Hi mini & cclare
My mil BF all her 4 children.. thus I'm quite surprised she's not as supportive.. but maybe she also didnt want me to feel stress over not enough ss thus ask me to stop if so troublesome and get only 1 feed.
I was the one who insisted on sarong for my gal. My hubby was quite agst it. But she was sleeping much less the required amt for her age . And I reasoned that I will be the one to take care of her and it's really horrifying that she get stirred very easily when she sleep on bed and have to carry her almost all day long to rock her to sleep. Thus when mil gave the go ahead after 1st month, I quickly got it. But who knows, she doesnt sleep as long in sarong also! But at least dont need to carry and rock her, can rock her in sarong, so much easier. At night, I just let her sleep in cot, she will fuss and cry for sometimes, but so long can still get to sleep so should be ok. I tried transferring from sarong to cot, but she will wake up and its back to square one.
hee... my thinking also abit oldish.. also find it weird to store EBM in freezer for so long... I know it can be done but just dont like the idea of storing stuff in freezer/fridge for so long then take out to eat.. hahaha.. even when I put EBM in fridge for < 1 day, I wonder if bacterials had grown.

very duh...
Hi ruffy
It's really very hard on you! Having to suffer the grinding part while nursing... and the constant engorgement... very brave of you to continue till 4mths!
Heee ...their 'attention span' very short, now that they have tasted other food than milk, they want more varieties!
Hong is compiling infant receipes, maybe can get some ideas from there!
Ryan doesnt sleep in sarong? Have you tried letting him sleep in your bed at the beginning of the night? Maybe then he will not wake up during the night. But may not be a good habit if he wants to sleep in your bed only, next time hubby will have to shift to guest room (thats what my ante-natal course instructor joked abt)
Hi cla
Matthew also doesnt sleep in sarong? Not bad, he can sleep for 1hr on his cot, my gal only sleep 1/2hr in sarong.