Dear ladies,
I posted in early January regarding my hubby going for his varicoceles surgery. Well, he did it in early January. We were not very hopeful about the effects of his surgery but still decided to go ahead rather than trying SOIUI.
Went through a tough time in March, a great depression period because my good friend got pregnant with second child and I found out she conceived in the month that I tried IUI for the fourth time.
Work is equally stressful and both hubby and I decided that if we are meant not to be blessed with kids, then it shall be.. a rather painful decision made.. but we need to preserve our sanity..esp. mine as I was sinking into greater depression.
When my period was due in April, I was already experiencing the PMS that I really get. The frustrating part is that AF didn't come on time. I didn't think much of it as whenver I got stressed, my period will end up coming late.
Guess my surprise and disbelief when I decided to use the only pregnacy test kit at home. 2 lines appeared! I blinked and blinked! Thought I was hallucinating.
Well, after a check with my gynae, Yes, I am 5.5 weeks pregnant.
It seems that hubby's surgery has improved his sperm count and quality.
Just wish to share this with you... We tried for about 3.5 years..
For those who are still trying, please don't give up.. the journey is painful and at times, lonely.. I've been through it and can fully understand the pain and anguish.
All the best to all and again, may all of us be blessed with what we want in this journy!