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Think there is no test to find out which medication our bodies react better to. So it's always Trial and Error. If you have been trying different combi of drugs like me, then have to note which drug you respond better to. For me, i have tried puregon, puregon + menopur, gonal F + menopur. My body respond best to Puregon and when they prescribe me with something else (e.g. menopur which i am not responding well to), i will tell the review doc and they will consider that.

I don't know about the combination yet. It was my first try IVF.

If there were more tests done on individuals before we use the medications, more tests to see how well our body respond before we each are assigned to the different medications/jabs, then we won't waste the chance for trial and error. We all know this IVF procedure is expensive and for myself I don't want to waste the grant for trial and error. In other countries, first trial IVF is FREE! In Singapore it is considered "free", but on another perspective, we are using our medisave to pay half of it.

Just a penny of my thought.
 
i am feeling better after a long nap. hahaha
thanks sister! :)

Both of us have the same day result. Totally understand how you feel. I cried for two days and I stopped crying after seeing Dr Zou yesterday. She gave me the most comforting words ever and said she would try her best to help me and not to worry too much. I felt more relieved. By the way, my AF came a little on Saturday and full flow on Monday (yesterday). Today it got worse, really worse, lumps of blood clots came out, after taking the chinese medicine. The sinseh said the medicine is for clearing menses.
 
Me with the male Dr Tan HH. I with him seen 2010. From Dr Loh's menotee to head of IVF centre until now adj prof Dr Tan. With so many cases he handled, I believed he also gain lot of experience. Yesterday do my ER, saw him before the procedure, he still ask how am I n smile felt so comforting.
Yeah he's one of the best docs.
 
Thanks towkayneo n dawnBB for the encouragement! :)

Yes.. we are going to try again! Will think of all questions for dr loh tml!

Other sisters on tww please take care n jia you!!
Hugs sister. Cry it out build your health and come back stronger. Tonnes of tears we sisters have shed in this journey. We have to persevere n achieve the goal. Take care.
 
Thank you to those whom has replied to my post on query on cost pertaining FET on age 40.
Just wondering, if cost overshot to expectation, can we pay bill by installment, slowly pay for those in KKH? Concern that will be super expensive when no support fm Government. Just want to try giving self a chance for my 2 frozen embryos. Whichever, i will go for Foster to help others.
 
Thank you to those whom has replied to my post on query on cost pertaining FET on age 40.
Just wondering, if cost overshot to expectation, can we pay bill by installment, slowly pay for those in KKH? Concern that will be super expensive when no support fm Government. Just want to try giving self a chance for my 2 frozen embryos. Whichever, i will go for Foster to help others.
Hi teddy75 not sure if KKh allows installment .... I did Fet in KKh 5 years ago , medicated was around $1500. Today at TMC paid around $2700... If u have balance in medisave , all these medisave can cover .
 
I visited Dr Zou Yu Min last evening. Both me and husband felt more comfortable with a female sinseh than the previous sinseh. I forgot to bring my medical reports. So those seeing her for the first time, remember to bring all your medical reports to show her. My acupuncture starts this Friday, doing twice a week, for at least 2 months.
Hi paperclip, can check with you how much did Dr Zou charge you for first consultation?did she use a lot of needles on you?
 
sure, thanks sister! :)
haha... yes dr loh is very fast but we very comfortable with his mannerism and jokes cos he is very attentive and serious when we ask questions!
I was w Dr Loh before it becomes too expensive for me... i see celebrities at his clinic too. Shows how 'power' n reputable he is. maybe some of you ladies here are..
 
Hi,

I recalled someone here in this forum mentioned about seeing Dr Ban Choon Chan. Can't remember who, but I think it is papercIip. If you do intend to see him, please queue up kana before morning sun during the days that he is opened, if you want to be the first few in the queue. If not, let's say you turn up at after 9 a.m., the waiting time can easily be 2 to 3 hours minimum. So please be prepared.
 
Hi,

I recalled someone here in this forum mentioned about seeing Dr Ban Choon Chan. Can't remember who, but I think it is papercIip. If you do intend to see him, please queue up kana before morning sun during the days that he is opened, if you want to be the first few in the queue. If not, let's say you turn up at after 9 a.m., the waiting time can easily be 2 to 3 hours minimum. So please be prepared.

Haha.... I think best solution is to not go during weekends. Weekdays are actually quite comfortable =)

If weekdays, go around 10.30 - 11am, should be ok. If you still want to make it to work, start queuing up at 8am, you will probably be done around 9 or 9.30.

If weekends, go around 6am to queue up. Even if you go at 8.... also too late already. By that time the queue would be very long...
 
If $20 for consultation + $30 for acu + $10 for med, but the cashier uncle charged me $106 wor

U took 7 days of medicine right? 1 day is $8 for 4 packets. So medicine itself is $56 + consultation $20 + acu $30 = $106
I also have the same doubt when i visited her the 1st time. So i ask for the breakdown and uncle issued me a receipt
 
U took 7 days of medicine right? 1 day is $8 for 4 packets. So medicine itself is $56 + consultation $20 + acu $30 = $106
I also have the same doubt when i visited her the 1st time. So i ask for the breakdown and uncle issued me a receipt
Ah 原来如此... Thanks hearty15 :) if we stop her med, will it be less effective? Coz I feel the med very powdery to drink :p
 
Ah 原来如此... Thanks hearty15 :) if we stop her med, will it be less effective? Coz I feel the med very powdery to drink :p

Frankly, i am not sure. I had her medicine for 4-5 months but never see any significiant difference. But people always say tcm unlike western medicines, takes longer time to see results. I have stopped her medicine for 1 month already. Cause on many supplements now.
 
Hi, I used to be a silent reader of the forum. Now I'm on my first ivf cycle with egg retrieval scheduled tomorrow morning. Nervous and scared of any ovarian overstimulation symptoms

I have a bad upper abdominal pain last night after my trigger shot. Does anyone experience abdominal pain or side effects and I would appreciate all your advice..
 
Hi babe cramps or twingy feel or tug feel or pain is usually Normal with the jabs. I had diarrhea after my first iui back then then a day or 2 later there was sharp pain till I was rolling on the bed but it subsided after an hour. Rest more but if pain persists always call up your clinic to inquire
 
I read a post earlier .. why no beans and soy? So soy bean or tau hu also cant drink or eat? Cos tau hu is high in protein which is supposedly good for people on ivf?
 
Hey congrats gal...see the lining listen to yr prayers :). You went scan today ar. The follicle ruptured or still can see? When is et scheduled? Don't worry yr embbies are warriors and they will be reunited in you soon. Take egg whites res bean soup ensure milk immunocal kiwi avacado especially walnuts almonds sunflower and pumpkin seeds durian...things that will keep womb warm for babies.
Thanks sister ....
 
I am with Dr Loh and success under him. His scan is really fast. Every review end very fast as I dont have question for him. He only said good then I just presume everything is ok as I dont want to worry too much. I think he is very experience and confident on what is doing .
Hi sister you transferred Day 3 or day 5 embryo?
 
U took how many days of med. I remember med is range from $10-$15 per day? $106- $20-$30= cost of medication.
He gave me 7 days of med, so it comes up to the sum which hearty15 has calculated :)
I have ordered ubiquinol from iherbs, was thinking if I should eat both the western pills and tcm herbs.
 
Both of us have the same day result. Totally understand how you feel. I cried for two days and I stopped crying after seeing Dr Zou yesterday. She gave me the most comforting words ever and said she would try her best to help me and not to worry too much. I felt more relieved. By the way, my AF came a little on Saturday and full flow on Monday (yesterday). Today it got worse, really worse, lumps of blood clots came out, after taking the chinese medicine. The sinseh said the medicine is for clearing menses.

paperclip.. I am sorry to hear that! Only those who had gone thru ivf will truly understand how it feel!
oh you took Chinese medicine... what is it for? to fine tune your uterus? then AF came a lot a lot? Is it painful?
I didn't take Chinese medicine... I hope AF just come normal... :S
 
Hugs sister. Cry it out build your health and come back stronger. Tonnes of tears we sisters have shed in this journey. We have to persevere n achieve the goal. Take care.

mesara.. thanks! :)

I hope we sisters can all stop shedding tears! Not only we are affected, our DHs also walking the journey as us!

I also only have few years to persevere cos ivf has a cut off age. Now can only look forward, continue to build up health, follow doc's instructions, and pray!
 
Sparkling_ee, if do accupture only is $30. Front 20mins behind 20mins. Tummy I think 6needles legs 4. When poke at the back. Abt 6

#FAINT# so many needles and front & back is your pee and poo sides? sounds frightening painful!! :(
had made appointment with TMC TCM on Thursday afternoon to discuss which program is appropriate for me...
 
I was w Dr Loh before it becomes too expensive for me... i see celebrities at his clinic too. Shows how 'power' n reputable he is. maybe some of you ladies here are..

hahaha... char-mee... for sure I am not celebrity! and I did not see any celebrities.
Mostly I see foreigners!
 
#FAINT# so many needles and front & back is your pee and poo sides? sounds frightening painful!! :(
had made appointment with TMC TCM on Thursday afternoon to discuss which program is appropriate for me...

Patn are you with Tfc? If they didn't change the policy you can tell TMC Tcm that you are doing ivf with Tfc. They have discount for Tfc patient.
 
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#FAINT# so many needles and front & back is your pee and poo sides? sounds frightening painful!! :(
had made appointment with TMC TCM on Thursday afternoon to discuss which program is appropriate for me...
Don't worry patn, not all acu point r painful. Dr Zou put 5 on my tummy area, 2 on each leg, then 6 on the back. Mostly no feel until she connect with the electricity. She is very nice, she will talk to me while she do her needles so as to distract me from feeling scared. Ivf injections are far worse than acupuncture, if u can pass through those needles, you won't be scared of acupuncture :) don't worry, play some games while during acupuncture, it helps you to relax
 
Hi, I used to be a silent reader of the forum. Now I'm on my first ivf cycle with egg retrieval scheduled tomorrow morning. Nervous and scared of any ovarian overstimulation symptoms

I have a bad upper abdominal pain last night after my trigger shot. Does anyone experience abdominal pain or side effects and I would appreciate all your advice..
I do have bad pains after trigger jab. Think it's normal. Side effect of jab.
 
Time flies. Tho seems slow it's already 9dp2dt. Kind of worry kicked in. What if questions. Symptom and symptomless worry. Can't wait for bt day.
 
Time flies. Tho seems slow it's already 9dp2dt. Kind of worry kicked in. What if questions. Symptom and symptomless worry. Can't wait for bt day.
"If you Think about size of the blessing coming, you would Embrace the magnitude of the battle you are now fighting."
If you really have to think about it, focus on at least the one reason it will work and forget all the reasons why it won't work.
Focus on the possibility and hope of your bb in your tummy and in your arms eventually.
Just breath, keep breathing, keep occupied, get distracted and hang in there sister!
 
Hi ladies .. why no soy and beans during tww?
Must rem the most important thing is balanced diet, sufficient hydration and don't obssess as it will cause stress.
Soy food is not one of the foods that must be avoided absolutely. Taking it in moderation as part of a balanced diet is fine.
I personally avoid non-organic soy food more for risk of GMO on health regardless of TTC or IVF. Use of GMO corn crops is very prevalent in soy foods.
Soy has very high phytoestrogens (plant based estrogen) which is good for the body as long as not excessive. However I would instead take more of other varied source, e.g. red beans or any other beans, collard greens or most leafy veg. E.g. Adding 1-2 bowls of red bean soup has less risk of excess than adding 1-2 portions of soy food everyday.
 
#FAINT# so many needles and front & back is your pee and poo sides? sounds frightening painful!! :(
had made appointment with TMC TCM on Thursday afternoon to discuss which program is appropriate for me...
Dear sister. Don't worry too much. Different docs have different treatment preferences and also every patient is different so the acupuncture sites not always the same. The acu needles definitely not as painful as stim jabs, in fact, sometimes don't feel much.
I'm also at TMC TCM but under Dr Seah Ai Wei. You may be under another doc as Dr Seah only Mon, Wed & Thurs (morn). Jia you!
 
Must rem the most important thing is balanced diet, sufficient hydration and don't obssess as it will cause stress.
Soy food is not one of the foods that must be avoided absolutely. Taking it in moderation as part of a balanced diet is fine.
I personally avoid non-organic soy food more for risk of GMO on health regardless of TTC or IVF. Use of GMO corn crops is very prevalent in soy foods.
Soy has very high phytoestrogens (plant based estrogen) which is good for the body as long as not excessive. However I would instead take more of other varied source, e.g. red beans or any other beans, collard greens or most leafy veg. E.g. Adding 1-2 bowls of red bean soup has less risk of excess than adding 1-2 portions of soy food everyday.
I'm a loyal fan of dawn's nutrition talk :)
 
Patn are you with Tfc? If they didn't change the policy you can tell TMC Tcm that you are doing ivf with Tfc. They have discount for Tfc patient.

Yes bunny33 im with tfc.
I will let tmc tcm know. Thanks for sharing the info!! :)
 
Don't worry patn, not all acu point r painful. Dr Zou put 5 on my tummy area, 2 on each leg, then 6 on the back. Mostly no feel until she connect with the electricity. She is very nice, she will talk to me while she do her needles so as to distract me from feeling scared. Ivf injections are far worse than acupuncture, if u can pass through those needles, you won't be scared of acupuncture :) don't worry, play some games while during acupuncture, it helps you to relax

Haha... sure will try to get distracted.
Thx sparkling!!
 
Dear sister. Don't worry too much. Different docs have different treatment preferences and also every patient is different so the acupuncture sites not always the same. The acu needles definitely not as painful as stim jabs, in fact, sometimes don't feel much.
I'm also at TMC TCM but under Dr Seah Ai Wei. You may be under another doc as Dr Seah only Mon, Wed & Thurs (morn). Jia you!

DawnBb... thanks for sharing!
Will update you after my appt tml if we are under same doc. :)
 



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