December 2017 mummies

[Marvelous]

My no. 1 is only 2years old, she been sleeping in her cot since infant just that now sometimes in middle of night, she will crawl onto our bed to co-sleep.
So am expecting some crying or door banging drama when send her to sleep in her room.

Actually wanted to start asap, feel now abit late. Because dun want her to think that its due to the sibling thats y she got kicked out of parent room.

 

[CHH_Mummy]

My no. 1 is only 2years old, she been sleeping in her cot since infant just that now sometimes in middle of night, she will crawl onto our bed to co-sleep.
So am expecting some crying or door banging drama when send her to sleep in her room.

Actually wanted to start asap, feel now abit late. Because dun want her to think that its due to the sibling thats y she got kicked out of parent room.

Same here. We've been trying to associate the baby's arrival with positive things... like he will get more toys so they can share them, he will have a friend to play with, etc.

We regret not starting bed training earlier also...

 

[bebe12]

Hi all..
just knew that there's this forum.. a very late member here.. happy to see so many Dec mummies here .. ..
is there a whatapps group or Fb group ?

 

[rainbowbb]

Hello mummies, can i check with u anyone has experience that ur below part is like something pushing out ar?
I had this feeling back after resting a week at hme.

 

[Neo.baobei]

Any mommies stop eating prawns and sotong?
I am eating still.....

 

[wishforbundleofjoy]

Hi mummies, any of u here experienced wrist pain and tingling sensation on fingers? My wrist hurts especially while sleeping and less pain in the day. Definitely no injury but could it be due to pregnancy? Not sure if necessary to go talk to gynea. Any advices appreciated.

 

[bebe12]

Hello mummies, can i check with u anyone has experience that ur below part is like something pushing out ar?
I had this feeling back after resting a week at hme.

I got this feeling too.. I think 2-3 times for the past 2 weeks..

 

[rainbowbb]

I got this feeling too.. I think 2-3 times for the past 2 weeks..

Ytd was so frequently n today has been reduced.

Wonder what is that to cause it?
Told my gynae n he didnt mention is a danger.

 

[nettienetite]

Any mommies stop eating prawns and sotong?
I am eating still.....

I'm still eating too but lesser than before pregnancy

 

[elysch]

Hi mummies, any of u here experienced wrist pain and tingling sensation on fingers? My wrist hurts especially while sleeping and less pain in the day. Definitely no injury but could it be due to pregnancy? Not sure if necessary to go talk to gynea. Any advices appreciated.

Hi, what you mentioned here should be pregnancy carpal tunnel syndrome. I also experience it sometimes when I sleep. It is due to fluid retention which in turn presses on the nerves in the arms. You could talk to your gynae about it to see how your gynae can help, but not to worry, it is nothing serious but more of a discomfort and inconvenience

 

[wishforbundleofjoy]

Hi, what you mentioned here should be pregnancy carpal tunnel syndrome. I also experience it sometimes when I sleep. It is due to fluid retention which in turn presses on the nerves in the arms. You could talk to your gynae about it to see how your gynae can help, but not to worry, it is nothing serious but more of a discomfort and inconvenience

Thanks dear... For the assurance. I felt much better hearing that. If it is not much a problem then I can wait till the next review then I talk to gynea.. Guess my tolerance level with the pain and discomfort should be manageable. Thanks again

 

[SK8]

I'm still eating too but lesser than before pregnancy

i still do.....is it not recommended?

 

[Neo.baobei]

I'm still eating too but lesser than before pregnancy

I read somewhere stated seafoods there is high level of mercury or something which is bad. Not really sure thou... I am eating like normal as in I didn't really avoid food unless those raw food

 

[Neo.baobei]

i still do.....is it not recommended?

I read somewhere stated seafoods there is high level of mercury or something which is bad. Not really sure thou... I am eating like normal as in I didn't really avoid food unless those raw food

 

[nettienetite]

i think that's more for fish that contain high level mercury which i dont like to eat fish. i normally eat prawns n sotong n clams but once a while only.

 

[Neobaobao]

So far how many kg did the mummies gain?
Before I got pregnant, I was 49kg. And I literally dropped 5kg when I found out that I was pregnant which is 44kg. Now in my 23 weeks I only gain 2kg. Currently 46kg. Doc say I should gain more. But my appetite isn't huge till now thou.

And I have constipation, anyone had the same problem and blood in stools once in a while? ​

 

[rainbowbb]

So far how many kg did the mummies gain?
Before I got pregnant, I was 49kg. And I literally dropped 5kg when I found out that I was pregnant which is 44kg. Now in my 23 weeks I only gain 2kg. Currently 46kg. Doc say I should gain more. But my appetite isn't huge till now thou.

And I have constipation, anyone had the same problem and blood in stools once in a while? ​

I dare nt step onto the scale :X

Yes... i think it is due to the multi vit we are taking..
U can try to eat more fruits like blueberry, apple...
Ppl said prune juice helps but i have yet to try will buy this weekend n see if it helps with the constipation.
So far i hv tried for not pooing for 3-4days... terrible feeling but once u managed the feeling is somehow better! Sorry TMI!

 

[nettienetite]

So far how many kg did the mummies gain?
Before I got pregnant, I was 49kg. And I literally dropped 5kg when I found out that I was pregnant which is 44kg. Now in my 23 weeks I only gain 2kg. Currently 46kg. Doc say I should gain more. But my appetite isn't huge till now thou.

And I have constipation, anyone had the same problem and blood in stools once in a while? ​

i lost about 3-4kg during my 1st trimester then now at week 22 i gained back the 3kg liao. my gynae says my weight is ok.

as for the constipation problem, it was worse earlier on so gynae gave me duphalac to soften the stool. now i dont need to drink that,i just eat vegs & fruits daily & i can pass motion daily at ease.

 

[CHH_Mummy]

I only gained 1kg after my first trimester. Now at 23 weeks and have gained another 2.5kg so total is about 3kg or so. I also want to put on more but my gynae said my weight is ok.

By the way, my morning sickness stopped when I passed the 1st trimester but now at 23 weeks, it seemed to be back! I have been feeling extremely nauseous for 2 days now and I also got motion sickness during car rides. Oh no... please let it be a passing phase! I really cannot tahan this nauseous feeling. I thought I had beaten it already.

 

[rainbowbb]

So far has anyone started to buy the necessary items?

Breast pump?
Steriliser?
Etc etc

Am looking for breast pump but becos a first time mtb here so no idea which type / brand shd i look for or any specfications i should be looking out?

Pls throw in ur advises and suggestions!

 

[Marvelous]

So far has anyone started to buy the necessary items?

Breast pump?
Steriliser?
Etc etc

Am looking for breast pump but becos a first time mtb here so no idea which type / brand shd i look for or any specfications i should be looking out?

Pls throw in ur advises and suggestions!

I had 3 breast pumps, bought 2 years ago when I have my no. 1, haven taken out to test if they are still working.
1. Avent double-pump
Pros: Good suction
Cons: Noisy, Not batt supported so bulky cos must bring adapter, Expensive, Not comfortable as it made my nipple sore
2. Spectra S1 - Home use
Pros: Good suction but comfy, Battery or adapter, Quiet
Cons: Bulky (like a mini rice cooker )
3. Spectra 9+ - I brought to office daily
Pros: Portable, Battery or adapter, low noise, cheap
Cons: Cannot be used as main pump cos difficult to clear clogged ducts

 

[SK8]

So far has anyone started to buy the necessary items?

Breast pump?
Steriliser?
Etc etc

Am looking for breast pump but becos a first time mtb here so no idea which type / brand shd i look for or any specfications i should be looking out?

Pls throw in ur advises and suggestions!

hi, bought mine from amazon! madela freestyle

 

[Neobaobao]

Hi mummies!
As you all know after 12am tonight will be the "hungry ghost festival".
Are we suppose to pray and burn those joss paper or ask our hub to pray?
My mom ask me to ask my Hus pray and told me to stay at home.
But my in laws say that I should pray as well.

How bout you all?

 

[rainbowbb]

Hi mummies!
As you all know after 12am tonight will be the "hungry ghost festival".
Are we suppose to pray and burn those joss paper or ask our hub to pray?
My mom ask me to ask my Hus pray and told me to stay at home.
But my in laws say that I should pray as well.

How bout you all?

I ask my husband to go.
I will be stayin hme.

 

[icezlyn]

Any mummies here start your prenatal massage or engage the massage lady already? Need recommendations n advice? Thanks.

 

[bebe12]

hi, bought mine from amazon! madela freestyle

Is it good ? How much u bought ya ? Dunno should buy from baby fair or online.. which would one us cheaper act ..

 

[sashanoh]

Hello mummies.. have u all decided with ur confinement lady? I would like to get some advice on it.

 

[SK8]

Is it good ? How much u bought ya ? Dunno should buy from baby fair or online.. which would one us cheaper act ..

hi, i bought it for less than $600 with postage. i guess the risk is that it is without international warranty

 

[MummyAX]

No cos i am overweight so pregnancy milk will cause weight gain. Besides i have pcos so dont know if i can continue to drink milk.

Me too..Overweight & pics..But for the sake of babies I still take maternal milk..

 

[Marvelous]

Hello mummies.. have u all decided with ur confinement lady? I would like to get some advice on it.

Hi @sashanoh, yes I already booked mine back in May cos previously my 1st one I book CL too late, the ones I shortlist already taken.
Most importantly, you got to meet-up with the CL to have a better feel of what kind of person she is and also tell her your requirements such as to include cooking for your husband, to hand-wash baby clothes & etc.

 

[Canicie]

Hello mummies.. have u all decided with ur confinement lady? I would like to get some advice on it.

Hi sashanoh, I booked mine with agency. Initially wanted to book the CL that my friend used, but she wanted me to confirm within the same weekend that i contacted her, at that time i was not 12 weeks yet, hubby said wait till pregnancy is stable. During that time saw some bad reviews of last min CL disappearing, or was not up to expectations.After 12 weeks we asked the very common and popular CL agency, signed the next day. TBH the agency CL fee was a few hundred bucks cheaper than the freelance CL... and have free replacement, so we took the chance

 

[KateMay]

I had brown discharge during my first trimester for my first pregnancy and still having discharge for this 2nd one. Gynae said it's ok for the first one, just make sure not red or alot. If worried, see gynae to confirm...

Discharge during early pregnancy is a common thing. But if it causes unpleasant sensations or smells badly, this is the reason to consult a doctor. Usually there is nothing wrong but it's worth consulting a doctor just to be on the safe side.

 

[missqiqi]

Did anyone attend birthing class? Is it useful?

 

[rainbowbb]

Hello mummies.. have u all decided with ur confinement lady? I would like to get some advice on it.

I have booked mine with agency.

 

[Neobaobao]

Currently in my 26 weeks. Any mummies experience pelvic bone discomfort at this stage? Is that normal? When will our baby head turns down?

 

[Neobaobao]

Currently in my 26 weeks. Any mummies experience pelvic bone discomfort at this stage? Is that normal? When will our baby head turns down?

 

[CHH_Mummy]

Currently in my 26 weeks. Any mummies experience pelvic bone discomfort at this stage? Is that normal? When will our baby head turns down?

Even your baby's head is engaged (turned down) now, it can change any time as they are still moving a lot. The position can change up to 37 or 38 weeks. But by now your pelvic should feel a little heavier because our babies are much bigger now so the pressure is starting to feel obvious.

 

[EggcitedFTD]

Did anyone attend birthing class? Is it useful?

We are attending the antenatal class at NUH even though we're not delivering there as they seems to have quite a comprehensive syllabus. Sure, there are probably some things that you may have already read online but I still find it quite helpful as there's probably bits and pieces that we've missed out. Plus it's a more reliable source of information as some stuffs online can be just collective opinions/myths, some of which may not be quite right. So for me I guess it's considered quite useful, particularly for 1st time parents.

If you're considering one, do act fast as you may not have enough time to complete it before your delivery. I'm not sure about the schedule of other providers. For NUH, we sign up quite early and is only able to start the class about a month or 2 after. And with a once a week class schedule, it'll take about 2 months to complete unless you choose the 1 day express class (but I think they probably leave out quite a bit of stuffs).

 

[Neobaobao]

Even your baby's head is engaged (turned down) now, it can change any time as they are still moving a lot. The position can change up to 37 or 38 weeks. But by now your pelvic should feel a little heavier because our babies are much bigger now so the pressure is starting to feel obvious.

Thank you.
Today when I was "doing my big business" I realise the amount of fresh blood in my stools. I was shocked. Is that normal? Constipated thou.

 

[nettienetite]

Thank you.
Today when I was "doing my big business" I realise the amount of fresh blood in my stools. I was shocked. Is that normal? Constipated thou.

get some duphalac from yr gp or gynae to help soften your stools, i experienced that earlier too.

 

[Neobaobao]

get some duphalac from yr gp or gynae to help soften your stools, i experienced that earlier too.

Ok. Was really shocked to see fresh blood and I told my hub that is there a possibility that I might have colon cancer. since stools in blood is one of the symptoms

 

[nettienetite]

Ok. Was really shocked to see fresh blood and I told my hub that is there a possibility that I might have colon cancer. since stools in blood is one of the symptoms

eh i dont think it's so serious yet
but not good to always have blood stool so better get it from doc,drink more water & vegs & fruits too. my constipation only lasted awhile & it went off le

 

[Neobaobao]

eh i dont think it's so serious yet
but not good to always have blood stool so better get it from doc,drink more water & vegs & fruits too. my constipation only lasted awhile & it went off le

Hahaha! I have serious constipation even before when I was pregnant. But I never encounter blood stools before that's why quite alarming to me.

 

[SK8]

have anyone started buying baby stuff like baby cot etc? i am wondering if i should get baby cot or playpen

 

[Neobaobao]

Any mummies experience tight tummy whenever you lay flat at your back?

 

[CHH_Mummy]

The little one woke me up the other night after giving me a good kick inside. I was asleep and woke up with a scream, clutching my tummy... saw that one side of my tummy was "poking out". I rubbed that pointed part of my tummy then felt him retract his leg (or arm?). Gave my husband a scare. Anyone got beaten up from inside too? Hahaha.

 

[CHH_Mummy]

Any mummies experience tight tummy whenever you lay flat at your back?

It's normal... I'm a back sleeper. Tummy will feel tighter because it spills out the sides. I try to sleep on my left but I find that my nose is blocked every time I sleep on my left...

 

[nettienetite]

The little one woke me up the other night after giving me a good kick inside. I was asleep and woke up with a scream, clutching my tummy... saw that one side of my tummy was "poking out". I rubbed that pointed part of my tummy then felt him retract his leg (or arm?). Gave my husband a scare. Anyone got beaten up from inside too? Hahaha.

mine is starting too! but not super hard kicks yet

 

[Marvelous]

The little one woke me up the other night after giving me a good kick inside. I was asleep and woke up with a scream, clutching my tummy... saw that one side of my tummy was "poking out". I rubbed that pointed part of my tummy then felt him retract his leg (or arm?). Gave my husband a scare. Anyone got beaten up from inside too? Hahaha.

Me, I experienced that too.

 

[summerxoxo]

Hi! i am looking for a pre and post natal massage lady too!

new to this forum, my EDD is 29/12/17! and is there any whatsapp chatgroup for EDD Dec 2017 mums?