lemon tart
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Praying for u and do update us!
IVF/ICSI Support Group
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GreenTeaLatte
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Hugz char-Mee..
️purpledragon
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Hugz hugz. But pardon me. Thot your hcg got increased?
purpledragon
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Hugz. Dont sian. You never know. Jia you!
GreenTeaLatte
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Babe.. Talk to embbies every now and then.. Don't give up!!
Domokunn
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Thanks @purpledragon @GreenTeaLatte just upset with myself n devastating when the nurse told me mine is only 2 digits.
Pass few days was having brown discharge and had a feeling AF is reporting. Not a good sg50 for me after all.
Pass few days was having brown discharge and had a feeling AF is reporting. Not a good sg50 for me after all.
char-mee
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Yes but it's not at the rate of viable pregnancy. I had similar situation in my previous mc too.
Nurse did say if not viable (readings not good), Dr will meet me earlier to advise... likely termination.
char-mee
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hugz together... not quite the same situation but the same anxiety and fear we feel are really heart wrenching.
lemon tart
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Babe keep hanging on..pray for your embryos....keep fighting..
Jia you..I went through that as well.. I cried the moment I hang up after knowing the result..so I know how devastating your current state now. It's not easy to cope with it. But I believe all of us hv the strength to go thru that pick ourselves up..
Hmm..sorry to hear that..this is after your tww and now into third week after ET is it?
char-mee
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yes. past 3 weeks from ET.
Well, I still have 2 days for this jubilee weekend... will do things to make me happy.
Happy National day everyone!
Bbshower, I'm like you... Start having spotting after BFP... Now is like getting heavier... I'm so worried .. My 1st scan is on nx wed.
Lucky baby
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My boss bought me one big package of chicken essence too. Very touch. However I am quite angry with her cos she leaks out some information of my HL to my fellow colleagues.
dearestmom
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1st day of AF (full flow) but clinic will only be open on Tuesday 
hoping to be able to proceed with ivf this month as blood test expires on Sept
hoping to be able to proceed with ivf this month as blood test expires on SeptYoyo...i had gone to kkh on alternate days coz thurs heavy spotting and this morning 5am clot blood came out...really scarry...very sianz dunnoe why is this pregnancy like that really worried miscarriage.today manage to hear baby heartbeat...just dunnoe whr does the clot blood came from...very stressful pregnancy...have no appetite and bad morning sickness. Somex really feel like want to abort this pregnancy.scared its not healthy.
Yoyo...i had gone to kkh on alternate days coz thurs heavy spotting and this morning 5am clot blood came out...really scarry...very sianz dunnoe why is this pregnancy like that really worried miscarriage.today manage to hear baby heartbeat...just dunnoe whr does the clot blood came from...very stressful pregnancy...have no appetite and bad morning sickness. Somex really feel like want to abort this pregnancy.scared its not healthy.
Jia you..
Yoyo my actual scanning day was coming wednesday. Since the spotting was heavy so i went to O&G emergency thats where they took the virginal scanning. Thurs cannot see heartbeat..lucky today manage to hear n see the heartbeat althght its still quite weak. I was told to increase the progesterone to 3 per days. If you are still bleeding i think you should go down and check as they may give u an injection.At first the gynae wanted to give me the injection.But second thghts she said my bleeding stop already so nvr give me as the injection is painful. Gynae did mentioned 1 in 5pregnancy will have miscarriage which is quite worrying. Jiayou together ya.
joeykw
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@bbshower [USER=182228]@yoyo13 I pray for u 2, everything gonna be alrite. Keep positive mind, waiting to receive baby dust from u 2 ok? Take gd care, +U!
Counting down for my BT....[/USER]
Counting down for my BT....[/USER]
MyBaby73
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If U are pregnant n bleeding Pls go o&g 24hr clinic for jab. Even though bleeding has stop but Progestrone jab is still impt as it can help stabilize the pregnancy. Even though some miscarriage will occur no matter how U try to save it, it is still worth a try.
So if U are bleeding Pls don't wait n see how. Go n get support jab.
So if U are bleeding Pls don't wait n see how. Go n get support jab.
MyBaby73
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Day 3 scan n start jab is not too late. Many short protocol start day 2 or day3 does not matter much.1st day of AF (full flow) but clinic will only be open on Tuesday
Thanks Joey , that's what I say lo... Even BT +ve, still early to be happy.
Thanks , I more like spotting and today got a brown discharge .. I go dwn o&a Tmr ...
For me, I start to spot 2 days aft my BT. I went O&G immed to check, and request for jab.
To me its important to get as much additional support as can be.
Oh no.. You hv done your best. So just rest well and cry if need be.
tryingtoconceive2014
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Well, it is not unusual for IVF not to succeed during the first try. My cousin's wife (they are both residing in Taiwan) only succeeded during her 3rd try of IVF but that is after she went to tcm to tiao her body for 1 year. She was almost giving up all hope that the third IVF will succeed, but she ended up with twins, 1 boy and 1 girl, who are now 10 years old.
Thanks so much for your advice
i actually have a bb gal who is 3 conceived naturally. But after her, hub's sperm quality went very bad and no good news from then.tryingtoconceive2014
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Thanks so much for your advice
If your husband is not the conventional/traditional believer, may consider going to tcm to tiao to improve sperm quality too, perhaps. Just a suggestion.
Yup. We already went to dr tan at clementi for a couple of months. But stopped when we decided to go for ivf. I think we gotta resume that.
Sincere thanks for your suggestion. I hope his sperms will be cooperative by oct.
I've been really naggy abt the issue and it is not healthy for us.
tryingtoconceive2014
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Okay. Please resume the tcm for both yourself and your husband. Does Dr Tan know that you are going for IVF?
Can talk things out with your husband; or maybe ask Dr Tan what other things your husband can do, besides taking tcm, to improve his sperm quality?
Still some 2 months away, before the next IVF. So there is still hope.
Hie Skmm... A nurse recommended my husband to take CoQ10 somehow it help. I be doing Ivf somewhr in oct.Hi all,
I'm new to this forum and will be attending the ivf briefing in Sept. The issue i face is hub's poor SA results.
Would like to know if there are similar cases and if success is high?
Thanks in advance
the_spinsterella
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Yah it's unexpected. Did the doctor tell you why? Mine said probably female/male factor. But oh well, I hope it is a warrior indeed! *hugs to you too*
dearestmom
Member
Just finished my 1st scan
Lining is 4.7 so it's ok to proceed with the injections.. Fuhh!!
Lining is 4.7 so it's ok to proceed with the injections.. Fuhh!!
joeykw
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Jia you lo~Just finished my 1st scan
Lining is 4.7 so it's ok to proceed with the injections.. Fuhh!!
hi babe,
lets jia you tog, also have to go for 2nd fresh..... sigh
due to time constraint will be going for short protocol instead.
lovetohavekids
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Actually, you really don't have to worry too much about your husband's soldiers. My husband's soldiers are also of bad quality. I had asked Dr. Matthew if that's the reason why my IVFs were not successful. He told me traditionally they treat the women because for men, out of the millions of soldiers, they had already selected that best ones so it should not be the problem when IVF is unsuccessful. So if your eggs and womb have no problem at all, you probably don't have to worry too much about IVF being unsuccessful. Be positive ok?
babyhope1981
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hi ladies *wave*, i am new in this forum..
basically i've been have menses issue for 15yrs.. stopped menstruating altogether.. tests did not show anything.. doctors gave me medicine to regulate menses (similar to those taken for contraception) but i've developed serious side effects and forced to stop for years.
Recently i tried to take this brand yaz and it kinda worked for me.. so far not much side effects.. menses came at day 26 although not much (ard 3 days)..
my qns is.. anyone having same problem? does this means that i can no longer conceive even with IVF?
basically i've been have menses issue for 15yrs.. stopped menstruating altogether.. tests did not show anything.. doctors gave me medicine to regulate menses (similar to those taken for contraception) but i've developed serious side effects and forced to stop for years.
Recently i tried to take this brand yaz and it kinda worked for me.. so far not much side effects.. menses came at day 26 although not much (ard 3 days)..
my qns is.. anyone having same problem? does this means that i can no longer conceive even with IVF?
hello babyhope1981, i took yaz for quite few years but i suggest not to take it cause there's still side effects from the medication and could affect chance of conceiving. imo only. best to still seek doc's advice of course.
for myself my mense was messy close to a year plus after i stopped the medication... have you tried tcm?
babyhope1981
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Hihi, tried tcm on and off over the years but no help. Now trying this tcm at lavender.. I took yaz as I wanted to "restart" the cycle after so many years.. while trying to seek help from tcm etc.. but menses by taking these med doesn't mean still got eggs right?
dearestmom
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Thank you @joeykw!! Jia you to all of us
connie_hopeful
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Yes, doc told after et,if day 1 to 3 embrie fail to fertilise,most prob is due to old eggs. If day 3 to 6 after et it failed to grow well,most prob is male issues. Male issue does play a part although its icsi cycle. it takes 3 to clap- e sperm,e egg and e womb condition
Beyond that, i am not sure as i havent managed to cross e stage after day 6 for my frozen embries to stay alive. At least u still have 1 n it may be e 1
@Domokunn and @char-mee Hugzz gals. It's tragic and tough when things like this happen. Persevere and move on. My first bfp mc when hcg was 13000 and second when hcg was 4000. Really cud not handle the loss. It's super painful. Heart was super heavy eyes super teary and mind weary. Wat to do...just pray and move on over time. Take time to heal and get back on your heels ladies. Hope and prayers will definitely let us succeed.