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Ribena (dyingmum)
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Registered: 10-2008
Posted on Friday, October 17, 2008 - 10:23 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

hai all,

I married mani yrs le. whenever we wan sex always not much foreplay, go straight to mission.. finish so sleep.. veri boring.. how to improve.. I want to make my hubby feel gd in bed...

I also like to go on top of him but duno how to. he seem his thing canot go in lei..
beri sad.

I would like to hear advise on the above..
 

Ozzie (ozlee)
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Post Number: 822
Registered: 11-2006
Posted on Friday, October 17, 2008 - 12:37 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

watch porno to get ideas...

the whole sexual experience can start when you start "seducing" him... over dinner, watching TV...

not necessarily only after you take off your clothes in your bedroom.
 

Ribena (dyingmum)
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Posted on Friday, October 17, 2008 - 1:15 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

I dun like watching porn.. cos they just do it for the sake of doing.. also no foreplay..

I follow the porn, go on top n jus rock, for awhile onli, my hubby change to the normal post. duno is it bcos I duno how to rock…

I duno how to seduce him lei.. everytime I try to he laugh then ignore mi lei..

I heard ppl saying some kind of medicine can help.. do u know?
 

Ozzie (ozlee)
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Post Number: 824
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Posted on Saturday, October 18, 2008 - 11:01 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

laughter is part of it...
medicine? erm... even worse... no foreplay at all! seriously, dun go for that if you can help it.
aphrodisiacs - food/aromas that can induce the desire - chocolates, champagne, oysters... its also how you eat it...and for aromas - i think it was ylangylang (something like that).

ultimately, seduction is not what you do... but creating the mood.. light, music...

some porn show more foreplay than actual action... also find out your erotic/sensitive spots and zones and tell him to stimulate those before you give it to him.
 

Ribena (dyingmum)
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Posted on Monday, October 20, 2008 - 10:03 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

My hubby is a shy n quick guy.. I duno how to say about him..

He feel paiseh when i want him to touch or stimulate me.. Even I want BJ for him, he also ...

Sometime duno If I am reali not tooo good in doing it or he too tense.. He says pain will I play wif his balls.. say ticklish when I lick him, sometimes say pain.. haiz..
 

Ozzie (ozlee)
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Posted on Monday, October 20, 2008 - 8:10 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

haha... sounds like he is a shy guy... some men are more ticklish that way... and they say that ticklish men respect their wives more... you could be happy!

what to say... try and try and try... hopefully you do not create a sex-addict! haha
 

Ribena (dyingmum)
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Posted on Tuesday, October 21, 2008 - 10:06 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

( some men are more ticklish that way... and they say that ticklish men respect their wives more... you could be happy! ) - meaning?
 

Shyna (shyna)
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Posted on Tuesday, January 27, 2009 - 9:49 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

It is an old-wives tale that men who is easily ticklish love their wives more.
 

Nelle (nelle_nelle)
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Posted on Tuesday, July 28, 2009 - 2:12 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Feeding him some alcohol may relax him. Generally, humans are less inhibited when there's some alcohol in their brain and bloodstream.

Make sure he is not allergic to alcohol though. You don't want your raunchy plans to become A&E plans...
 

Amy (poopoogal)
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Posted on Wednesday, November 04, 2009 - 10:33 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Sex doesnt begin 30 min or 1hr before the event.
Can start in the morning.

Maybe morning, on the way to work, u disturb him say tonight free?
Then lunch text him say eat more oyster ah.... LOL.
Then dinner time say something like i buy new lingerie, want to see.

Drop hint here and there to cultivate the moods lor.
The sexy lacey growns works haha.
 

Eric (eric_80)
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Posted on Wednesday, November 04, 2009 - 12:06 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

amy
wow are you doing that to yr hubby? yr hubby must be loving alot. my wife never do tat to me wan.
 

Amy (poopoogal)
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Posted on Wednesday, November 04, 2009 - 12:59 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

hehe....

Once in a while will do lor.
Coz spice up the sex life ma.
I think it works 2 way so much do my part also lor.
I read this from a website then try to learn and follow.
Lucky my hubby responded well hehe
 

Eric (eric_80)
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Posted on Wednesday, November 04, 2009 - 6:40 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

good for you. do you noe how to try it out of woman
 

Amy (poopoogal)
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Posted on Wednesday, November 04, 2009 - 7:43 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

erm.... do the same way?
I really forget where i read about this thing.
The idea is just to make both of u excited about the event.
 

Eric (eric_80)
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Posted on Thursday, November 05, 2009 - 6:44 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

huh the same way? wat m I going to wear for her?
 

ital23 (ital23)
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Registered: 9-2009
Posted on Tuesday, November 10, 2009 - 11:04 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Hi all,

Is it possible to get pregnant if ejaluation is near to the viginal or just a bit in during ovalution period.
I have penetration problem and my hubby cannot seems to go in.
We are trying this method to try our luck.

Is there anyone out there sucessful using this method?

pls advise
 

mschan (mschan)
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Post Number: 28
Registered: 11-2009
Posted on Saturday, November 28, 2009 - 6:39 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Hi ital23. I suggest you watch the video I found at http://sg.theasianparent.com/articles/baby_making_101 and read the article on the different positions for conception at http://sg.theasianparent.com/articles/sexual_positions_for_conception. These might help.Good luck.
 

ital23 (ital23)
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Posted on Tuesday, February 09, 2010 - 12:34 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

HI Mrs Chan,

Thanks for your encourgment :-)
 

little (littledumbwife)
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Posted on Monday, July 11, 2011 - 10:34 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

hi ital23
so did u get pregnant... i m having same prob too
 

beatrice chue (beatrice_chua)
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Registered: 8-2011
Posted on Wednesday, August 24, 2011 - 2:15 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

i suggest you try to watch porn video..try to read cosmopolitan women magazine..
 

babyjoanna (babyjoanna)
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Registered: 10-2011
Posted on Thursday, October 20, 2011 - 12:49 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

I usually touch and oral for my hubby and he enjoys it. I lick it like it is so delicious and that arouse his desire to have sex. :-)

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