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lina yh (myohmy)
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lynn,
yup ...100 hari... 7 hari...tu semua tak der....

sebaik-baiknya...anak sendiri yg doakan....

psssttt jgn tunggu orang tua dah tak der ...hari2 pon kite jgn lupa mendoakan orang tue kite
 

Lynn (lynn02)
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Lina
yes.. takde istilah 7hari, 44hari, 100hari.. ni semua amalan bangsa lain.. kenapa kita org mlyu yg beragama islam nak samakan dgn agama lain??

i neo some of us still practise dat, and ada jugak yg terikut amalam dari org2 tua kita.. i'm just sharing what i have learn.. insya-allah kita sama2 dapat hidayahNya
 

lina yh (myohmy)
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lynn...inshaAllah
 

zu (mixedup)
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NOTTY........

momok ape tu kau carik?
da baik blom?

wah.. topik nari nie berat.
sorrie takde input.

reporting dari Mak home.'
nari masak lemak daun turi.
with sambal belacan and ikan goreng. *yumz*
 

m@m@of2b@bies (nshah)
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yup true apa lynn ckp.. its more to org melayu yg ada2 kan ni smua kenduri, tahlil smua

n even selalunya selepas perkebumian, balik ke rumah ada makanan utk dijamu kan?
bt its not supp to happen act, setakat memberi air kotak je cukup utk yg dahaga bt its not a must to give though.. n for my dad lagi if dijemput ada tahlil or kenduri arwah he will nvr menjamah makanan or minuman dirumah tersebut
 

lina yh (myohmy)
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zu,
tadi i i makan lemak turi...ikan bilis sambal petang...n daging rendang....

nshah,
aku terus tak datang hihiih
 

zu (mixedup)
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ape tu ikanbilis sambal petang????
 

sma||dreams (smalldreams)
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zu
mak's home kat mana tu? :P
Your lunch sounds good!

I just had some fattening chicken pie. Habis lah this time i think i must've put on a lot of weight. In contrast to ramadhan, I cuma put on about 300 grams, tu pun most of weight gain goes to baby!

Lina
ak ah lah, sambal petang tu hapa? Sambal pagi ada tak?
 

nora aw (noni1)
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zu

petang jer boleh makan..
pagi and malam tak boleh makan lauk nie
 

san (hanasan)
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Posted on Tuesday, October 20, 2009 - 1:38 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Lina,
Sambal petai ker?
 

lina yh (myohmy)
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zu,
sorry aku after makan pon lost...

ikan bilis sambal petai....
 

notty (nottygal)
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Zu *waves*
jgn marah hor...

badan bisa je..demam subsides liao..tunggu coy driver call and fetch me to clinic..

Lina
sambal petang..mkn time ptg aje ehh? *giggles*
 

lina yh (myohmy)
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san...yup....

nora\smalldreams....

pagi petang pon boleh makan hiihih
 

m@m@of2b@bies (nshah)
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gal
so u gg off soon ah? pi clinic & off for e day? alah naik je ah helicopter tu.. kan senang & cepat *lol*

apa lah lina hehe ku ingat apa seh mata aku cemeh ke baca salah? hehe
 

san (hanasan)
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LOL!
Kan dah kena arrow...
 

zu (mixedup)
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peah..!!! kau lost!!
it mak place-aka dear mummy!!
pat cck.. nk dtg? :P

haha.. sambal petai makan waktu ptg jer tau.
lina mkn seblom ptg... bab tu dia trus jd lost!!
 

lina yh (myohmy)
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suke korang eh....hihiihii...

biasalah...after lunch mate stim kodok....type pon tak betul
 

whatyouare (bettybad)
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Wow wee, lauk pauk macam best. Makes me wanna go down to Rumah Makan Minang or KGC but very boring leh, this week no lunch time kaki. My husband and teacher friends are all on office hrs work week.

Re: Tahlil
What I know is nak buat can do but on any dates cos it's not proper to follow the 7 hari lah, 40 hari lah..berapa hari as itu bukan dlm ajaran. Pasal menjamu selera, I believe tuan rumah tu hajatnya nak sedekah makan to all those people who came and prayed but I also believe everything we do must be in moderation. Majlis tahlil kadang dah macam kenduri kawen. Lauk-pauk berjenis. Menyusahkan keluarga dalam kesusahan. And kalau pulak makanan diberikan ala kadar, ada pulak yang mengumpat. Manusia.
 

notty (nottygal)
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Lina
aku faham..this is after effect bila dkt dgn Zu..LOL

Nshah,
coming back to work, Insya Allah. helicopter nak landing kat mane dlm loyang offshore supply base tu..hehhee
 

Mdm Wati The Great (wati)
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eh eh... rabak siak.. smlm aku sunyi sepi jer. Niari bila aku tak masuk, ramai plak orang.. Hmm... takper... aku nak merajok.


Bye.. :-(
 

lina yh (myohmy)
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notty....
7 hari 7 malam beb...nak buang dia punye magnetism...
itu ari aku kurang zikir agaknya
 

lina yh (myohmy)
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cekop wati....kau memang carik chance orang pujuk kau kan.... meh meh
 

lina yh (myohmy)
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k nak gi meeting dulu....
 

Mdm Wati The Great (wati)
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lepaskan ku.... sob sob... lepaskan ku...!
 

notty (nottygal)
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Lina
kuat ke kau nak cekop cip? pakai tangan ke pakai mesen..*cabott*
 

Mdm Wati The Great (wati)
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Notty !!! Grrrr.............!!
 

m@m@of2b@bies (nshah)
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gal
hehe oh aah eh no parking eh? takda hang land je ah atas kapal or containers yg ada tu tak bleh eh? hehe anyway hope u got gd medicine & a gd rest tonite

betty
tul tu seh kkdg majlis tahlil dah cam majlis kenduri kawin seh.. n byk plak org nak kena masak or contribute
 

nora aw (noni1)
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Cip

tu lah semlam kau panggil org berbual dgn kau eh

niari ramai org but aku dah nak pi meeting pulak
 

Lynn (lynn02)
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betty
betol tu.. org skg buat talil dah mcm buat keje kahwin..

tapi dlm kitab Imam Syafie ada tau menyebut mengharamkan Kenduri Arwah and dlm kitab nya pun ada menyebut..

** yg sebaiknya yg menyediakan makanan untuk keluarga si Mati adalah jiran, kerabat atau org yg datang menziarahi bukan keluarga si Mati..**

sometime tu kita manusia ni selalu keliru.. kita takut dgn mulut org ke atau kita takut dgn balasan Nya.. ni semua masing2.. apa pun, niat kita tu yg paling penting..
 

Mdm Wati The Great (wati)
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Lynn..hmm..something new that i've learn today.
 

m@m@of2b@bies (nshah)
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yes now more ppl takut dgn org ckp, org pikir bt they dont tink abt belakang harinya, w'alam
 

nora aw (noni1)
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and have u all come across lepas majlis tahlil
tuan rumah kasi duit to the jemputan
just like hari raya dlm envelope
not to kids only u know
all jemputans

i cant remember the term they were using
ni trend baru jugak lah

ape saje org org kite nie ...
 

sma||dreams (smalldreams)
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Lynn
culture orang melayu ni, kalau dah mendalam sangat, susah kita nak kick lah.... for some families, kenduris are super big things. For me, I tak suka sebab waste paper plate & waste resources aje..hehehe...

Zu
Aku tak lost ler. I know you're referring to yr mom's place! Untung eh you, can just pop over for lunch!! :P

Sometimes I stress nak pergi my mom's place with Adam (anyway adam's not in school yet, so no chance to be there w/o him) coz he'll be up to some mischief nanti I pulak yang kena marah for not being able to "control" him. Grr.
 

nora aw (noni1)
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CIP

kumar say already what

u learn somethign everyday ....
 

whatyouare (bettybad)
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Lynn, betul. That I know untuk the kenduri selepas pengekebumian. The one I mentioned is the kenduri berhari. Even during sec school, if you all took CME, it was mentioned that you should not expect even a cup of drink from the family of the deceased bila pergi melawat because there shouldn't be any cooking or preparation of food during the funeral.
Anyway, this is something to be shared and learned. Can help to clear up misconceptions =)
 

lynzi (lynzi1606)
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halo halo all..
baru balik from lunch at holland v.
such a hot weather today but im not complaining..prefer this to rainy wet weather..hehehe
 

m@m@of2b@bies (nshah)
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NAw
hmm ada ke trend camtu? mana mazhab dorang dah ikut tu? subhanallah.. usually if lauk pauk tu dimasak or dicontribute oleh org luar ok gak bt if own family kena "paksa" masak dah menjadi mudarat plakkan? coz it happen recently cian seh e makcik hv to work & balik nak kena masak sebyk2 nya n disuruh masak lebih so dat ppl can tapau, n makcik tu bukannya sihat mana pung, n its their own family members, lau nak senang order je sudah tak susahkan family
 

m@m@of2b@bies (nshah)
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anyway from wat i observed if ada makan2 time2 camni dah jadi cam adat cina eh? coz dorang ok ah body masih disitu, bleh makan, happy2, berjudi lagi amik nombor si mati tu..
 

athlete (athlete)
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hello, hello...
just got to office.

betty,
my ID co. is atliving.
according to my hb, jgn recommend.

smalldreams,
hahah, i thought i aje yg rasa stress kalau kat rumah my mom.

re: kenduri arwah
this topic selalu buat me and hb argue.
cos his side always ada.
and i of cos always tak nak pergi.
i will insist that dalam islam tak boleh.
but he will insist that kalau tak boleh pun dah part of malay culture, so if the family dah biasa buat we have to respect them...sigh...
 

nora aw (noni1)
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nshah

cina yer high class..makan snacks tidbits
got ice cream somemore

the few chinese wake that i've been to
tempat yer ade cam chemical smell
must be the embalming
 

Lynn (lynn02)
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Smalldream
tu lah masalah nya dgn org kita.. tapi selagi tak terpesong, masih boleh di teruskan.. tapi klu dah lari dari akidah, sebaik nya di tinggalkan..

my ustazah selalu pesan "kita belajar agama Allah, bukan dari agama turun temurun nenek moyang kita"

betty, cip
kat sini we just share apa yg kita tau je.. nothing more.. sharing is caring.. hehehe
 

nora aw (noni1)
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then whn u dun attend the kenduri kendara
org cakap (org cakap lagii) u tak bercampur or tak respect

psstt.. i usually dun go
even my own grandpa yer

i dun see the point bile org tu ader..
takde org nak ziarah dia
bile dia dah takde yg lain lain sibuk sibuk berkumpul 7 hari, 14 hari, 100 hari buat ape
 

athlete (athlete)
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nora,
hear, hear!
 

Lynn (lynn02)
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nora
pasal "org cakap" tu.. biasa lah.. balik2 org cakap org cakap..
kita cakap tak?? kita tak cakap kan, kita type je.. hehehe

 

lina yh (myohmy)
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yuhuuuu im back.....
 

lina yh (myohmy)
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nora...

even time orang tu meninggal...some p-ple tak beradab....boleh ketawa2,etc
 

m@m@of2b@bies (nshah)
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lina
ku sokong sekali mmg btul, bleh happy2 hour masa org baca yassin.. haiz..
 

Mdm Wati The Great (wati)
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So bila orang meninggal, sebaiknya jgn buat kenduri ker aper nie ? Then tahlil and kenduri arwah same ker tak ?
 

lynzi (lynzi1606)
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ladies,
any of u has read today's berita harian tak?
is there any news on the haji visa?
 

san (hanasan)
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I'm lost too wati..

Lynzi,
Apa crite??
 

lina yh (myohmy)
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cip....cian lynn type penat2...hihihiih
 

nora aw (noni1)
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Cip

tunguuuu lynn tepek the official wordings

i believe your personal prayers is most important
 

lina yh (myohmy)
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quote from lynn...

"tapi dlm kitab Imam Syafie ada tau menyebut mengharamkan Kenduri Arwah and dlm kitab nya pun ada menyebut..

** yg sebaiknya yg menyediakan makanan untuk keluarga si Mati adalah jiran, kerabat atau org yg datang menziarahi bukan keluarga si Mati..**
"
 

nora aw (noni1)
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lynzi

dunno ....
BH front page abt a young rider meninggal accident
before even his first paycheck
dia dah bilang mak dia nak buy her some furniture with his first paycheck

tu ajer i sempat tengok
 

Mdm Wati The Great (wati)
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Sorry eh. Seriously aku tak terror dlm benda2 nie semua. Dlm Islam ada berapa mahzab ? So kita ikut kitab Imam Syafie ker Al-Quran ?
 

lynzi (lynzi1606)
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datin nora,
thanks.
 

lynzi (lynzi1606)
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wati,
most of us sini in sg under mazhab syafie.
 

lina yh (myohmy)
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wati...kite semua ikut ajaran Al-Quran....
Iman Syafie tu as guidelines kan....

i pernah tanya persatuaan 'Muh********"...dorang cakap dorang based solely on al-quran no sunnah nabi....
 

lina yh (myohmy)
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Posted on Tuesday, October 20, 2009 - 3:22 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

"any of u has read today's berita harian tak?
is there any news on the haji visa?"

lynzi r u going?
 

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Posted on Tuesday, October 20, 2009 - 3:23 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

yesterday my parents and friends all berbual abt the haji visa case.
seems that only a few hundred people get to go this year?
i didn't ask why...
heh, org tua2 cakap tak nak menyampuk...
 

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lina,
no lah im not going..
belum dapat seruan lagi..hehehe..
but hopefully lah..insyaAllah in the near future.

my parents, an uncle, aunt and my mum's bestie intend to go this year..
all waiting anxiously for the news.
my sis said dorang hari2 sembahyang hajat..
i tgk kesian gitu..
 

nora aw (noni1)
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athlete

600 but i thot with the h1n1 vaccine it might increase

i dunno,my mom nak pi umrah in jan pun pending
i pun need to know so i can make arrangemnet for my leave

lina
yep yg Muh tu is like that..by the book literally
 

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beside mazhab syafie, ada mazhab aper ? And i heard from my hubby that ada masjid yg mahzab lain kan exist in Singapore. And that kita yg mahzab syafie tak boleh tompang sembahyang kat situ.. betul ker ?
 

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Lina
dat persatuaan 'Muh********".... they based solely on al-quran AND sunnah Nabi SAW..

dorang tak ikut mana mazhab.. they just use them as guidelines..
anywei tak salah nak ikut mana2 mazhab.. jgn terlalu taksub sudah..

 

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Lynzi,
My parents pon anxiously waiting for the answer.
 

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e quota for this yr i heard more lesser than usual.. cian kan.. becoz of H1N1 ni yg tergendalakan umat2 kita utk ke haji
 

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Posted on Tuesday, October 20, 2009 - 3:33 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

re: haji
why the restriction this year?
is it becos of h1n1?
also, i thought musim haji shld be soon right...
until now, they haven't confirm yet?

sorry, so many ?s...
 

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"becoz of H1N1 ni yg tergendalakan umat2 kita utk ke haji"

Umat2 kita ehhh...bukan jemaah2 kita? lol
 

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i think because of the H1N1

" And i heard from my hubby that ada masjid yg mahzab lain kan exist in Singapore. And that kita yg mahzab syafie tak boleh tompang sembahyang kat situ.. betul ker ?"

errr tak lah....
 

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Lina

the Ahmadiyahs??

or they are a totally different ball game altogether
 

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surfing the web while waiting for stuff to download...

Sexy dances, wild antics and late hours at outlet

Tue, Oct 20, 2009
The Star/Asia News Network


MALAYSIA - UPPER class and urban Malays are patronising an entertainment outlet in KL Sentral where girls perform sexy dances on top of the bar, Kosmo! reported in its front page.

The scantily-clad Malay girls attract the men with their gyrating dance moves. The outlet, which has been in operation for two years, opens for business until 5am.

A patron, who only wanted to be known as Faris, said most of the customers were upper class Malays.

The 30-something said the activities at the outlet continued because of the weak enforcement and the tidak apa attitude of the local community.

A check by the daily showed it was packed with couples between midnight and 4am.

Brickfields district police chief Asst Comm Wan Abdul Bari Wan Abdul Khalid said police had raided the outlet several times since early this year.

Among the offences committed included operating beyond the permissible time as well as consumption and trafficking of illegal drugs.

The Star/Asia News Network
 

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nora...
yg u cakap tu i dngr pon memang ade lain sikit....
 

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athlete...i baca mag dulu...
they even have parties where they can have sex with their friends partner\spouse
 

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san,
your parents also going?
ikut ustaz mana?
my aunt and uncle lagi are one of those who will leave first.
they supposed to leave on 28th but till now no news on the visas.
my parents are one of the last few...scheduled on 21st nov.

thay said the no of visas given is based on 1 % of the total no of muslims in a particular country.
but usually extra visas will be issued and made known by the end of ramadan.
 

Nora.Rossi (norarossi)
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Posted on Tuesday, October 20, 2009 - 3:54 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Yoohoo..Wow today sekejap mcm tour company now mcm Forum Perdana..Good2 i learn alot:-)_
 

nora aw (noni1)
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nite life in KL more happening
 

athlete (athlete)
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lina,
heesh... so disturbing...

lately it seems that the world really dah tonggang terbalik.
for eg, in the US and UK now lot of conservatives are making themselves heard, for better or worse.
then so called "conservative" places like m'sia and indon pulak banyak this type of "openess"...
 

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Posted on Tuesday, October 20, 2009 - 4:14 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Lynzi,
Yup. Everythg was given out..Bag, telekung etc.
Kalau jadi, 17th or 18th tk salah. I dun reali catch what mom told me abt the dates or isit same with your parents?

My parents tk salah under Halijah.
 

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Posted on Tuesday, October 20, 2009 - 4:16 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Nora yup tats why down there 24 hours club pun ada. But i don understand why bila part org barat nak dtg buat concert e.g Black Eye Peas and the recent one Beyonce semua kena protest, banned. But isn't it double standard?

Haiz but i think bende mcm ni very difficult to control. Up to every individual.:-)
 

nora aw (noni1)
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BEYONCE.. WOW..

Brtitney having her circus tour in Aust.. nape tak sampai sg..

would love to see that
 

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talking abt concerts reminded me that i had to book green day tix!

eh, i don't understand why sistic needs IC number to make booking...
 

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Athlete
prolly for tracking purposes..:-)
 

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athlete

takot u under age .. hehehe

but it does help bec 2 occasions i didnt get the tix.. bec i opted for mail

and all i had to do was email sistic
they confirmed my booking via ic no
then i can collect tickets at counter before the show
must show ic of cos
 

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but ada booking number also ape...

re: britney
after her vma performance that time, now i'm not so sure if she'll be good or not...
maybe during her hey-days, early 2000, i'd go
cos i must admit her songs are damn catchy, esp the older stuff!
 

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athlete

maybe in case of lost they can confirm its u

brit brit .. i will still go watch her
 

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Nora Aw, ni mesti fanatic fan of Britney (hehe imagine you singing Hit me baby 1 more time lol:-))

Ok ladiez. Chat again tmrw. me going off from a very hectic day here at work, See ya tmrw.
 

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after e musical im now craze over this song seh
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iM4KbygTFKE&feature=related
 

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morning morning

*sip sip coffess*
 

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Morning =)
 

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selamat pagi lina & Betty
 

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selamat pagieee Singapura...

tgh mamam roti butter gula n nescafe...
 

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morning ladies!
 

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morning gals...

lynzi u tgh ambik course ape...i suke kalau kena gi antar course...'change of environment'....

u bawak lappy? sempat lak u log in here

mas,
hari nie aku bawak roti...tapi tadi pau honey chicken lambai2 pat aku....takkan aku nak say 'No' kan...kecian pau tu penat2 lambai pat aku
 

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Morning Morning..!!

today bf popiah goreng wit teh.. jemput makan semua..
 

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Zhao An, ladies!

Lina, I got yr no. Nanti I sms you k!

I think I nak pergi cafetaria kejap, tengok apa yang ada. So hungwy!
 

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yup2 agree aku pun suka skali gi course...
next course aku 9&10 Nov @ Tanglin Shopping Center...wohoo looking forward....Itu Toy R'us Forum aku venture lagi...

Lina, betul kecian itu pau...kalau kau say no...lenguh tau tangan dia
 

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smalldreams, i also got ur number...nanti dah clear my projects...i sms u for the date...kalau all clear..kite date on Friday? mane dekat buat u..Toa Payoh or Novena?

Mas,
aku belai2 tu pau...then aku ngap!

yes best kan...dapat merayap,tukar2 angin
 

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Smalldream
when u said, u nak gi cafetaria tgk apa yg ada..
teringat masa preggy dulu..
hari2 mesti turun canteen tgk apa ada..
hari2 i had heavy bf..
cos normally i just had simple bf je..

i missed those days.. rasa mcm nak start *trying* again.. hehehee
 

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lina,
ni ICT course so kat computer lab and everyone has a pc each..hehehe..
yelah..pi course ni pun cos nak change of env..mendak jugak kan if hari2 face the same thing je.

today very hungry so had laksa goreng..
 

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morning morning

busy busy day today ...

mamam garlic bread and tea
 

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