Thanks mummies, the thalessemia is minor. so not so big deal. just next time must be careful when choosing a wife.
looking back, I thank God for the blood in stools issue, that led us to test his blood, discovered his low blood count and leading us to do a test for thalessemia. It's quite important coz we donated his cord blood to the public blood bank. have to call them to let them know this new finding.
as for sleep apnea, we did a sleep study already and the result is severe sleep apnea. if do another one will be another $2k.

. we're going to see the surgeon today. in a way it's a 2nd opinion as it's a different doc and he deals with pediatric patients too.
not sure if i posted, but i've always noticed that mattias will start yawning and rubbing his eyes, looking tired, the moment he wakes up and throughout his waking moments. been thinking about his quality of sleep for a long time. since young, can hear him snoring too.
just read that excessive sweating is a sign of sleep apnea too. and tt's exactly the case for Mattias, he can wake up in a patch of sweat.
just read up on the surgery, Adenotonsillectomy and seems like last time, alot of people just went for it even without any real medical reason. it's not really invasive and seems to have little side effects.
but having undergone 2 surgeries myself, though the problem areas got corrected but one left me with weak and scarred muscles, another caused my nerve at my chin to be damaged. I feel really relunctant to let Mattias go through a surgery, there'll definitely be some scar tissues somewhere.
If left untreated, he might grow less, have poorer memory, be ADHD and in future develop hypertension or heart diseases.
But I thank God that this is not some life-threatening disease. Or like littlelamb mentioned, something bigger like kidney failure.
still praying very hard that God will lead us in desicion making. Only He knows what the future holds and He is Mattias' creator, so He knows best. [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/happy.gif]