Had such a trying teleconversation w MIL just now. Feel like vomit blood.
Think she still didn't get my point and I guess I also didn't want to spell out directly to her.
Actually yday I called ILs' place but PILs were out of town to play golf. End up is hb's auntie who picked up the call, she came over to jagar the house and maid.
So ok tdy I called, to tell MIL I prefer not to let hb's bro's wife carry bb as she is pregnant.
I told her I'm worried cos she is pregnant plus bb is quite strong may accidentally kick her.
MIL said oh it's ok, no need to worry, that she (hb's bro's wife) even carried her own daughter (hb's niece).
I repeated myself, and MIL still didn't get it. She still thinks it's ok to let her carry bb.
So I just left it at that.
Then she asked how bb is, so I just said ever since CNY eve, she was abit cranky, didn't want to sleep at night. Then she suggested alot of things, say shd not carry bb too much.
I knw it sounds like she's just giving advice, but duno why sounds so irritating on me.
Cos I told her bb does not like people who are not familiar w her, to carry her. MIL said, that's why must bring her out every morning to go walk in the park to see things.
I said, every morning, she's still asleep, so she won't be going out but we bring bb to the playgrd every evening and she likes it.
Actually, I just stopped short of telling MIL, bb will cry if the person whom she doesn't like, to carry her. Cos bb cried when certain people carried her. Basically she doesn't quite like hb's relatives. To quote an eg, during CNY eve, at ILs' place where all his relatives gathered, Chevelle cried and seems she didn't seem at ease with them. When my aunt fr my mum's side carried Chevelle, she was ok. And it was the first time my aunt carried her cos she missed her manyue.
Then I also disliked the thing abt MIL telling me to bring bb out to walk every morning. She thinks I v eng like that? Every morning?? She must be crazy! If I'm working, where got time in the morning to bring bb out to walk walk.
She only knws how to talk and say, but she doesn't realise it's the person doing it who has to do it, has to put in the effort.