Giggler,
Nope, no help yet. I'm still doing ALL the housework myself. But I need to get one soon. I'm getting heavier and it's harder to move around and bend over. And I want to try out the part time help, otherwise, if no good, then I'm stuck. Last minute hard to find.
We'll do the food tasting in Dec then. Still have til end dec/early Jan to book if we want early bird special.
Ah ger,
As I mentioned, for me & my hb, we also believe, same as Stella, that bb must be trained to be independent. And husband and wife should sleep in our own bed. The hb/wife relationship should not change when the bb is born. Our MBR also has very little space. Definitely no place for a big cot. BB will sleep in our room in his own little bassinet for the first 4-6 wks. Then he's got a nice big cot waiting for him together with his jie-jie Sarah in the other room. He wil move in with her after that. Yes, I will be 'running' about if he cries in the night. But not every cry will bring me running. Only the 'serious' ones. Babies tend to make little noises when they sleep. We must avoid jumping up at every little squeak or movement cos we might actually disturb the bb instead of helping him. I did that with Sarah too. You get used to it. You learn to 'sleepwalk' after a while
. You learn when to respond too.
It's true, you will have less sleep once your bb is born. Until such a time as your bb can sleep through the night, which can take anything from 4 wks to 2 yrs!! First few weeks are quite bad, that's why I'll have bb sleeping in our room. Don't have to walk so far when you are still recuperating.
But at the end of the day, Ah ger, it's all a matter of your own choice. Don't let your mum 'psycho' you into doing anything you don't feel is the right thing to do. However, whatever choices you make, you have to live with the consequences in the future
. So gotta think carefully and be firm about your decisions.
My hb is also sometimes hard to talk to. He's got UHU glue eyes on the TV. If his eyes are glued to the TV, I think if a bomb drops next to him, he will also not realise it. He's even glued to the advertisements!!