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Bonda (wati)
Advanced Member
Username: wati
Post Number: 5176
Registered: 3-2008
| | Posted on Monday, January 17, 2011 - 11:06 am: | 
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Tapi ladies.. i rasa you hvae to be prepared for traffic jams on Mondays. Entah kenapa, selalu Monday yg byk traffic, but normally no accident. I think after the weekend, people tend to rush for school and werk. OTher days, sure ok tau. |
athlete (athlete)
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Username: athlete
Post Number: 1952
Registered: 9-2005
| | Posted on Monday, January 17, 2011 - 11:10 am: |
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Wati,
Jam on Mondays due to spill-over of weekend drivers who drive with no sense of urgency.
Sorry, no offence to weekend drivers.
I must admit that sometimes I have road rage issues. |
Bonda (wati)
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Username: wati
Post Number: 5177
Registered: 3-2008
| | Posted on Monday, January 17, 2011 - 11:15 am: |
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Maya hard at work.
Maya playing while at work
Seluar dlm sampai terkeluar buat painting !
Maya after painting. |
Bonda (wati)
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Username: wati
Post Number: 5178
Registered: 3-2008
| | Posted on Monday, January 17, 2011 - 11:25 am: |
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athlete... road rage is dangerous oi... hahaha |
nora aw (noni1)
Senior Member
Username: noni1
Post Number: 10409
Registered: 2-2007
| | Posted on Monday, January 17, 2011 - 11:51 am: |
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tinggi yer siput maya
athlete
yep all the pple casued the viaduct congestion
and for what its worth
we werent asny faster in my opinion .. heheh |
Bonda (wati)
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Username: wati
Post Number: 5179
Registered: 3-2008
| | Posted on Monday, January 17, 2011 - 11:53 am: |
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Siput sedut tu.. hehehe... Biar ikat tinggi2, cos she was sweating. Semangat dia mengecat.
Mana Lina.. masih stress pasal PSLE ker... yg lain mana.. boring yer.. |
Isabella (isabella_akj)
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Username: isabella_akj
Post Number: 84
Registered: 3-2010
| | Posted on Monday, January 17, 2011 - 12:00 pm: |
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hello everyone!
glad to hear everyone had a good weekend heehee..
bonda.. maya sooooooooooooooo cuteeeeeeeee!!!!! dgn seluar dalam dia lagik! hahahaha can't stop laughing man so adorable!
wa nyari banyak traffic jam eh.. hee thats the thing.. sometimes i think getting a car is so convenient.. but for a while back while i was driving.. sometimes it took me longer than public transport pulak.. plus all the erp and extra charges.. macam tak worth it sometimes heehee...
wah lunchtime is coming.. what's on everyone's menu.. today i cooking sup telur burung, bende goreng belachan dgn ikan bakar cencaru..
oh and bonda... how many weeks are you at??? so exciting!!!  |
Bonda (wati)
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Username: wati
Post Number: 5180
Registered: 3-2008
| | Posted on Monday, January 17, 2011 - 12:26 pm: |
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Hi Isabella, i will be 33 weeks tomorrow ! Perut semakin besar tau.. just realised it Sat.
As for lunch, i makan lauk smlm. My mum belikan siput sedut from Hjh Maimunah..
Oh. Tu lah my dotter..Maya. She is my joy. |
athlete (athlete)
Member
Username: athlete
Post Number: 1953
Registered: 9-2005
| | Posted on Monday, January 17, 2011 - 2:05 pm: |
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Wati,
I think Maya will be an excellent big-sis.
She's got the potential. Hehe.
Btw, paging all the "tukang masak" kat sini.
Anybody wants to "open" their kitchen to give me personal cooking classes??
I'm serious you know.
I'm the type that need hands-on experience 1st, baru boleh buat.
Cos I have like a mental baking/cooking block.
Look how well I did after Notty's class?
Haha... |
Isabella (isabella_akj)
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Username: isabella_akj
Post Number: 85
Registered: 3-2010
| | Posted on Monday, January 17, 2011 - 2:07 pm: |
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omg bonda!!! look at how big ur tummy is!!!! hahahaha thats a healthy baby! i dont know how u manage to still go to work heehee... when will u start your maternity leave??? anyway 33 weeks... a few more weeks u tahan ok... then when i reach 33 weeks u tell me to tahan ok.. hahah kita take turns.. |
nora aw (noni1)
Senior Member
Username: noni1
Post Number: 10410
Registered: 2-2007
| | Posted on Monday, January 17, 2011 - 3:31 pm: |
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athlete
jgn pecah pulak periok belanga org . heheh
cip
looking good seh |
Bonda (wati)
Advanced Member
Username: wati
Post Number: 5181
Registered: 3-2008
| | Posted on Monday, January 17, 2011 - 3:54 pm: |
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Nora / Isabella... looking good hor..?! Aiyoh.. i try not to rest much cos, bila pagi nak bangun menyeksa tau.. pinggang and peha so the sakit. Then once im up, i try not to rest too much. Kira kalau dah baring, i can't get up anymore. Kat kerja pun sama. I tk bleh duduk lama or berdiri lama sgt.. my tailbone is very the painful. I am seriously thinking of taking early maternity.. haiz..
Isabella... ok. Nanti you tunggu saat2 you dah 33 weeks ok. I think at that point of time, memang u akan rasa tak sabar nk beranak oi.. just want to get it done and over with seh.. hahah
Athlete, you are so cute. Mental block on baking/cooking..? LOL. Tapi good lah. You semangat nk belajar memasak eh.. bagus tau.. very the positive. |
Bonda (wati)
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Username: wati
Post Number: 5182
Registered: 3-2008
| | Posted on Tuesday, January 18, 2011 - 8:59 am: |
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Good Morning peeps... ! |
nora aw (noni1)
Senior Member
Username: noni1
Post Number: 10413
Registered: 2-2007
| | Posted on Tuesday, January 18, 2011 - 9:13 am: |
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morning cip |
Bonda (wati)
Advanced Member
Username: wati
Post Number: 5183
Registered: 3-2008
| | Posted on Tuesday, January 18, 2011 - 9:42 am: |
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Hi Nora, phew ! I actually baru letak telepon dgn the maid agency. I need to send the maid for counselling...  |
nora aw (noni1)
Senior Member
Username: noni1
Post Number: 10414
Registered: 2-2007
| | Posted on Tuesday, January 18, 2011 - 9:59 am: |
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i tell u good help is hard to find these days
and i think dorang datang sini then cam ade mental problems oso
mebe bec miss home too much |
sma||dreams (smalldreams)
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Username: smalldreams
Post Number: 6311
Registered: 2-2007
| | Posted on Tuesday, January 18, 2011 - 10:04 am: |
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Morning semua
Wati
Kiyutnye Maya! Am sure she had so much fun painting. Kids love painting!
Kenapa you nak send maid for counselling?
Dia ada depression ke?
Athlete
Morning! Just wondering, would observing yr mom when she's cooking help? Or just ask her, and try it out on yr own.
Datin
Apa nak buat dorang kan dr kampong. Satu macam lah, susah nak cakap. |
athlete (athlete)
Member
Username: athlete
Post Number: 1954
Registered: 9-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, January 18, 2011 - 10:20 am: |
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Morning all...
Wati, hope yr maid is ok...
SD, Belajar masak dgn my mom?
Err, the less time we spend together, the better our relationship is.
Yup, me and my mummy issues. |
sma||dreams (smalldreams)
Advanced Member
Username: smalldreams
Post Number: 6313
Registered: 2-2007
| | Posted on Tuesday, January 18, 2011 - 10:26 am: |
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Athlete
I can understand where you're coming from.
I once told my mom that too and she said, it's quite normal for moms & daughters to be liddat, lol. My SIL & her mom, lagiiii... at first I was quite appalled to see how my SIL talks back openly to her mom but I guess it ends as that, no hard feelings afterwards :D Perhaps if you ask yr mom how to cook this & that, r/ship will improve? He he he (nervous laughter).
I wonder how my r/ship with my lil girl will be in future. |
Bonda (wati)
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Username: wati
Post Number: 5184
Registered: 3-2008
| | Posted on Tuesday, January 18, 2011 - 10:34 am: |
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SD/Nora,
The maid so far dah mcm slack sikit in her work and attitude.
Makanan : She tak makan daging lembu or kambing. Now plak totally tak makan ayam. So i got to buy fish and prawn for her. And i normally buy the white HL milk. I told her she can drink also. Then she said, she only drink strawberri flavour.
Workwise : She die die refuse to wear spec. She said it's inconvenient for her. Mcm leceh. Tapi becos dia tak nak pakai specs, she can't see well and her job are only so so. Suruh dia bersihkan toilet, there are parts yg dia tak buat. Cos dia tak nampak. Suruh dia lap tingkap, the are some dusty parts yg dia tak nampak, so dia tak buat lah kan. Then my house got 4 cats. I told her to always clean the house due to the fur. Apa dia nampak, dia buat..Apa dia tak nampak dia tak buat lah. Then b4 i choose her, kan aku ada interview dia.
I tell her i got 4 cats, can she handle.. she said.."In Indon, saya jaga 20 kucing. Kasi makan, clear the shit...etc" Tapi kat sini, dia mcm tak nak jaga kucing. The cat pee, she will just use tissue and clean. Padahal dah ajar dia to wash with dettol, then spray the cat spray yg i buy to prevent the cat from peeing again. Dia tak buat tu semua. She just wipe. So the cat, keep constantly pee at the same place. Then kain untuk alas kaki..i specifically told her, kalau rumah takder orang, jgn put it on the floor, cos the cat will pee. Dia letak jugak. And when the cat dah pee, she still use it as alas kaki. Aku rasa hidung dia dah rosak ! Cos recently she pass me a rug for my room, it reeks with cat pee. I was like Duh !! Then dia mcm terkejut..she said tak bau pun. HAiz... boleh sakit jantung.
Maya : I can see that she tak pandai jaga budak. Padahl dia dh kahwin. Have 2 daughter. One is 9 and the other is 1.5 yrs old. She ever tell me off by saying "Maya nie LAIN !" I was like F seh. Dia tak pandai play with Maya, or pujuk Maya. Mulut berat betul nak berbual dgn anak aku. Sebelum i got heavy in the tummy, i still bathe my kid so does my mum. So now, perut aku dah besar, i asked her to bathe Maya. Everytime she bathe Maya, Maya sure nangis or scream. Maya kan dah pandai ckp, she always say "Hot Water ! Hot Water !" So i will always tell the maid "Air jgn panas sangat !! She will say, "Tak panas lah".. what the hell kan.. kalau tak panas, anak aku tak menjerit. Cos i got no problem bathing Maya. So in the end, I always end up saying "Sudahlah Tini. Nanti saya mandikan Maya" Same as my mum. Suruh Tini pakaikan Maya baju, Maya will scream and cry. Then Tini will say "Bu, Maya tak nak pakai baju". Tapi bila kita pakaikan baju, she is fine. I think the way she handle Maya. Dah mcm tak kuasa.
My Storeroom : She clean a few times then now dah tak buat. Cos her excuse to my mum was "Saya sudah kemas dulu, tapi setiap kali Ma'am keluar ada saja yg dibeli. Mana mau simpan semua itu? Jadi saya tak kemas.. terlalu banyak barang".. and everytime, ada orang kasi aku barang 2nd hand or i bring home stuff.. her face senget you know.. it's like "Haiz, ada jer bawak balik barang baru..mana nak simpan nie semua !" (Kind of attitude and face.
So i called the agent bcos, im feeling abit stress. Im going to give birth soon and i know she can't take care of my kids. That i can live with lah. But kalau tak nak jaga budak, then she have to excel in her housewerk. Nie tidak. Die2 tk nak pakai specs. So house pun end up aku yg bersihkan mana yg aku nampak...
Every Sat / Sun, she have time to nap and sleep early. And she can cook whatever is in the fridge.
The agent told me from my story, she find that the maid is taking advantage. |
lina yh (myohmy)
Advanced Member
Username: myohmy
Post Number: 9865
Registered: 9-2008
| | Posted on Tuesday, January 18, 2011 - 10:41 am: |
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morning morning....
cip aku sarankan kau tukar maid before kau meletop...
maybe dia tak de hati nak carry the 'extra responsibilities' lagik2 with the new baby..
maid kalau tak get her way nanti start lah menjeng dia
dah aku nak kena pi production |
Bonda (wati)
Advanced Member
Username: wati
Post Number: 5185
Registered: 3-2008
| | Posted on Tuesday, January 18, 2011 - 10:45 am: |
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Hi Lina... Bye Lina... haiz.
The thing is that... si maid nie.. husband dia. My dad dah employ him to werk at Jawa Barat. We are like helping them to get better life, cos b4 this the hubby werk as orang yg jual goreng-gorengan...so bapak aku kesian so kasi dia kerja tetap lah. Then she can call her husband once a week. And bila bapak aku pergi sana, she will like write letter and pass stuff to the husband, which i think is ok.. so that she wont miss him. Tapi i really think she is taking advantage of us now. Tapi this maid is under my name, but my dad pun ada share. So she think dia ada immunity with my dad. |
Isabella (isabella_akj)
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Username: isabella_akj
Post Number: 86
Registered: 3-2010
| | Posted on Tuesday, January 18, 2011 - 10:47 am: |
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morning everyone..
bonda
looking great babe! haha oh and how come u need to send ur maid for counselling? now i'm getting a bit worried heehee cos my husband and i decided to get a maid for when i give birth pasal i dont know any other choice also la haha.. hopefully your maid works herself out ya.. so many maid horror stories flying left, right and center these days..
athlete
oh yeah mummy issues.... i totally understand man... i've got tonnes of those hahaha.. |
nora aw (noni1)
Senior Member
Username: noni1
Post Number: 10415
Registered: 2-2007
| | Posted on Tuesday, January 18, 2011 - 10:48 am: |
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cip
dah lah jgn kasi muke
no need counselling ni dah memandai
aku bace pasal strawberri milk dah tak leh angzz
kat indon dia minum starwberri milk??
teh o jugak oii dia togok
frankly i never entertain maid yg tak boleh makan itu ini
ape aku makan kau makan |
nora aw (noni1)
Senior Member
Username: noni1
Post Number: 10416
Registered: 2-2007
| | Posted on Tuesday, January 18, 2011 - 10:50 am: |
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org dia kite tak boleh buat baik
give calf want thigh u know
mula besar kepala |
sma||dreams (smalldreams)
Advanced Member
Username: smalldreams
Post Number: 6314
Registered: 2-2007
| | Posted on Tuesday, January 18, 2011 - 10:50 am: |
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Morning Isabella
How's things? Dah decide apa nak buat if yr MIL tak jadi datang?
Bonda
Gosh, I rasa you're better off without a maid, really. How about a part-time maid who comes around when needed? Makan hati seh dpt maid macam gini.
But I salute your thoughts - because it's really pahala to help these maids to give them a better life in future. |
Bonda (wati)
Advanced Member
Username: wati
Post Number: 5186
Registered: 3-2008
| | Posted on Tuesday, January 18, 2011 - 10:51 am: |
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I really dun want to change maid. But i do want to give her 1 last chance. She have to change, or else i will get replacement. |
lina yh (myohmy)
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Username: myohmy
Post Number: 9866
Registered: 9-2008
| | Posted on Tuesday, January 18, 2011 - 10:54 am: |
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cip aku datang balik...
tgk keadaan dorang memang kesian...tapi kan dorang suddenly lupe daratan when they got the 'luxuries'.... |
athlete (athlete)
Member
Username: athlete
Post Number: 1955
Registered: 9-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, January 18, 2011 - 10:54 am: |
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sigh, these maids, supposed to help us kan.
but instead kasi problem pulak.
nora, i agree, pasal the makanan part.
unless its a medical issue,eg allergy ke, should have no excuse.
but then eh, i baca ada jugak cerita, maids yg kerja dgn bangsa lain.
dorang tak kasi makan or something, then sampai the maids "curi" makan pulak...
haizz macam2... |
Bonda (wati)
Advanced Member
Username: wati
Post Number: 5187
Registered: 3-2008
| | Posted on Tuesday, January 18, 2011 - 10:54 am: |
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Yes. Tadi the agent dgr my story pun she was like.. "Pasal makan lainkali buat bodoh" They have to eat what we cook. Kalau menu ayam, then too bad, it's up to her to eat or eat maggie"
Then she said, the maid is now having good life at my house. Ada bilik sendiri, can have nap time, can sleep early. So bcos she is too comfortable, dia dah naik lemak. |
lina yh (myohmy)
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Username: myohmy
Post Number: 9867
Registered: 9-2008
| | Posted on Tuesday, January 18, 2011 - 10:56 am: |
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"She have to change, or else i will get replacement."
time kau buat replacement jgn pulak kau beritahu dia\ur parents.... |
lina yh (myohmy)
Advanced Member
Username: myohmy
Post Number: 9868
Registered: 9-2008
| | Posted on Tuesday, January 18, 2011 - 11:01 am: |
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"I really dun want to change maid"
cip kau juz ingat...maya leh complain but baby?
kalau everything kau dah nak kena buat balik..then dia jadik ape? mem? |
nora aw (noni1)
Senior Member
Username: noni1
Post Number: 10417
Registered: 2-2007
| | Posted on Tuesday, January 18, 2011 - 11:04 am: |
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"I really dun want to change maid"
cip kau juz ingat...maya leh complain but baby?
kalau everything kau dah nak kena buat balik..then dia jadik ape? mem?
*click* LIKE |
Bonda (wati)
Advanced Member
Username: wati
Post Number: 5188
Registered: 3-2008
| | Posted on Tuesday, January 18, 2011 - 11:07 am: |
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Lina, tu aku tahu. Aku pun dunno why i even said to HB aku smlm, kalau dia tk nak jaga baby, it's ok. I can take care of the baby myself, but kerja nak kena perfect lah.
Abt changing of the maid, i will follow Nora style. Get the maid there and leave her. The next day, baru hantar barang2 dia to the agent. |
athlete (athlete)
Member
Username: athlete
Post Number: 1956
Registered: 9-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, January 18, 2011 - 11:54 am: |
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Wati,
I really do hope it'll all work out for you...
Dah nak dekat lunch.
what's everyone having? |
Isabella (isabella_akj)
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Username: isabella_akj
Post Number: 87
Registered: 3-2010
| | Posted on Tuesday, January 18, 2011 - 11:58 am: |
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wa bonda... looks like a real case of maid taking advantage of boss sey... kesian u... but like i've said before.. u've got loads of patience.. if i were you dah lama aku hantar balik.. (i self proclaim hot tempered heehee).. u employ the maid in the first place to clean up the house, take care of the cats and the children. if housework takleh buat, kucing tak tahu jaga, anak tak tahu layan, menjawab nombor satu.. forget it i say. bilang dia nak susu strawberry kena balik indon dulu.
smalldreams
hello hello! i'm doing better.. cos it seems like the morning sickness is declining (fingers crossed!) and i've got my energy back for me to do housework and cook and carry on teaching tuition... tapi i still decided on getting a maid.. maybe as soon as my parents move out.. in april we'll get the maid so i'll have ample time to train her and to get used to her before the baby arrives.. thats why i need alot of tips and tricks on how to handle maid heehee.. and then my tuition load seems to be increasing, alot of parents still want to hire me even though i'm pregnant and everything.. i dont understand.. other tutors so jialat meh? so in april my students will start coming over to my place for tuition and so i can focus on tuition while the maid does the housework la.. hopefully things work out as planned |
Bonda (wati)
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Username: wati
Post Number: 5190
Registered: 3-2008
| | Posted on Tuesday, January 18, 2011 - 11:58 am: |
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Yes. Im praying that everything work out for me ah. Cos if i really need to change maid, obviously i need to inform her husband over at the other side. Then if husband dia boleh terima, ok lah kan. Then kalau tak bleh terima, habis dia sabo my dad bisnes.. how.. haiz.. takper, i will tetap berdoa. |
Bonda (wati)
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Username: wati
Post Number: 5191
Registered: 3-2008
| | Posted on Tuesday, January 18, 2011 - 12:01 pm: |
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Isabella... patience is a virtue ! I hope you really have a great maid. Tadi my agent ckp, now due to high cases of maid abuse, dorang dah kurang maid. Ramai on waiting list to get maid. Cos nobody mcm takut to werk here. So you better decide fast ok. |
sma||dreams (smalldreams)
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Username: smalldreams
Post Number: 6315
Registered: 2-2007
| | Posted on Tuesday, January 18, 2011 - 12:19 pm: |
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These maid stories scare me
I really can't imagine having a helper...only if kes darurat I guess. First, I don't think I can live with an additional person at home. Privacy wise, habis. I think my #1kid will kena dera with the helper with his notty behaviour :p
Singapore is one of the countries with highest no of households with maids. This is the cost of economic growth. Mummies go out to work to earn $ and then maids bring our kids up & drive us mad sebab tak ikot simple instructions. What a pity, no offence to anyone ya...just some personal thoughts... |
nora aw (noni1)
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Username: noni1
Post Number: 10418
Registered: 2-2007
| | Posted on Tuesday, January 18, 2011 - 12:23 pm: |
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"This is the cost of economic growth. Mummies go out to work to earn $ and then maids bring our kids up & drive us mad sebab tak ikot simple instructions. What a pity, no offence to anyone ya...just some personal thoughts..."
how can that be offensive
its so true per
hope to get my soto ayam fix today
*crossing finger makcik forgetful dont serve me today* |
Bonda (wati)
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Username: wati
Post Number: 5192
Registered: 3-2008
| | Posted on Tuesday, January 18, 2011 - 12:25 pm: |
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SD, i am against having a maid. Nie maid was my dad's idea. Cuma maid tompang my house and under my name cos it will be cheaper cos i have a kid. My mum pun dah bersuara, she said..when her contract finish, we will not take anymore maid. My mum misses her privacy at home. Aku lagi miss my privacy at home. I miss doing housewerk jugak tau. LOL.
But my mum nie have more stories i think. Cos my mum does ironing, washing and cleaning of the cat's litter at her house even when it is the maid's job. Sebab dah ckp banyak kali she nvr do, so my mum end up buat sendiri. Kadang2 tgk my mum pun penat jugak. Padahal having a maid is suppose to help lighten her burden. |
Bonda (wati)
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Username: wati
Post Number: 5193
Registered: 3-2008
| | Posted on Tuesday, January 18, 2011 - 12:26 pm: |
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"This is the cost of economic growth. Mummies go out to work to earn $ and then maids bring our kids up & drive us mad sebab tak ikot simple instructions. What a pity, no offence to anyone ya...just some personal thoughts..."
yes..nothing offensive at all.. very true mah..
Im having nasi putih + ayam kicap for lunch. Hving them in abt 4 mins time. Enjoy yourselves ladies.. |
Isabella (isabella_akj)
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Username: isabella_akj
Post Number: 88
Registered: 3-2010
| | Posted on Tuesday, January 18, 2011 - 12:54 pm: |
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ya smalldreams, nothing offensive at all heehee.. cannot deny reality you see.. hee i always said i'd never get a maid.. but then end up noone can help me when i give birth.. so too bad.. i take care of baby.. maid take care of household chores.. but we are taking the maid for 6 months la.. i already spoke to the maid agency..
bonda,
having a maid is supposed to lighten up the burden.. your maid terbalik heehee.. okla i doakan everything gets better for you in time for the baby's arrival.. |
Shimmers (shermin)
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Username: shermin
Post Number: 3319
Registered: 9-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, January 18, 2011 - 1:23 pm: |
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Wahhhh!!! Maid issues!! Few months ago I was very very stress with this 'chapter'...
My advise don't keep them if they are beginning to slack coz u'll end up scolding her more and when u started to scold her more, she'll start thinking everyday how to go against u silently..and can really drive u nuts!!
Wati
Dorang kalau kerja dag terlalu senang and when they get all tr benefits like nap, tidur siang segala, they want more!! Start la Tak leh makan Ni la itulah semua alasan.. |
Bonda (wati)
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Username: wati
Post Number: 5196
Registered: 3-2008
| | Posted on Tuesday, January 18, 2011 - 1:29 pm: |
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Hi Sher... hmm.. im giving her 1 more chance. Im calling the agent to see whether i can move her counselling tomorrow. |
athlete (athlete)
Member
Username: athlete
Post Number: 1957
Registered: 9-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, January 18, 2011 - 2:39 pm: |
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wakey, wakey...
(in case everyone's sleepy after lunch!)
btw, you all read abt the major accident yesterday?
i feel a bit bad for b*tching abt the jam.
cos so happened, my hb who was on the roads, actually noticed the motorcyclist.
he said that the guy was going v fast and was like in a hurry.
next time he saw the bike, it was lying on the ground at tha accident scene!
so tragic! |
nora aw (noni1)
Senior Member
Username: noni1
Post Number: 10419
Registered: 2-2007
| | Posted on Tuesday, January 18, 2011 - 2:42 pm: |
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this the one at eng neo? |
nora aw (noni1)
Senior Member
Username: noni1
Post Number: 10420
Registered: 2-2007
| | Posted on Tuesday, January 18, 2011 - 2:43 pm: |
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btw makcik forgetful served me just now
instead of soto ayam she prepared soto with mee kuning
so she had to take it back bec i dun like mee kuning |
athlete (athlete)
Member
Username: athlete
Post Number: 1958
Registered: 9-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, January 18, 2011 - 2:47 pm: |
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yup, eng neo.
lol, nora & the forgetful makcik soto!
one day she might even forget to pun the kuah... |
Bonda (wati)
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Nora.. LOL.. just not your day.. hehehe
Where to read abt the accident ? |
sma||dreams (smalldreams)
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Athlete
omigosh, yr hubby saw him in his last moments.
Wati you can go to asiaone.com.sg to read about it. It's really very unfortunate |
nora aw (noni1)
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Post Number: 10421
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well the forgetful makcik forgot the chicken before
i wont rule out 'forget kuah' yet
morning traffic and the fella in usch a hurry.. haiz lethal combination |
lina yh (myohmy)
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hello ladies...i saw in fb...it was my fb-friend punye kawan...
the guy baru berumah-tangga for abt 3 mths... |
Bonda (wati)
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Lina..betul ker.. kesiannya. Haiz..
saper nama arwah tu in FB. nak tgk wall dia if have anything. |
lina yh (myohmy)
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wati aku tak ingat...i cume nampak the post under friend list aku...shakym sumtink |
athlete (athlete)
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mummies,
where can i go to buy puzzles for 2 yr olds?
everytime i go into toys r us, i get a headache.
kiddy palace, macam ada banyak toys aje.... |
sma||dreams (smalldreams)
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Post Number: 6320
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Athlete
Try Growing Fun. Kat Parkway parade ada. kat Utd Sq ada. Adam used to love those!
The ToysRUs ones are too complicated lah.
I pon take time to do them, lol.
If you want I also have a discount card for Growing Fun. We could meet for lunch there if you want, hehehe... |
athlete (athlete)
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SD,
I just saw the website, and the puzzles were exactly what i was looking for.
I think I know the whcich shop kalau pat Parkway.
Hee, lunch at U Sq?
Maybe next week is better for me... |
sma||dreams (smalldreams)
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athlete
Or anytime you can just swing by and I can pass you the membership card. U can return it the next time we meet, no problem. Then you can shop in peace.
This week is also verrry tight with me. Even next week too. Too many reports to clear. |
athlete (athlete)
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SD,
I'm on leave tmrw, so might go check it out if I have time. |
Bonda (wati)
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ok ladies.. packing my bags, im ready to go... leaving on a jet plane... hehehe
just for my info, normally when u all dah hantar maid for counselling at agencies, how do they come back ? I mean.. are they better or more vengeful... gulp* |
nora aw (noni1)
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Post Number: 10422
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cip
from experiance balik from counselling buat muke sedih, cakap mcm nak mati
but besok dah cam biasa |
lina yh (myohmy)
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morning morning...
cip nie ari kau cuti?
maid agency nak naikkan new maid salary to 450...dughhhh...quality service tak per jugak..
nanti yg datang back 2 square 1... |
Isabella (isabella_akj)
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Post Number: 89
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| | Posted on Wednesday, January 19, 2011 - 9:17 am: |
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morning lina...
how are you??? u know i really liked your post on fb the other day about the kawan musibat hahaha couldnt stop laughing man.. |
Bonda (wati)
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Morning ladies... niari aku 1/2 day. Petang ada checkup at NUH. My sis will sent the maid to the agent later afternoon.
Ya lor! Aku tgk news pasal maid gaji.. i was like "WTH"... quality takder nk naik kan gaji. Haiz...
Lina, i will take note abt the maid and will ask the agent her side of the story. |
nora aw (noni1)
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morning morning
hah naik gaji??!?!??!
gini kalau ade no.2 aku dok rumah lah agak ye |
Bonda (wati)
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Nora.. yes.. it was in the news smlm.
So from $380, now it's $450 + Levy i think..
For new maid lah. Existing is still ok. So after this maid, confirm aku tak nak amik lagi. |
sma||dreams (smalldreams)
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| | Posted on Wednesday, January 19, 2011 - 9:48 am: |
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halloooo
Bonda
Bestnye nak pergi NUH! I love prenatal check ups. I kinda miss my gynae. Or maybe the whole experience of looking forward to see baby. Sighs.
Nora
yeah, naik gaji but only for new maids kan?
I heard on warna today that some 'bapak-bapak' SMS-ed to the radio, if maid punya gaji naik, there'll be more perselingkuhan. What's that supposed to mean? Gross. |
Isabella (isabella_akj)
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Post Number: 90
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walau... why does it all happen to me? arghhhhhhhhhhhhhh 70 increase.. ok la i just teach a bit more tuition... damn damn damn.. *trying to stay positive through gritted teeth...
hey ask you all uh... when you guys were pregnant and for those who are pregnant.. does it really matter the gender of the baby? i read in the july 2011 mummies.. got one of them.. wanted a boy but got a girl.. and she's feeling sad and depressed and was even contemplating abortion... |
nora aw (noni1)
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Post Number: 10424
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| | Posted on Wednesday, January 19, 2011 - 10:02 am: |
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isabella
buat pengajaran, tu contoh org tak bersyukur |
Bonda (wati)
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Isabella... kalau 1st time mothers.. mestilah both gender be acceptable. Unless anak you dah ada 3 girl then no. 4 mesti lah hoping for a boy. Tapi nie kan rezeki masing2...
abortion eh ? Crazy.. selisih 44 malaikat oi. Jgn fikir yg bukan2.. anak nie kan hadiah dari Allah swt.
'bapak-bapak' SMS-ed to the radio, if maid punya gaji naik, there'll be more perselingkuhan..
Yg nie pun i tak get it. What does that suppose to mean ?
And yes.. prenatal checkup best kalau ada orang teman.. nasib today, i drag my mum and daughter along. At least not so bad lah. |
nora aw (noni1)
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what is perselinkuhan???? |
Isabella (isabella_akj)
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nora
thats the thing... i feel the same way... from day one i pregnant.. doctor ask prefer boy or girl.. i always say healthy baby can liao.. anything is good enough for me... kadang kadang i really dont understand chinoneh punya mindset ah.. (sorry ah racist lol) |
Bonda (wati)
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| | Posted on Wednesday, January 19, 2011 - 10:15 am: |
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Isabella.. to me about having a boy first bcos bangsa tu nak ada orang carry their surname. Kita mana adalah carry surname over kan.. tapi sekarang zaman dah modern per.. Smlm i terbaca somewhere in Pakistan, they are killing newborns.. tapi tak baca habis.. nanti aku carik news dia eh.
Perselingkuhan ... kalau tak silap saya eh..misunderstanding..? Correct me if im wrong. Dah lama habis sekolah.. |
nora aw (noni1)
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Post Number: 10426
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| | Posted on Wednesday, January 19, 2011 - 10:53 am: |
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pertelingkahan = misunderstanding
no?
entah... meh cek kamus |
sma||dreams (smalldreams)
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nooo, perselingkuhan is, terpele'ot sikit - men will go astray. Nonsense lah. Is that all our malay men can think of? Gross. DOM (Dirty Old Men).
Isabella
Aiyoh, that's really very tak bersyukur of the mother. Jangan terikut2. Asal healthy sudah. In life yang penting kita bersyukur. Kalau Allah dah take our nikmat away, even small nikmat like being able to breathe, baru lah lambat nak menyesal. |
Bonda (wati)
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| | Posted on Wednesday, January 19, 2011 - 11:12 am: |
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Perselingkuhan = Having an affair
*Answer courtesy of Isadhora.. LOL. |
lina yh (myohmy)
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| | Posted on Wednesday, January 19, 2011 - 11:14 am: |
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ah bukan selinkuh dot dot dot...
isabella..im fine...TQ...
ape2 pon time preggy to me yg important biar my kandungan sihat....
yesh $450 is for new maids... |
lina yh (myohmy)
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| | Posted on Wednesday, January 19, 2011 - 11:22 am: |
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i went to the agency n believe me this is what come out from the man...isteri dia leh diam ajer...
"saya nak maid yg cantik2...jadik kalau tgk pon\keluar dgn dia pon tak malu berselera!"
nie maid gemok-gedompol, senget2, tak cantik |
notty (nottygal)
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morning..
450 nak naik then so be it..but then lived up to our expectations! Maid must give off day, of coz boleh bukan kita tak nak kasi tapi kita takot kalau ngandong kita pulak kena byr..pffft! |
notty (nottygal)
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Bonda (wati)
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Post Number: 5207
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| | Posted on Wednesday, January 19, 2011 - 11:31 am: |
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Ya Allah.. Lina is this true ?! Aku rasa bini dia pekak lah tu sebab dia ckp mcm gitu..
tsk tsk tsk...
Kita orang pompan lain plak.. carik maid mesti yg average looking kan.. but seriously, smlm tgk news then dorang ada amik video at "Nation" agency.. muka maid2 dorang mcm got issue punyer maid. Muka dorang really shows that they do not want to be here..mcm ada masalah.. Kesian eh. Homesick agaknya.. ye lah. Mengenang nasib. |
Bonda (wati)
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Ah..kakak notty is in the house ! I love your Bali pics tau. Very informative.. |
Isabella (isabella_akj)
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hahaha lina so funny! how can the man say like that!!! abeh si bini diam ajer.. omg..
oh and guys i dont get the connection.. why naik 70 bucks then banyak perselingkuhan? apa merapek? 70 bucks and the old man is more horny? ahahaha *geleng kepala....
oh SD don't worry... i standby my own beliefs.. takkan terikut ikut yang merapak meraban.. sometimes read these forums must sieve through the info... take the good and leave the bad.. bila baby sale.. apa tempat jual benda lagik murah.. when to go for scans and info on breastfeeding...all these worth it..
which brings me to this question? any mummies here EMO bila pregnant? heeheehee |
nora aw (noni1)
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Post Number: 10427
Registered: 2-2007
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"which brings me to this question? any mummies here EMO bila pregnant? heeheehee "
CIP WATI
"oh and guys i dont get the connection.. why naik 70 bucks then banyak perselingkuhan? apa merapek? 70 bucks and the old man is more horny? ahahaha *geleng kepala.... "
aku ponnn... ape sebab eh these DOM (borrow SD dialogue) |
sma||dreams (smalldreams)
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Post Number: 6325
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Lina, Bonda
LOL, sorry eh, tapi seriously, kelakarnye. How cud a wife keep quiet if the hb says that? Anyway kalau lelaki2 ni nak kawen dgn maid, go ahead. What can the maid provide? Maybe if balik kampong kat Jawa pon bagos. No stress mcm kat sini. Geram seh dgn all these DOM.
Or I would say, ewah ewah, abih awak tu banyak tak gedempol? Fat slob. period.
Isabella
Yeah I know you would. For sure you tak so ungrateful :p |
Bonda (wati)
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Post Number: 5209
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ya lor Isabella... tak kan lah tak kenal.. I very the EMO during preggy... haiz... citer aku byk kat archive nie kan.. LOL. Dah tahu, lagi bersuluh..
Maksud these DOM i think.. the extra $70 means they have the right to have somebody more than just being a maid.. so kira DOM nk mintak picit2 badan lah..urut2 peha dorang lah..must pay extra $70 mah.. |
notty (nottygal)
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| | Posted on Wednesday, January 19, 2011 - 11:54 am: |
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Cip
thanks cip.. editing n uploading really take so much time...so glad when ppl appreciate them.. |
nora aw (noni1)
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Post Number: 10428
Registered: 2-2007
| | Posted on Wednesday, January 19, 2011 - 11:55 am: |
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Maksud these DOM i think.. the extra $70 means they have the right to have somebody more than just being a maid.. so kira DOM nk mintak picit2 badan lah..urut2 peha dorang lah..must pay extra $70 mah..
DOMDOMDOMDOMDOMDOMDOMDOMDOMDOM.... |
notty (nottygal)
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Post Number: 5034
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ohh..tu maksud DOM...baru makcik tahu... |
notty (nottygal)
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Isabella (isabella_akj)
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ahah bonda! u emo issit? so cute la you... ni case EMO tengok tv nangis nangis ke nangis takda reason punya heehee?
oh and yes. DOMDOMDOMDOMDOMDOM! yang paling i dont like... is the DOM that brings in religion to EVERY topic dia berbual. WAHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!! |
mamaliz (mamaliz)
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Post Number: 3987
Registered: 2-2007
| | Posted on Wednesday, January 19, 2011 - 12:28 pm: |
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assalammualaikum~~~~~~semua.....
apa khabar! mamaliz in da house....the new biskut oreo, kejap ada kat sini kejap takder.... |
mamaliz (mamaliz)
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Post Number: 3988
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aiseyman....i masok sini mesti semua ngah lunching tau....sedih banget....oklah, need to send hilmi downstairs oready for his bus....
nora..i read up here sometime ago u said ur boy have to take bus early n balik lambat kan..it was the same for us Imans in wdlands too..until the parents make a complaint to the school...kesian budak2 kan...n they actually do have the extra bus to cut down the travelling time.
the complaints all came in when the kids bus had an accident while the kids were all in it..alhamdulillah none were hurt. |
lina yh (myohmy)
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Post Number: 9874
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SD n the rest....meh aku ceritakan kisah sebenar tentang DOMDOMDOMDOM...
some use their maid as pemuas nafsu...
mula2 picit2 then lepas tu abis tu...
liz,
phew lucky nobody is hurt... |
lina yh (myohmy)
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Post Number: 9875
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bonda\sd...true lah the bini even younger than me tau...the hub in his 40s...anak ade 2 kecik then the bini dukung si baby...
then nak spekong....skali hong kong semua keluar hihhihihi....
i ade pat sebelah ajer...
i terus ambik surat khabar tutup muke sebab tak tahan ketawa....
'saya solat punye olang ....saya sumpah bla bla bla' dia cakap ngan tu agent.....
isteri dia leh ngok ajer....
nak kate hensem....bapak aku lagik hensem...serious |
Bonda (wati)
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Post Number: 5210
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Hi Mamaliz.. alamak.. kau salah timing lah. Now aku baru balik lunch. Now nk balik gie NUH liao.
Lina, kau nie kalau ketawa aku yg seram. Mana tahu tu lelaki tk happy ker.. |
Bonda (wati)
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Bye ladies..chat tomorrow ok.. |
lina yh (myohmy)
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bye wati...take care...
wati dia tak main2lah.... kalau kau ade pat situ pon kau meluat...
dia cakap ngan muke2 dia n tangan2 sekali tau... |
athlete (athlete)
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Post Number: 1962
Registered: 9-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, January 19, 2011 - 2:57 pm: |
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Rofl!! DOM!!!
Sigh.. DOM melayu scandal dgn maid. DOM cina scandal dgn "china girl".
DOW takde ke? Hehehe |
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