<font color="119911">Valentine</font>,
yup, that's why feeding and burping him are the MAJOR task during his first mth. but now, his feeding improved (now on 90ml every 2-2.5hr but need lot of burping in between if not merlion), will take 10-30mins. but burping is another issue. if my mum did not help out, then I faintz....wor...cos need to pump etc...so by the time, pump finish, need to feed bb...like dun need to slp....
<font color="119911">miss83</font>,
re:BM leaking
same same....after bath or when carrying bb upright then bb 's hand will brush against the b...so will stimulate flow. anyway, bm still miserable. heard fr a mummy who has given birth in early april, her bm super gd. 7-8 days also can pump 150ml. wow piang, this amt only took me 2mth to establish only.
during her first preggie, she can pump 1litre or more per day...envy but she said this 2nd preggies, she dun want to pump so much cos bb not drinking much and also dun plc to store(bought 2 fridge some more).
re:eat a lot.
yeah, eat a lot during CL till increase weight of 9.8kg man...sad sad.
<font color="119911">pups/miss83</font>,
re

oos after change diapers.
yup, it is taxing. for me, during CL time, CL said she will plc nappy liner onto diapers so she only remove the liner since bb only poos a bit by bit.
anyway, my boy only use diaper during night time.
<font color="119911">♥♀steph♥♂ </font>,
what is yr boy feeding interval? my boy feed 90ml every 2hr now (improve liao unlike last time, need to feed him small amt like 30ml every hr). night time, he will wake up 3-7hrly depending...
I also don't feel breast engorged/letdown often when i pump every 5 now. ask u...since u are latching on at night, will u still pump out after bb feed?
but yr bb still want to latch on after bottle fed. I only latch my boy after 8pm cos want to watch tv mah....my boy depends on his mood, sometimes will latch on but sometimes too pek chek cos milk flow not only slow but nipple so 'pong pong' or soft, he found it hard to latch it. so he will scream, gek face red red and then become angry (dun want to drink liao just close his eyes or look ard then scream again).
me will only go bck to work on 22/6.
<font color="119911">missycandy</font>,
throw slpsuit....so wasted wor. just soaked it oovernight with powder. I also waste the soiled nappy cloth(he will poos 2-3 days and it is a big major project cos he poos a lot till wet his shorts, shirt, nappy pants, clothes plc under him and even stains my clothes) like siao if my boy poos out of it.
true, tbf mummy need to ctrl what they eat. either cut down these type of food like spicy, chocolate, coffee, tea, alchole (will plc into fish souo and boiled) etc....usually, tbf bb does poos often after 2mth.
<font color="119911">jtho</font>,
dun give up bf leh....think of the cost of fm, benefit of bb drinking bm....I also got that miserable amt during my first mth....u gd liao can pump up to 400ml...I only can reach 355ml during first mth.
how long u pump each session? now, my boy is coming to 3mth next wk (actual age is only full mth), can pump fr 520ml - 700ml(took me 50mins per pump to get that amt) only...depending what I eat...if i eat cod fish, salmon and payaya then milk supply will be much better.
one mummy who have a very miserable bm, cna only pump 20ml per pump but she still happily pump out for her bb to drink. she has been doing it for the past 6mth liao....cheers....jiayou dun give up.
<font color="119911">pups</font>,
u gd liao..can manage 2 kids wor...I can't. now, my mum helped me loh...hmm yr no 1 similar age as my no 1 loh.
<font color="119911">Devil</font>,
mentioning abt no1 jealous over no#2.now, my gar (28mth), she will get scolded and beaten daily. she will go and play with water in the toilet, play with the cream (nappy rash, papa's lotion, my lightening cream etc), soap, powder (pour the 'tie da jiu' into the powder), rice, etc....
now no#1 is gg thru the neglection pharse as now that most attention goes to #2, they are trying to get attention. some more, they also being curious, of texture & mixing things together & seeing the change in end results.
true, my gar also purposely make thing to make us angry. dun want to scold also can't tahan. now and then, what no#2 did, my gar also want. eg, bath, she want to bath the first one. when no#2 get up fr his rocker, she will go and suit onto the rocker and rock, carry the teddy and then even eat his pacifier. she also got scolded daily for being disturbing no#2 in his rocker during his slp time. she will kept shouting, poking no#2. then when we asked her no to disturb, she said she sayang didi. another time, she told my mum that dun carry didi and also she wanted hug hug and carry during milk. fainz....
<font color="119911">sung</font>,
re. 6-in-1
gd to have it....so that only 4 doses for bb (3-5mth and 18mth).
polyclinic charges $326.xx for the 6 in 1 jab. my boy will be gg for his first dose next wk. can use CDA a/c (applied to those having no#2).
so far, I have been travelling to polyclinic for my boy jaurdice few times and his 2nd dose of Hep B. dun need to wait (except seeing doc only, max wait if 15mins if not, just go and then will be yr turn). I just scan the health book and then will be given a smaller no. the staff there told me there will be priority for bb less than 2mth. maybe my west side polyclinic here got 1 section focus on bb jab one...
<font color="119911">Kris,misscandy, irene</font>,
same same, ever i had no2...hubby and I dun seem to agree on things....me already so tired and pek chek but he can slp thru the night without hearing bb crying...so I shouted at him and asked him if he wanted me to die or not cos I dunno I can ta han till when....normal wkday, my mum helped me out if not, I faintz....so during wkend, I told hubby that he must help out...
dunno why this man so sensitive....now...hai...
<font color="119911">Srumpee\bluebell</font>,
do u go and see doc? paracetemol dun affect bf. ok to give....why not place cold cabbage on yr b, it will help...
how long u take to pump per session?
<font color="119911">alfafa77</font>,
bb so young...not scared kana infection (touch woods) outside....for me, will only bring after 6mth (only to in laws hse). will ta han till 1 yr then bring him to shop cos thinking of bringing bb out, sian....need lot of barang barang. so more, rushing bck to pump too....
re:terrible 2...
think now, i'm 'suffering...for no#1...see posting to devil.
<font color="119911">prosper</font>,
heartpain to throw 400ml ebm wor...