Hi mummies, thank u so much for ur valuable advice on sterilizing of milk bottles. Since my no 1, with b4 every pump, I ll either sterilize or use hot water to kill all germs n bacteria. Now I know only need to sterilize 1 - 2 x a day, its such a relief for me!
Lovexuan:
I experience the same situation with my 4 yo boy too! He used to be my 1 n only love and if possible, I will bring him out once a week on weekdays to enjoy himself i.e. high tea, shopping etc. However, all these benefits have been taken away since bb bro is borned. I ll also leave him to attend to bb whenever bb cries or needs attn. As a result, he tends to b v jealous n do very silly or notti actions which he nv did b4. I guess its a passing phase. At times, I have to resort to scoldin or caning cos its too rude or harmful. i.e. he ll pinch bb legs and recently, during my massage session, he said he 12 stay with me n promised to b gd. The massage lady at first is quite happy to have him, but after a while, he started to use pencils n pens to poke her! So embarrassing! My hubby say its a phase they need to adjust n grow up to be mature elder siblings. Heartpain too! He can be v sweet at times i,e. yest nite, he told me, "if u need to wake up in middle of nite to pump milk, wake me up n i ll accompany u."
I think when bb grows up n things have more or less stabilized, muz make up to the elder child.
