Recent content by lonelyheart

And it's plain waste of time marrying. I could have advanced further in my career than being a maid at home. You see many highly educated women stay single?

Sometimes it's just plain tireness. Do so much for the family end up treated like that by husband. Why FTWM have to work, do housework and attend to kids, PLUS HAVE TO TREAT THE HUSBAND LIKE KING AND BE ALL PRAISES AND SMILES, whereas the husband can think he is streesed out at work already...

susanna I am not talking about pride or being calculative or who wins, you know? It's more like since the person already treat you like transparent, how would you treat him with all the praises and love? I just feel regretful to marry. You said human are unpredictable, need to be...

Even if they don't stray, they will go look for ONS or prostitutes. Why so many cases of even successful men or men claiming they love their wife and family - fall into the trap of extramarital affairs or ONS or prostitutes? See the current ongoing case whereby a lot of them are high...

Even if you praise him and Dear here Dear there, if a man wants to stray, if he is tired of you, he will find lots of excuses to stray - the wife not caring, the wife is naggy, no more love with love, etc etc. Those blissfully or should I say still blissfully married will not understand...

Susanna I am curious why must these praising and "Dear" here "Dear" there start with the wife? Will you feel like praising and calling Dear here Dear there if you have a husband who lazes around and does nothing to help or not at home most of the time or have affairs? So what's there to...

Many men don't want divorce because it is a loss of face, time-consuming, have to pay alimony, can't explain to parents, etc. If they have been caught with affair, then they might as well let it be this way and just continue his fun outside. Nothing the wife can do unless the wife chooses to...

If men want to stray, even no foreign women they also can stray with local. Man gets sick with the same woman and most have high intensity to stray. It's only whether they can afford or dare to stray or not, or whether they can get any woman or not.

Sometime it is you want to talk, but the other party has nothing to talk. So how? If they don't want to talk, you can't force them to talk in order to improve commuication. Many men are like that. They can talk the sky with you before marriage, but after marriage, they talk much lesser...

Retribution will fall on the man who gives up the family for TOW. Retribution will fall on the TOW who breaks people's family. 人在做，天在看。

No point to continue once affairs are involved. Even if you can forgive, you can never forget, no matter how hard you try. Things will pop up that cause you to recall the affair. The trust is never going to be there again and you will continue to live in constant suspicions thinking what is he...

For now, I tell my girl, don't ever believe in man and don't ever marry. It is best to depend on ourselves than trust the man. Why let man mess up our life?

It's silly to believe girl-boy true love in this world. The only true love in this world is mother's love towards her kids. No matter the woman is badly treated by her husband, she will not abandon her kids. But men will not hesitate to leave his wife and kids for sweet young things. How...

It's really silly of women to dedicate wholeheartedly to the family, the husband and the kids. Men are never contended and they get bored with the same women. Even if you are not 黄脸婆, you can never compete with the sweet young things cos' age is not at your side. Even if you are blissfully...

Ayana One time is enough. One time and I am stucked with a kid. I don't dare another gamble again. I don't want to go thru more heartpains. I also don't want a stepfather for my kid. If the biological father don't care for the kid, why would the stepfather care for the kid? I don't deny...