Re: Urine Test,
I nv leh.. I only go once only btw.. haa.. For my #1, i only started testing for urine is abt at 16weeks after with each visit i go see gyane.. =)
blessedchild: when u mean early.. How early is it? haa..
littlepig: i truly believe every child is a blessing and gift to us, parents. I'm not sure how u guys conceive ur #2? If u didn't plan for it shouldn't u take some precation?
I'm not sure how u thk but for me i'll jolly well keep the baby. Tho this is my 2nd pregnancy. My #1, which is a boy name Lele,乐乐. I lost him at 25 weeks due to placenta abruption. As much as i wanna keep him till full term but things jus didn't turn out the way i wanted it to be..
So i really hope u could keep the baby.
Like what blessed child said, things will get fine. You will auto adjust to the life and get used to it very fast. I had friends who's kid is merely just 4-6 months and she is pregnant with #2 le.. So if they can manage then why cant u?
If eventually, u guys will still wan a 2nd kid den might as well keep this. Dont ever think abt going for abortion. He/she is ur baby, there are so many others are there who had so much difficulties to have babies, jus wanna have 1 baby, they faced so much obstacles. They tried all methods jus to get pregnant.
Take BBT, using OPK, checking cervix, go scanning during O period. See TCM, anything u name it they have done it. So out urself in their shoe? If u r one of them, would u still wanna abort ur bb? No what!
I mean if u r offended by what i said den i'm really sorry. I dont know how can pple nv think of other alternative and jus thk striaght to abort it. Or maybe if u have tot of other alternatives.. i dont know. But seeking an abortion is definitely not a way to it. And reason for not keeping it is u r afraid tat u cant cope with 2 young kids is also not an excuse.. I personally think..
If, u dont intend to keep this bb and when u r ready to try for #2 again, u ran into all sorts of troubles getting pregnant and eventually u went to gyane n he say u might not be able to get pregnant again, wouldn't u be so regret that u din keep this bb?
I mean think thoroughly.. Hope u r not offended by what i said.
Each baby is a gift. =)
ANyway mummies, Good afternoon,
I jus finish 2 weeks worth of laundry.. haa..
Abt being a queen, i totally dont have for my #1 nor #2!! Despite i lost my boy which is my #1, id also dont get queen treatment from hubby this time round. I tot i expect him to be a little more anxious, a little more concerned, hope he will read up more abt pregnancy.
NONONONONO!! NOTHING!! So pissed off!!! argghhh!! Really angry with him, cuz at times i really felt he dont care at all.. Even when i carry my heavy laptop, he also dont offer to help me carry even i told him it is heavy... Wah Lao EH!! Jus so 白目..
Cannot be a little more considerate de lo.. So i really envy those who hubby treat u like queen... So care n concern u kind, scare u too tried scare u carry to heavy stuffs.. Hold u when wlaking jus in case u trip.. NTH...
Ytd we walk up a slop with his friend n he n his friend walk infront i was all left alone BEHIND!! he din even offer to help me or what... Din even LOOKED BACK!! So feel like boxing him lo..arrgghhh!!!
Ok.. Abt e happy things.. At least he take note of what i wanna eat.. After all e complain abt him.. haa..
sHARE WIF U ALL my ba zhang... keke.. =D