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    M-i-l Conflict

    Last Sunday they wanted to come visit my baby. Originally they said to come at 3.30.. I told my husband that they need to shower than come, especially when they go to church and played with the kids at Sun School.. So end up they said to come at 4.30. Then, they told my husband that as their...
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    M-i-l Conflict

    is great that they come lesser to cause lesser friction... but i keep feeling that they don't dote on their grandson.. They dont like me is ok, but is their grandson, following their surname. like my Mil can say ok baby sleep already lets go... it seems like they treat my house like a zoo.. Now...
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    M-i-l Conflict

    initially it could be my issue.. but it seems like every other thing she is poking at me or sarcastic at me .. now whatever she's trying to do or rectify, i just feel is fake... because an issue has happened than she rectify.. .
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    M-i-l Conflict

    Actually, I think is a built up from the wedding. I felt that my family was disrespected from the tradition. From young, because of my Father, I needed to protect my family from my relatives. My Father dislike me because of what his mother said. I am Malaysian, so not sure if I am more...
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    M-i-l Conflict

    The gifts she gave for the wedding is part of tradition, so is a given.. But I feel that more concern can be given to me and baby through real action rather than gifts which is somewhat more convenient. Even before i was pregnant, i always buy food and gifts for them, but the feeling given was...
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    M-i-l Conflict

    No.. he has other siblings as well .. Even though he says that he dont side but i feel that way...
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    M-i-l Conflict

    part IV Since it was natural birth, i quickly discharged from hospital to start my confinement... In the first week of confinement, both of them came every day to see the baby, but it was only after their work, later evening around 7-8... There was one time they came at that time, then my...
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    M-i-l Conflict

    part III The first trimester was difficult for me as i was having very bad morning sickness. Then they visited me every week while i was bedridden.. Sometimes the visit was peppered with comments such as " Not sure why she's like this, last time we were never like this". i didnt not kick up a...
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    M-i-l Conflict

    Part II Anyways, there wasn't much occasion that i will see them before the actual wedding... except for the church rehearsal.. i feel that i respected them by going to church with my husband every week so that they will be happy. They wanted my husband and me to have a church wedding, i also...
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    M-i-l Conflict

    How should i start.... Pardon for the long rant. Actually my relationship with my mother in law was ok before the wedding.. Not exactly chummy but it was cordial... Then it started to take a turn when planning for the wedding.. She had comments towards the wedding venue, having a church...

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