Long time dint hav time to check the posts...saw some interesting topics being discussed...
Diapers
Tried Pampers n Huggies for NB...Ya Huggies Ultra NB ultra fitting...yesterday nite my mom fed him n felt something cooling down her leg...not milk but his poo!! My mom freaked out n i lost all sleepiness...we changed into Fitti brand...e Huggies Diapers a gift frm my frien so cant sell on e forum...
Sleep/Feeding
BB sleeps better w swaddle for 1st mth, i tink...if full swaddle makes ur bb sweat, try 1/2 swaddle...ie leave his hands free...my boy likes to sleep w his arms spread out...but muz put a husky pillow over his chest to make him feel @ ease...i place one side over his heart so tat got some ss...
Feeding By 4th wk, bbs should consume 140-150ml a feed...nowadays when my breasts r engorged, they feel kinda itchy, guess e MS is increasing. I can pump up to 140ml when breasts very full...
Most of e time, e MS ranges frm 80-120ml...
Cost of FM...itz really costly; for those w more than 1 child, really muz budget but new parents probably get waz convenient...tink muz applaud those who try ur best to cut costs...i muz learn frm u...
Changing of Diapers
I try to change him everytime he finishes his feed, taz 3-4 hrs. My hb better @ smelling poo...donno waz wrong w my nose.
My bb usually more relaxed when his soiled diaper is changed...then he continues his unfinished feed...
Bathing
I have started to bathe him in e morn n sponge him in e evening...initially very scary cos hez so wobbly but after 4-5 times, i kinda enjoy cos i like to b clean clean...jus tat one needs to b fast in bathing n helping him to wear clothes so as not to catch a chill...Sponging ard 10 min; Bathing ard 15 min...
Miss83, noe ur worries...sometimes we jus need to b brave n spend time communicating w e bb...i for 1 not a very expressive mom...so spending time to talk n play w e child is like stepping out of my comfort zone...moreover, i hav yet to stk up on mobile toys n nursery rhymes so i try to talk n sing impromptu a lot w e bb...u muz really hav energy to talk 2 e bb...
Last but not least, whether TOTAL BF/TOTAL FM/ Partial or Combi BM/FM...
Guess it al boils down to ur...
a. endurance (how long u can th)
b. availability (how much is ur MS)
c. convictions (beliefs on BF)
Do not let others sway ur decision...SAHM w sufficient MS can do it @ a longer period
Those going back to work...can do EBM/ FM or Combi...
As long as bb is growing healthily n e caretaker enjoys taking care of him, taz wat really matters...besides BBhood is juz e starting, there r still many milestones to overcome...
In no time, our little ones will grow up n b sensible kids...hopefully!
I heard tat if bbs r hard to manage in e beginning, e moms will hav an easier time later on n vice versa...Not sure how true this is...
Oh, my bb n i doing our hair n ritual this week to signify his full month n my end to confinement...cant wait n b free frm confinement!
Will share when i bring him out on his virgin trip to outdoor...