shall I hope from there?
Ya I agree must take thing easy rush things and even c dr Sheila at pte clinic also no use if still mc more sad onlh
 
Give a hope said:
Problem w solution better than trying luck again which is more hurt lor. On co bus to work met a col from hr asking is that pregnant and resting at home. Haiz make my heart pain n tired early in the morning sian ttm.
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Jiayou for today! Tmr another day den Xmas le :)
 
princessleopard said:
Can we do so? I have been thinking of that when I called them after my 2nd mc. Cos we had quite a few bad experiences with govt hosp, so I really hesitated whether to go nuh anot. Its really a struggle, cos they are the only one who are well-equipped in this, but its govt hosp, so I dunno what to do. Then when the nurse rejected me, then I just accepted it. Cos I also struggled to go there.
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Princess,
I think u called the recurrent miscarriage dept... Yes that dept only accept 3 miscarriage but u can do the same test at G clinic too... Then result will be send to recurrent miscarriage dept... The specialist there will let us know the result... If u interested of getting the tests done, then u can consider calling G clinic for appt... Believe me, they are all professional n sensitive to our cases... When I tell the doc, again I had another MC... She was more worry n shock then me... Without requesting for the tests, she go ahead n arrange for me... Call the miscarriage dept n nurses to check the price etc, bcos she know the price tag not cheap.. Last time I wasn't tat liking Gov hospital too... Due to my dad bad experiences during his admission... But G clinic is a totally different world...
 
haze02 said:
Princess,
I think u called the recurrent miscarriage dept... Yes that dept only accept 3 miscarriage but u can do the same test at G clinic too... Then result will be send to recurrent miscarriage dept... The specialist there will let us know the result... If u interested of getting the tests done, then u can consider calling G clinic for appt... Believe me, they are all professional n sensitive to our cases... When I tell the doc, again I had another MC... She was more worry n shock then me... Without requesting for the tests, she go ahead n arrange for me... Call the miscarriage dept n nurses to check the price etc, bcos she know the price tag not cheap.. Last time I wasn't tat liking Gov hospital too... Due to my dad bad experiences during his admission... But G clinic is a totally different world...
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Hi haze, can I get the contact number?
 
Nuh G clinic.. 67725403
If u plan get the tests done, go polyclinic for the letter first hor.... Then will be under susidize.
 
Seasons Greetings to all! Hopefully we can all receive good news in 2014! Sorry I disappeared for a while, went for hols and busy with christmas baking.
 
haze02 said:
Princess,
I think u called the recurrent miscarriage dept... Yes that dept only accept 3 miscarriage but u can do the same test at G clinic too... Then result will be send to recurrent miscarriage dept... The specialist there will let us know the result... If u interested of getting the tests done, then u can consider calling G clinic for appt... Believe me, they are all professional n sensitive to our cases... When I tell the doc, again I had another MC... She was more worry n shock then me... Without requesting for the tests, she go ahead n arrange for me... Call the miscarriage dept n nurses to check the price etc, bcos she know the price tag not cheap.. Last time I wasn't tat liking Gov hospital too... Due to my dad bad experiences during his admission... But G clinic is a totally different world...
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I see. So, when go polyclinic get referral letter, must tell them its for G clinic?

I had very huge phobia for govt hosps actually. I had seen too much happened to my grandpa and mum during their stay there, whom both had passed on. That explained my hesitation to go nuh. Good to know that G clinic is different.

Oh by the way, I just got the brazil nuts from ntuc, its $5.40 per 100 gm.
 
Hi ladies,

I had not log in much these few days, busy with the x'mas preparation, baking etc. Just in case I won't be logging in in the next few days,

Merry Christmas in advance!!

Though this is not a great place to meet all of you, but I am glad I had known all of you here. Without all the advices and supports I will not have gone this far.

Loved you all! :p
 
dawnies said:
Seasons Greetings to all! Hopefully we can all receive good news in 2014! Sorry I disappeared for a while, went for hols and busy with christmas baking.
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Hello dawinies!
Yup lets hope and pray for a very good 2014 for everyone here :)

How are you? :)
 
princessleopard said:
Hi ladies,

I had not log in much these few days, busy with the x'mas preparation, baking etc. Just in case I won't be logging in in the next few days,

Merry Christmas in advance!!

Though this is not a great place to meet all of you, but I am glad I had known all of you here. Without all the advices and supports I will not have gone this far.

Loved you all! :p
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Merry Christmas to you too! <3
 
I'm good, counting down to all the festivities at year end and looking forward to the long hols during CNY. Rested for 6 months and just started trying recently again but no news yet. I'm kam cheong lie hopefulmum, before period already peeing on a stick :p
 
dawnies said:
I'm good, counting down to all the festivities at year end and looking forward to the long hols during CNY. Rested for 6 months and just started trying recently again but no news yet. I'm kam cheong lie hopefulmum, before period already peeing on a stick :p
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lol :) hope u get good news soon. ppl like us impatient no good hor. lol
I trying lah trying to be more patient.
 
dawnies said:
I went to TCM recently and the Dr said I am too "kan cheong", must learn to relax o_O
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ya dr su also told me, cannot think of short term, must look far. everyone so gan cheong want to have baby but not taking care then wont succeed also. lol so she console me to rest.

so im not going to try actively the next cycle, I will just relax. if strike then talk if no strike means I listen to dr su. lol I wont purposely avoid.
 
princessleopard said:
I see. So, when go polyclinic get referral letter, must tell them its for G clinic?

I had very huge phobia for govt hosps actually. I had seen too much happened to my grandpa and mum during their stay there, whom both had passed on. That explained my hesitation to go nuh. Good to know that G clinic is different.

Oh by the way, I just got the brazil nuts from ntuc, its $5.40 per 100 gm.
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Nope... Just tell that u wanted to go Nuh...That time i was there for my fertile tests... So they put me straight to Nuh G clinic. Nuh only have G clinic n women clinic for gynea.. What I understand is Women clinic is mostly for those private patient... While all the cases, normally will be at G clinic..

I was afraid of Gov hospital too... Seen how rude they are toward my dad while he admitted, put me off... But bcos I wanted a thru out fertile check n nuh is the closest to my home, so I bite my teeth n go thru it... Really surprising G clinic is a total different world from other dept... Once u there, u will understand what I meant...

Brazil nuts sold at Ntuc?! Which area wor, tidbits n nuts area? Isst those mix of different nuts packeting?
Sat I was at giant supermarket... Couldn't find Brazil... But I bought walnut... It sold at those nuts area.
 
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haze02 said:
Nope... Just tell that u wanted to go Nuh...That time i was there for my fertile tests... So they put me straight to Nuh G clinic. Nuh only have G clinic n women clinic for gynea.. What I understand is Women clinic is mostly for those private patient... While all the cases, normally will be at G clinic..

I was afraid of Gov hospital too... Seen how rude they are toward my dad while he admitted, put me off... But bcos I wanted a thru out fertile check n nuh is the closest to my home, so I bite my teeth n go thru it... Really surprising G clinic is a total different world from other dept... Once u there, u will understand what I meant...

Brazil nuts sold at Ntuc?! Which area wor, tidbits n nuts area? Isst those mix of different nuts packeting?
Sat I was at giant supermarket... Couldn't find Brazil... But I bought walnut... It sold at those nuts area.
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I actually went to look for organic one first but they dun have brazil nut. Then I went to the nuts counter where they sell a wide range of nuts. Just tell them you want brazil nuts and how many grams, they will pack for you on the spot. Try bigger branch, I dun think small ntuc have nuts counter like that.
 
dawnies said:
I'm good, counting down to all the festivities at year end and looking forward to the long hols during CNY. Rested for 6 months and just started trying recently again but no news yet. I'm kam cheong lie hopefulmum, before period already peeing on a stick :p
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I normally on the menses due date test!
haze02 said:
Of cos no prob lor... Haha! They are professional... No worries.
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Thanks hahas I shall call them to make some enquiry!
 
haze02 said:
Nope... Just tell that u wanted to go Nuh...That time i was there for my fertile tests... So they put me straight to Nuh G clinic. Nuh only have G clinic n women clinic for gynea.. What I understand is Women clinic is mostly for those private patient... While all the cases, normally will be at G clinic..

I was afraid of Gov hospital too... Seen how rude they are toward my dad while he admitted, put me off... But bcos I wanted a thru out fertile check n nuh is the closest to my home, so I bite my teeth n go thru it... Really surprising G clinic is a total different world from other dept... Once u there, u will understand what I meant...

Brazil nuts sold at Ntuc?! Which area wor, tidbits n nuts area? Isst those mix of different nuts packeting?
Sat I was at giant supermarket... Couldn't find Brazil... But I bought walnut... It sold at those nuts area.
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You can get from fu Hua, they have raw walnut :)
 
Ladies been really busy. Lol so much response today. Done with my Xmas parties and spending a silent night alone at home cox hub got a last min job.

Hmm I heard Brazil nuts are expensive and can get from taka.

Hmm Jurong poit ntuc quite big leh don't recall got such sections. Nvm I go elsewhere see see

Princess haha think we promote nuh too well. Don't set ur expectations high. Just set it as normal then u go there got some diff. Through my recent saga on chem preg then I can really feel they are really quite concern. Be it acting or what they at least bother and cares for our feelings :)
 
Brazil nuts so hard to find in singapore... :(

Yes lor... Seems like I'm the promoter of Nuh... Lol..!!
Agree with hopeful mum, go there with open minded.. I dun dare to say they will cfm be amazing good to u... Bcos different ppl, different expectation... For me, I dun have any expectation toward them... So when they treat me nice, I get impress... But I'm sure they give ME better *services* then those other dept... Lol.. :D
 
hopeful_mum said:
Ladies been really busy. Lol so much response today. Done with my Xmas parties and spending a silent night alone at home cox hub got a last min job.

Hmm I heard Brazil nuts are expensive and can get from taka.

Hmm Jurong poit ntuc quite big leh don't recall got such sections. Nvm I go elsewhere see see

Princess haha think we promote nuh too well. Don't set ur expectations high. Just set it as normal then u go there got some diff. Through my recent saga on chem preg then I can really feel they are really quite concern. Be it acting or what they at least bother and cares for our feelings :)
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Thanks hopeful. I will need to persuade my hubby as well, not sure can get the approval anot...haha. He is also very anti govt hosp.
 
mangohope said:
Jiayou for today! Tmr another day den Xmas le :)
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No good ah today in the office really feel like crying aft have a talk w my boss den aft that she says need to tell two f my colleagues cos they are the one who arranging course dates and schedule for trainer (I'm working in training dept, need to administer the course) and now one of the admin go home leave till feb so need to cover his job also) den one of the col replying my whatsapps by saying sad to hear that but good that I am ok den I reply him by saying maybe mentally take longer time to recover he dare not to reply after tha. One more saying we both also ladies can share w her..so sian and whatsapps hb den he ask me to quit cos don wan i feel suffer and struggle at work he ask me to do what I like and rest at home. Really feel like tender lor so struggle at work u know how my boss say? My colleagues they all thought i'm pregnant so cannot up and down for the in arranging the in-house course let them know at least they can plan more courses. Make me feel like crying in the office after hearing that lor. Sigh :(
 
princessleopard said:
I see. So, when go polyclinic get referral letter, must tell them its for G clinic?

I had very huge phobia for govt hosps actually. I had seen too much happened to my grandpa and mum during their stay there, whom both had passed on. That explained my hesitation to go nuh. Good to know that G clinic is different.

Oh by the way, I just got the brazil nuts from ntuc, its $5.40 per 100 gm.
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FYI I got the referral letter from polyclinic den Nuh appt line called and ask to go G clinic.
Which Ntuc u bought it? Not sure if I can get it from Ntuc at jp.
 
Give a hope said:
FYI I got the referral letter from polyclinic den Nuh appt line called and ask to go G clinic.
Which Ntuc u bought it? Not sure if I can get it from Ntuc at jp.
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I remember JP, same level as the Ntuc... They have nuts stalls too... Maybe they will have it...
 
Give a hope said:
No good ah today in the office really feel like crying aft have a talk w my boss den aft that she says need to tell two f my colleagues cos they are the one who arranging course dates and schedule for trainer (I'm working in training dept, need to administer the course) and now one of the admin go home leave till feb so need to cover his job also) den one of the col replying my whatsapps by saying sad to hear that but good that I am ok den I reply him by saying maybe mentally take longer time to recover he dare not to reply after tha. One more saying we both also ladies can share w her..so sian and whatsapps hb den he ask me to quit cos don wan i feel suffer and struggle at work he ask me to do what I like and rest at home. Really feel like tender lor so struggle at work u know how my boss say? My colleagues they all thought i'm pregnant so cannot up and down for the in arranging the in-house course let them know at least they can plan more courses. Make me feel like crying in the office after hearing that lor. Sigh :(
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Big hug hug! Maybe they are really concern abt u... Just duno how to put it nice in words..
Those ppl didn't gone thru what went thru... So it hard for them to understand or show their concern... Whenever anyone start asking, I will give them a smile n say I'm doing great, life move on... No point letting them know abt our pain bcos no matter what they said, it wouldn't eases my pain... So what the point... Focus ur attention on those whom really love u, for example ur parent n HB... Those are the ppl whom worth our attention... Going to be new start of the year... Close our past year n look forward to the new year... I heard that the time strike midnight, we must be truly happy from our heart.. So thru out the whole year we will be happy too... Duno how true isst, but it good to close my chapter... Jiayou babe!
 
haze02 said:
Big hug hug! Maybe they are really concern abt u... Just duno how to put it nice in words..
Those ppl didn't gone thru what went thru... So it hard for them to understand or show their concern... Whenever anyone start asking, I will give them a smile n say I'm doing great, life move on... No point letting them know abt our pain bcos no matter what they said, it wouldn't eases my pain... So what the point... Focus ur attention on those whom really love u, for example ur parent n HB... Those are the ppl whom worth our attention... Going to be new start of the year... Close our past year n look forward to the new year... I heard that the time strike midnight, we must be truly happy from our heart.. So thru out the whole year we will be happy too... Duno how true isst, but it good to close my chapter... Jiayou babe!
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Ya but usually they not so kind one. To me just reply for the seek of replying. But nvm la let them say lor life still have to move on just that I don expect they so fast throwing balls to me through email lor. See so many email I feel like fainted.. Haha :)
Ya lor hb so worry me and ask me don care what ppl says and don take it to hard but if cannot make it maybe just quit. I think the only thing I can do is act blur and focus on my work.
Sian lor tmr is co xmas party for HQ staff this year gonna hide myself somewhere cos las tome tio sabo play game den all laughing ard cos the game very funny but I so paiseh lor. Wait for tmr 3pm can go home den go JB for one day staycation. Hee
 
Give a hope said:
Ya but usually they not so kind one. To me just reply for the seek of replying. But nvm la let them say lor life still have to move on just that I don expect they so fast throwing balls to me through email lor. See so many email I feel like fainted.. Haha :)
Ya lor hb so worry me and ask me don care what ppl says and don take it to hard but if cannot make it maybe just quit. I think the only thing I can do is act blur and focus on my work.
Sian lor tmr is co xmas party for HQ staff this year gonna hide myself somewhere cos las tome tio sabo play game den all laughing ard cos the game very funny but I so paiseh lor. Wait for tmr 3pm can go home den go JB for one day staycation. Hee
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Yes lor... There sure be ppl gossip abt us... If everyone we going to upset, then our life will be gone.. Haha!
Wan to say let them be... We couldn't stop their mouth... Just show ur positive outlook then soon they will forget abt it... Now whenever I go, I will show a happy face.. What the point of crying n depress... Everyone will gossip even more abt us... Most imp is our hubby understand n love us... Hack care what the world thinks... Go enjoy ur JB stay with ur hubby.... Shop n pamper urself... I sooooo wanted to go JB for nails... Wahaha!
 
haze02 said:
Yes lor... There sure be ppl gossip abt us... If everyone we going to upset, then our life will be gone.. Haha!
Wan to say let them be... We couldn't stop their mouth... Just show ur positive outlook then soon they will forget abt it... Now whenever I go, I will show a happy face.. What the point of crying n depress... Everyone will gossip even more abt us... Most imp is our hubby understand n love us... Hack care what the world thinks... Go enjoy ur JB stay with ur hubby.... Shop n pamper urself... I sooooo wanted to go JB for nails... Wahaha!
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Ya lor but still feel hurting at same point of time. Ytd my tears about to drop le but I control cannot cry in the office. Haha
Now office got one col who will be deliver next month walkin in front of me so sian and when outside saw preg women I like envy will c c. Sigh
Hmm learn to c thing in another way must happy yup most importantly is hb understand us and love us.
That time I did rebonding in JB hb says he zzz at coffee bean haha. If this time nail he need to zzz in coffee bean again... Lol
 
Give a hope,

Hope you are feeling better already!
Try not to be too bothered with them! Normally after like 1 week they will forgot everything.
If not just go to the restroom and cool down...
Normally I will go there hide and cry if I really cannot take it!
Don't worry luh now all holiday mood, enjoy your stay at ksl! Think I also wanna go stay next month! :)
 
Give a hope said:
I saw only packaging one from hock hua only from china or msia so dunno same or not den I no buy eh... Is that same?
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Not sure. I haven't go to fu hua yet. I just bought from ntuc yesterday. I will go when I had finished these. I like ntuc one cos its a nuts counter and amk one a lot people buy, I feel the nuts are fresh, and its all natural ones, no preservatives. So, cannot buy too much at a time. But I am not sure which countries they come from cos no packaging.
 

mangohope said:
Give a hope,

Hope you are feeling better already!
Try not to be too bothered with them! Normally after like 1 week they will forgot everything.
If not just go to the restroom and cool down...
Normally I will go there hide and cry if I really cannot take it!
Don't worry luh now all holiday mood, enjoy your stay at ksl! Think I also wanna go stay next month! :)
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Err cannot la later come out from there very obvious ppl will know...
Ya lor just wait for everything back to normal.
Ya you shld just stay there as a weekend staycation but weekend price more ex than normal day and rem to try to book early to avoid the room fully book cos many ppl staying there ever saw group tour and buses come just to stay one night the next day go legoland or sg.
 
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