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In times of despair we need to be positive. Not only for ourselves but also for our spouse that is looking for support from one another. Do good and Carry on.

Yes, there is cause and effect. That's the only reason I justified to myself for what's happening to me and not another. I believe when we do good, we will accumulate the merits. Please carry on trying. If I gave up after the 3rd try, I will not have my beautiful boy today. Do good and Carry on. ☺

Hi Nicole, I tried Friso Soy for my boy but moved to normal milk product later (sad to say. I read that you require to seek doctor advice to move to soy). I will try to influence his diet when he grows up. But I am still a vegan today.

I do hope everything is fine with your baby. You can read about my past experience in this: http://singaporemotherhood.com/forum/threads/sharing-of-my-difficult-and-painful-journey-to-parenthood.210967/

To those who are into Buddhism, do look into 了凡四训, https://www.google.com.sg/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=http://www.buddhanet.net/pdf_file/liaofan.pdf&ved=0ahUKEwjqo6D1krHNAhWGpI8KHVnsCWoQFggZMAA&usg=AFQjCNGZR_qvx3PyA2lCTUE0grNpDzBb_A&sig2=TqFZylyZiX3QAfusducB7w For those who are pregnant...

Why I wrote all this is because during the period when I was down, internet and forum are my means to getting answers. When i read of stories where a mother had miscarriages but able to have a baby later, it was an evidence to me that it can happen to me too. I wanted to share my story to...

I am now a vegan. Why? Because dairy is cruel. Eggs are cruel. Cows are "rape" through artificial insemination to make them pregnant so that they can have milk. After their calf is born, they are separated from their mother. Mother cows are known to cry for weeks after separation from...

I was reciting 准提神咒 as described in the 了凡四训. My wife was pregnant again. This time before the 6 weeks was up, my wife had a chemical miscarriage. She sort of had a period after she was tested positive using the testkit. I was devastated. Why is this still happening? As I thought to myself...

Most importantly, I learned that I can change my destiny. I need to do good. I was convinced. I searched for voluntary work. I went to a soup kitchen called Willing Hearts. I helped out with the cooking of food for people who had problems affording them. I carried on with this. I wanted to...

During this period of time, I asked myself what did I do to deserve it. Murderers have sons, my friends who were not as filial as me have children. Why was it me that meet up with all these? As I searched more, I came across the book called 了凡四训. It's a book written in ancient China by a guy...

The D&C process to clean up my wife's womb was done. She recuperated. We went for TCM consultation. It's was a expensive and tiring process. Every month, we will head down to parkway parade. We had to cook medicine once every other few days. This was our weekend. This went on for at...

My sister announced that she is pregnant with her second kid. I felt I was striked by a thunder. I had just got over thinking about my first when this thing happened. I put on a happy face. My wife put on a happy face and congratulated my sister. The night was painful. We cried.

It took some time for us to get over it. The doctor explained that miscarriage is very common and it happens to many couples. Don't be discouraged. Try again, he said. I told myself it's just bad luck. The next time will be OK. But at the back of my mind I always ask myself what if it isn't...

My wife first detected she was pregnant in the year of the snake. When we went to the doctor for checkup at week 6, I was cool. Thinking that it's just a routine check up to confirm the baby since the baby test using those testkit from pharmacy already confirmed it. How wrong was I. The...

Like to share the path that my wife and I went through before our little angel arrived. The hope is that this sharing of us will give couples who are facing the same situation some hope and not to give up. My wife had a total of 3 miscarriages: 2 miscarriages at around 6 to 8 weeks and 1...