Dear forum members.
Before I risk putting any of you off, PLEASE DO YOUR OWN RESEARCH BEFORE SUBJECTING YOUR CHILD TO GENITAL MUTILATION.
Now:
I wish to raise an issue that many of you, as mothers and parental guardians, may have to make a decision on. (Though it shouldn’t be a decision, just like not cutting out an eye or removing a toe shouldn’t be a decision).
Forced genital mutilation, sometimes known as circumcision, is a practice that continues to this day in the USA for a variety of reasons including; misinformation, misguidedness, profit, anti-masturbation hysteria.
I, personally, suffered this procedure at around the age of 10 as a ‘treatment’ for issues of bed wetting and possible phimosis. Absolute mal-practice. Bed wetting, and related issues, are common in 5% of the population at that age and decline naturally as the individual matures. Phimosis can easily be treated by stretching. Also, Phimosis is NEVER an issue in immature children, it can only exist in males that have begun puberty.
1. Mutilating your child’s genitals provides NO health benefits.
2. It is extremely damaging psychologically and physically.
3. You wouldn’t mutilate your daughter…
4. It continues as a practice for reasons of greed.
5. At the very least, let your child CHOOSE to get it when he is a consenting adult – if he wants to (which he won’t assuming he has learnt how to use Google)
1. In order to prove 1 requires a very mild understanding of logic. USA = high circumcision and high rates of STIs, Europe = low circumcision and low rates of STIs. That should be fairly simple to understand.
Studies that say otherwise are easily debunked, for example: A study shows less UTI’s in circumcised males. This study is comparing full circumcision to babies whose mothers retract their foreskin. DO NOT RETRACT YOUR BABIES’ FORESKIN. The foreskin is designed to protect the glans (head) of the penis. Your child will retract it when he’s ready (around puberty). Another study shows lower rates of STI’s amongst circumcised populations. This is comparing Islamic states (high religious societal control) with non-Islamic states… go figure.
2. There are a great deal of studies that show how trauma as a baby can impact on your subconscious throughout your entire life.
3. Male and female genital mutilation are equivalent in damage. Why then would you do that to your son? (youtube) /watch?v=98f3IavuEgQ
4. thewellspring (dot) [com]/flex/myth-circumcision-is-neither-harmful-nor-painful/2617/circumcision-who-profits.cfm & norm-uk (dot) [org]/where_do_foreskins_go.html
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If you have already circumcised your child, I understand that it could be difficult to face this information. Please do not close up about it, instead – spread the word, and when your child comes of age explain that you did what the doctor advised. Don’t let it ruin your relationship with your child, they WILL have the internet and they WILL know how to use it to find out the truth, better they hear it from you than that they discover it by other means and blame you for it.
Sources:
http://circumcisionnews.blogspot.co.uk/2011/09/debunking-another-myths-article.html (In depth debunking of myths)
http://circumcisionnews.blogspot.co.uk/2010/05/fatally-flawed-bollingers-circumcision.html (More in depth debunking of myths)
(PhD presentation on genital mutilation)
http://www.notjustskin.org/node/7 (FAQ on genital mutilation)
http://momsnotbombs.blogspot.co.uk/2012/03/difference-between-intact-cut.html (NSFW, explicit images documenting the difference)
(The similarity between male and female mutilation)
https://www.youtube.com/user/canadiangirlstalk (2 Canadian girls that are actively against forced genital mutilation)
(Dutch documentary “Mum, why did you circumcise me?”
(Mutilated at 18, speaks candidly about his loss)
(An entire playlist of women talking out against mutilation, starting with ‘A mother’s regret’)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y7F...t=PL3AAD8FA7F462D698&feature=results_main (An entire playlist of men talking out against mutilation)
https://www.youtube.com/user/Bonobo3D?feature=watch (A youtube channel with a good set of videos)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z8izJ6odbCo&feature=youtu.be (This guy is awesome)
Other resources:
http://www.notjustskin.org/
http://www.foreskin-restoration.net/forum
http://www.nocirc.org/
http://norm.org/
http://www.foregen.org/
http://www.tlctugger.com/
http://www.circumstitions.com/
http://circumcisionnews.blogspot.co.uk/
http://www.genitalautonomy.org/about-ga/