I have been married for 20 years. Perfect family, a Son and a Daughter both in Uni now. Perfect home and thought I had a perfect Husband.
My husband WAS a good Father, a good husband, intelligent and kind hearted and I was so proud that he set up his own company that is doing extremely well these recent years, but this company of his ruined his life, our life. 5 years ago he employed an assistant, young sweet and full of life. A good 18 years younger than him.
Things started going downhill 3 years ago, at first he was always praising how good she is and how well he is helping her with his business. Business trips happened (just both of them) over the years, I’m not sure how many she tagged along but he travels monthly. I went crazy when I found out he brought her to China with him, he claimed nothing happened, they slept separate hotel rooms and the girl is married! It was purely a business trip, so he said.
I told myself maybe I’m thinking too much, even texted her and APOLOGISE. I let it slide and tried my best to move on and be a good Mother and a Wife. Last year all my suspicious and doubts became clearer, it was definitely an affair between both of them. Business trips is an excuse, they have been going for holidays all over e the world. My husbands business stretches out mainly to China and SE Asia so why is he going US Europe all these places!
Just yesterday morning I found a hotel room key with both their names on it; for a vacation in Maldives, it broke me. I don’t know how to live on anymore. I don’t know what I should do.
I will not and cannot divorce him, the girl is married herself and I even find ways to contact her and her husband but there is not outcome. She’s a amazing liar and a very good manipulative woman to be able to hook my husband like this.
What should I do, he doesn’t want to go for councilling and i have a nagging fear that soon the stupid little girl would be asking him to get a divorce, what can be done or how I should start protecting myself and my kids? I am clueless to know where to start and I really don’t want the girl to be taking every cent of him and running away. I still care for him so much as he is my Husband. We had happier days. Pls.. anyone.. pls help me.
My husband WAS a good Father, a good husband, intelligent and kind hearted and I was so proud that he set up his own company that is doing extremely well these recent years, but this company of his ruined his life, our life. 5 years ago he employed an assistant, young sweet and full of life. A good 18 years younger than him.
Things started going downhill 3 years ago, at first he was always praising how good she is and how well he is helping her with his business. Business trips happened (just both of them) over the years, I’m not sure how many she tagged along but he travels monthly. I went crazy when I found out he brought her to China with him, he claimed nothing happened, they slept separate hotel rooms and the girl is married! It was purely a business trip, so he said.
I told myself maybe I’m thinking too much, even texted her and APOLOGISE. I let it slide and tried my best to move on and be a good Mother and a Wife. Last year all my suspicious and doubts became clearer, it was definitely an affair between both of them. Business trips is an excuse, they have been going for holidays all over e the world. My husbands business stretches out mainly to China and SE Asia so why is he going US Europe all these places!
Just yesterday morning I found a hotel room key with both their names on it; for a vacation in Maldives, it broke me. I don’t know how to live on anymore. I don’t know what I should do.
I will not and cannot divorce him, the girl is married herself and I even find ways to contact her and her husband but there is not outcome. She’s a amazing liar and a very good manipulative woman to be able to hook my husband like this.
What should I do, he doesn’t want to go for councilling and i have a nagging fear that soon the stupid little girl would be asking him to get a divorce, what can be done or how I should start protecting myself and my kids? I am clueless to know where to start and I really don’t want the girl to be taking every cent of him and running away. I still care for him so much as he is my Husband. We had happier days. Pls.. anyone.. pls help me.
