Pregnant on the first try?

[zzlp]

hi

anyone succeeded on the 1st attempt of getting pregnant?

 

[guest28]

hi

If u r accurate in calculating ur fertile day, hv sex, u can success in 1st try. why not give it a try?

 

[bmine1]

Yes, for all my three pregnancies in fact.. They were so perfectly timed that all the edd are 2 weeks apart... Sadly, no.3 ended in a miscarriage.

Hubby never wanted no.3.. So it was a relief to him

... From then on, he never take chances.. Safety first!

 

[zzlp]

Well, I was hoping pregnant on 1st try but my period visited me in the end...

 

[bmine1]

New cycle, new hope

It helps if menses is very accurate..

 

[zzlp]

My hubby dun wan a baby yet.
He said he will give it 1 shot (no pun intended) and leave it to fate.
So now, I will just have to wait till he finally is ready to be a dad.

 

[ai_sakura]

bmine1: sorry for hear about your miscarriage

zzlp: like they said, if your cycle is regular.. you can plan it and high probability esp if you the "fertile" kind

good luck!

have you talked about what's holding him back from wanting to be a dad? is he worried about finances, or commitment etc. maybe he can have a look at the dadsforlife website for support from other dads.

Ai @ http://www.sakuraharuka.com

 

[zzlp]

Ai Sakura: yeap, he's worried abt finances.
Cos our flat will be ready by this yr end as well, so he doesn't want everything to clash.
It's v frustrating for me. Cos I know what he says n thinks makes alot of sense, but I just feel what the heck rite? No need to plan & plan mah...
Bleah~~

 

[nelle_nelle]

Mine was a literal "one-shot-wonder". After a few years of protected sex, we decided it was time for a baby and one time of no protection it was.

So for those who are not ready yet, don't count on no protection. Never know when the arrow hits the mark!

 

[moorspa7]

Yes, it happened to me twice, the first was on the wedding night. When I had protected sex, nothing happens. However, when i had unprotected sex(which i never agreed to), I'll get pregnant. My cycle is not regular n I didn't calculate. Both are unplanned pregnancies, so I was scared of getting pregnant again cos I didn't plan to hv kids. I hv no fear of being pregnant now, as my marriage is on the rocks.

Like what nelle mentioned, don't count on no protection when u are not ready for kids. It can create problems later if there is no mutual agreement. I just wish I was more assertive then.