wendysu
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Can anyone tell me how to discipline a spoil brat?
I had tried our best to teach him and punish him accordingly, but soft and hard approach does not works at all.
He will stomp his feet, run and slam the door, refuse to eat by himself, doing homework need to coax him for a long time, bully his sister, talk all kind of nonsense he pick up from schoolmates, roar and behave like animals, keep complaining when take public transport, when air con is off he will complain hot and want us to turn on, talk back to us and when he don't get what he want, he will throw tantrum and show his temper, shout at us when we turn down his request, shout and talk loudly to adults, easily frustrate and many many others. We really at a loss! It is not that we never teach him or explain to him, have been reminding him numerous times, received countless bad feedback about his behaviour.
His younger sister is picking up all these bad example and I am finding myself a failure mother who is unable to teach my 2 kids. I did punish them but they wasn't afraid at all, for e.g. when i cane them, they throw tantrum and keep crying and shouting, at home is still fine but the noise level is intolerable , when outside, everyone will be staring at us.
Can anyone teach me what to do? So stressful to handle this 2 devils at home, especially for my son who is entering primary one next year and yet he still cannot be independent. Actually in school he is able to accomplish all this task as there is no maid to help him and he was force to do everything by his own, but at home, he act like a king and refused to do thing by himself.
Really need help!
I had tried our best to teach him and punish him accordingly, but soft and hard approach does not works at all.
He will stomp his feet, run and slam the door, refuse to eat by himself, doing homework need to coax him for a long time, bully his sister, talk all kind of nonsense he pick up from schoolmates, roar and behave like animals, keep complaining when take public transport, when air con is off he will complain hot and want us to turn on, talk back to us and when he don't get what he want, he will throw tantrum and show his temper, shout at us when we turn down his request, shout and talk loudly to adults, easily frustrate and many many others. We really at a loss! It is not that we never teach him or explain to him, have been reminding him numerous times, received countless bad feedback about his behaviour.
His younger sister is picking up all these bad example and I am finding myself a failure mother who is unable to teach my 2 kids. I did punish them but they wasn't afraid at all, for e.g. when i cane them, they throw tantrum and keep crying and shouting, at home is still fine but the noise level is intolerable , when outside, everyone will be staring at us.
Can anyone teach me what to do? So stressful to handle this 2 devils at home, especially for my son who is entering primary one next year and yet he still cannot be independent. Actually in school he is able to accomplish all this task as there is no maid to help him and he was force to do everything by his own, but at home, he act like a king and refused to do thing by himself.
Really need help!
