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fatBobo (jumbobo)
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Post Number: 2048
Registered: 12-2008
Posted on Monday, January 03, 2011 - 10:08 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Hi ppl out there, Happy New Year.... would like to hear abt wat most ppl tinks... verbal or physical abuse more terrible?
 

Elise Chow (elisechow)
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Posted on Monday, January 03, 2011 - 10:40 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

i think physical abuse more terrible, becos i feel that no matter what the hubby/bf should hit a woman. that's really very bad
 

Elizabeth (natelize)
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Post Number: 105
Registered: 12-2007
Posted on Tuesday, January 04, 2011 - 5:33 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

I know all abuse is wrong and should never be done on anyone. But physical abuse is the worset cos a person can not hide it, but verbal can be hiden untill that person gets to the police station and makes a report. NO ONE should get any abuse.....WHY are asking?
 

Joyce (todecide)
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Posted on Wednesday, January 05, 2011 - 1:28 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

both types of abuse hurts greatly..
 

Star Wish (star_wish)
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Posted on Monday, February 21, 2011 - 10:14 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

both are equally bad.... couple should not abuse other like that.... damaging to the relationship
 

J (colours)
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Posted on Sunday, May 01, 2011 - 4:20 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Both are very bad but verbal is worse. While physical scars heals over some time, psychological scars left behind can hurt deeply and rob someone of confidence for many more years to come. Even after physical scars have healed.
 

moorspa (moorspa7)
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Post Number: 55
Registered: 8-2011
Posted on Thursday, August 18, 2011 - 10:28 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Agree with J totally. Emotional scars are hard to heal n a person can be scarred for life unless he/ she is able to recover either by themselves, or with the help of counseling, or any other alternatives.
 

cg (cgmummy)
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Post Number: 9
Registered: 7-2011
Posted on Thursday, August 18, 2011 - 10:44 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

agree. both are equally hurtful.
 

Yang Corpuz (day_dreamer_me)
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Post Number: 10
Registered: 9-2011
Posted on Wednesday, October 12, 2011 - 2:48 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

i agree that both were hurtful.verbal or physical, the end point is they were still abuses.
so it shouldn't be done.
 

sungrapes (sungrapes)
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Post Number: 1569
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Posted on Friday, October 28, 2011 - 12:07 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

There is still smthg call emotional abuse. ie. Dun talk to u whole day or act like the other is invisible.
 

mehui (mehui)
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Post Number: 57
Registered: 8-2011
Posted on Friday, November 04, 2011 - 2:19 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

I think emotional insults and abuse is worse. Physical scars can heal (or lessened through cosmetic procedures) but emotional trauma is hard to remove. As adults, we should never say/do things for the sake of pride or out of impulse. And if debate is necessary, base it on logic, not emotions. Getting emotional = likely to get off-tangent and maybe physical.

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