yumii,
no need to dry them out. i immediately take out and close. probably just need to dry the outer part.
ayana,
yes that's how it is usually - for me up to 7 months i'm seeing gynae once a month. during 9mth will be once every 2 weeks and last month once a week.
re binder, honestly i could not tahan wearing the bind for whole day. i wear only till afternoon then i took it off when taking a shower

my massage lady last time nag me a lot and told me should tahan until the next morning. but it was really uncomfortable.
re:maternity pads,
Just bought 1 pack of kotex with adhesive to use initially. Will then change to the overnight cotton pads. I only bought 3 packets in total. Hopefully enough!
re:thermometer,
I have both the ear one (pigeon brand) and the infrared one. Agree that infrared not that accurate but it will be useful to take temp particularly at night so as not to disturb the baby/kids. Another reason why I bought it is so that I can take measurement every morning for my son prior to going to school. If I use the ear one - will be wasting a lot of cover so in the end cheaper
re:nursing bra,
I haven't got mine yet but I'll be getting from spree. During my #1, I bought some cheap bras for night time from CK dept store at Kovan/Chinatown. Very cheap and can survive 1 year which is more than enough. But these days seems like nursing bras from spree are much nicer so I wanna give it a try.
re: pump for delivery,
Did not bring pump during #1, and I requested for full breastmilk so the nurse will brign baby over every 2-3 hours. Anyways, latch on should be able to stimulate breastmilk better and frist few days the BM will not be a lot.