Crispy,
Know that Dr Ho is very experienced and highly recommended by my GP when i first found out i was pregnant. However, i later had a miscarriage (baby heart beat stopped). Upset as we were, we never thot anybody is at fault but had really wanted to understand what could be the reasons and hopefully take better care for the next pregnancy. As what you have experienced, he was rather impatient and unwilling to explain much. At one pt, even told my hubby that there're many books which my hubby can read up if interested.
No doubt i believe that he is a highly experienced and skilled gynae, but in circumstances like ours, I would prefer him to be more sympathetic and less curt. Afterall, at most time, we wait for 1 to 2 hours just to see him. don't think it's too much to require 1 or 2 mins more of his time. Anyway, I have now switched to another gynae who is equally skilled and welcomes all my questions. In fact, in my 2nd pregnancy, he did such a good job taking care of me and my anxiety that i truly enjoyed the whole pregnancy experience. Best of all, i do not have to wait long for my appointment each time; ave 30 min cos' he gives his patients ample time slot.
As for Dr Ho, I still regard him as one of the gynaes with the best stitching skills (from what i hear). But for me, the most important thing is that I need to be comfortable with the doc. Afterall, we only get pregnant once or twice in our life.