not easy.. my hb quite skeptical about getting helper. ask him to source, don't want to source, then i also dunno how to choose, i tried 1 b4, then hb complained like not so clean, he kept saying he can do it. so ok, i let him , sometimes he will do it. but not consistently every sat he will do it automatically, i hv to remind him about doing hsework. He can juz postphone to sun and never do. so end up i do myself.
i started to engage pt maid several mths ago , coz #1 getting more active, it's harder for me to cope with doing hsework. So i will continue doing that. But i am thinkg of having a perm maid ...
mummies, share share which gynae r u seeing? I am seeing paul tseng..