Recent content by rehdeer

Hi, it is not necessary boy to father and girl to mother. It's up to you and your spouse to come to a prior agreement.

I'm 41, and I just delivered a boy in January. No major problems except low placenta which requires csect. No morning sickness as well. First pregnancy, conceived naturally after failed IUI and IVF 8 years ago.

Look the pot is calling the kettle black. What about "ppl like you... only care about vengeance..."? Getting a divorce is not about getting a vengeance, in this case, it's about Q getting his dignity and life back. I have gone through a divorce myself and it was uncontested and took about 3...

Didn't I already suggest he talk calmly with his wife and if everyone wants out, then it's a simple case of uncontested divorce, say based on unreasonable behavior or something? If she turns nasty, then he'll use the evidence against her for adultery to fight for custody and she'll have to find...

Qwerty111 is seeking advice here and I'm addressing his concerns. The other family is not in the picture. If I were Qwerty111, I wouldn't care about the other family either. The wife is already plotting to leave him at a time convenient to her, why should Q still care about her or the family...

So sorry you're going through this. Since your wife already has intention to leave you to set up a family for her unborn child, it may not be up to you go forgive and keep the family intact. Is she aware that you're aware? You should have a talk with her and tell her you want custody of your...

That's almost 10 months of getting paid and not doing any work. Is it any wonder why the other unfortunate ladies here couldn't find a job or get asked to leave because they are pregnant. If I were a business owner, I would steer clear of pregnant women too. If anything were to happen to you or...

Just curious, how are you going to take the hospitalization leave? Doctor will give? Based on what condition? So you intend to utilize 4 months of maternity leave plus 60 days of hospitalization leave and then quit the job? The company is Ok with this?

That was very unfortunate. Maybe you were too far along. I think I was about 6 weeks, just saw the heartbeat before injection. I hope one day it would be possible for them to transfer the pregnancy from the tube to the uterus. Imagine finally getting pregnant but the embryo implanted in the...

I had an ectopic pregnancy back in 2007 when I was undergoing IUI. I did an IUI cycle and on BT day, blood test was negative. The following cycle, I tested positive for OPK everyday for 7 days and finally I decided to do HPT and discovered I was pregnant. Went back to NUH clinic where I did my...

When I first tested positive, I stopped the RA medication. Later I called the RA specialist and we agreed to stop the medication during the first trimester. However, I haven't started the medication again because surprisingly the fingers are all doing well - no swell no pain. But then mine is a...

My case is not entirely similar to yours, but I think I have mild Rheumatoid Arthritis - my fingers were starting to get swollen and painful, especially at the joints, to such an extent that they were becoming a bit out of shape. For the past one year, I have been seeing a RA specialist and on...

I've asked around, most other clinics charge $1.20 or $1.50. KKH charges $1 per tablet. Cost of a tablet is one thing, but when he prescribes duphaston everytime for every condition, it makes you wonder if you really have to take them or he's just trying to maximise his profits.

Note that he charges $2 a tablet for duphaston, much more expensive than what other clinic charges. I had bad experience with him and have now switched to another gynae.

For 30 tablets, I would have to pay $60 at my ex gynae's clinic. That's a lot of difference from $39 that you pay. He said I have low lying placenta and wanted me to take duphaston possibly all the way until delivery if the placenta remains low. At 16 weeks, I still have 24 weeks until full...