Irene, you're not paranoid, just being careful. i do that, too, waking up just to check that my girl is still breathing
Being a mother, you can somehow sense your baby. there have been a few occassions where we've put her to sleep, closed the door as the aircond was on, and went about doing our stuff. my mom was in the hall watching tv but at lowest volume, me in the kitchen washing the feeding stuff. but i sensed that my baby was crying and told my mom. my mom asked whether i was sure and true enough, when we opened the door, she was crying but not loud enough to be heard, face all wet with tears, so kelian