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Danryan (maswan02)
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Username: maswan02
Post Number: 7456
Registered: 7-2006
| | Posted on Friday, October 16, 2009 - 9:21 am: | 
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weather best for melek-melek...lol...
having espresso...tak sempat nak beli bfast... |
lina yh (myohmy)
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Username: myohmy
Post Number: 8197
Registered: 9-2008
| | Posted on Friday, October 16, 2009 - 9:22 am: |
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Sri jgn tito....
*padahal jealous sebab kite kena work* |
Sri Leo (sri_leo)
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Username: sri_leo
Post Number: 1973
Registered: 7-2008
| | Posted on Friday, October 16, 2009 - 9:26 am: |
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Lina - tk nk tdo...nanti tdo terus tk bangun susah.... hehehehe... i still gt work to be done... |
Lynn (lynn02)
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Username: lynn02
Post Number: 5677
Registered: 11-2007
| | Posted on Friday, October 16, 2009 - 9:29 am: |
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Morning Morning..!!!
yeahh TGIF.. and today coy halfday, monday off in-lieu... long wkend..!!!
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Lynn (lynn02)
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Username: lynn02
Post Number: 5680
Registered: 11-2007
| | Posted on Friday, October 16, 2009 - 9:31 am: |
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Sri
nak gi "joget" jgn lupa ajak kita.. ramai nak ikottt!! |
Sri Leo (sri_leo)
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Username: sri_leo
Post Number: 1974
Registered: 7-2008
| | Posted on Friday, October 16, 2009 - 9:34 am: |
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Lynn - LOL!!! korang joget adik jadi penonton nye... BTW, hw r u?  |
lina yh (myohmy)
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Username: myohmy
Post Number: 8198
Registered: 9-2008
| | Posted on Friday, October 16, 2009 - 9:36 am: |
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sad news....
Budak meninggal lepas cedera teruk di kepala dipercayai didera
Oleh
Nurul Dayana Simangoon
SEORANG budak perempuan berusia dua tahun meninggal dunia sekitar 11 malam kelmarin akibat kecederaan teruk di kepala, dipercayai akibat dihentak oleh teman lelaki ibunya.
Allahyarhamha Seri Alyaniz Nazri (gambar kecil), tidak dapat diselamatkan setelah berada dalam keadaan koma di Unit Jagaan rapi (ICU) Hospital Universiti Nasional (NUH) hampir seminggu iaitu sejak Khamis lalu.
Allahyarhamha, yang juga digelar dengan panggilan manja 'Abot', dikebumikan petang semalam.
Teman lelaki ibunya yang berusia 29 tahun merupakan seorang penganggur.
Kelmarin, lelaki tersebut dihadapkan ke mahkamah atas tuduhan menyebabkan kecederaan teruk ke atas Allahyarhamha.
Dia dituduh melakukan perbuatan itu Khamis lalu di sebuah flat di Bukit Panjang.
Ibu bapa Allahyarhamha yang ditemui di flat bapanya di Jurong West semalam enggan ditemu ramah.
Ibu Allahyarhamha, yang berusia 28 tahun, dan bapanya yang berusia 29 tahun, telah bercerai dua tahun lalu.
Allahyarhamha dan kakaknya yang berusia empat tahun tinggal bersama bapa mereka sejak ibu bapanya bercerai.
Namun, Seri Alyaniz dipercayai tinggal bersama ibunya di Bukit Panjang sejak sebulan lalu manakala kakaknya, masih tinggal bersama bapa mereka di Jurong West.
Menurut rakan karib bapa Allahyarhamha, Encik Mohd Shahril Sudohmoh, 34 tahun, doktor menemui dua ketul darah beku di bahagian otak Allahyarhamha.
Encik Mohd Shahril yang sering menjenguk anak rakannya itu di ICU berkata, doktor juga mendapati otak budak itu mengalami kerosakan dan bengkak teruk.
Beliau berkata Allahyarhamha, yang ketika itu dalam keadaan koma, telah menjalani dua pembedahan di kepalanya untuk mengeluarkan darah beku.
Kali pertama pembedahan itu dijalankan pada Isnin lalu dan yang kedua pula dijalankan Rabu lalu.
Namun, doktor mengesahkan tiada harapan bagi Seri Alyaniz setelah pembedahan kedua dijalankan Rabu lalu dan budak itu meninggal dunia sekitar 11 malam di pangkuan keluarga.
Menceritakan lanjut, Encik Mohd Shahril berkata:
'Saya masih tak percaya atas apa yang berlaku kepada Seri Alyaniz. Sampai sekarang hal ini menjadi tanda tanya. Kami tidak begitu pasti apa yang terjadi sebenarnya.'
Mak cik Allahyarhamha, Cik Lydia Rahman, 21 tahun, yang ditemui semalam pula berkata:
'Abot amat ceria budaknya, banyak bercakap dan suka bermain.'
Sambil menunjukkan wartawan gambar-gambar Allahyarhamha di telefon bimbitnya, beliau berkata lagi: 'Abot amat manja, cantik, dan suka bergaya di kamera.' |
lina yh (myohmy)
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Username: myohmy
Post Number: 8199
Registered: 9-2008
| | Posted on Friday, October 16, 2009 - 9:40 am: |
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sowie double post |
m@m@of2b@bies (nshah)
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Username: nshah
Post Number: 8383
Registered: 5-2007
| | Posted on Friday, October 16, 2009 - 9:46 am: |
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cian budak2 eh jadi mangsa org2 tak betul |
nora aw (noni1)
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Username: noni1
Post Number: 8225
Registered: 2-2007
| | Posted on Friday, October 16, 2009 - 9:49 am: |
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Good Morning
No half day for em ajust leave-in-lieu
tu pun company just changed policy dulu lagi teruk
public holiday falls on sat.. nothing.. elek |
whatyouare (bettybad)
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Username: bettybad
Post Number: 1386
Registered: 9-2006
| | Posted on Friday, October 16, 2009 - 9:50 am: |
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Morning ladies.
Lina, somehow this kinda articles really riled me up. Menggeramkan. Sometimes parents are too 'in love' to see the bad side of their partners sampaikan anak jadi macam gini. Which is more important? Cari kebahagian untuk diri sendiri atau memastikan anak-anak terdidik dan dijaga dengan baik?
Actually I just discussed with a friend about what Ive written above, few days ago. I have absolute respect for parents who stayed single after a divorce/ death and made sure their children grow up to be orang yang berguna. |
sma||dreams (smalldreams)
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Username: smalldreams
Post Number: 3684
Registered: 2-2007
| | Posted on Friday, October 16, 2009 - 9:54 am: |
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Lina
Alamak..cerita sedih seh...
Padan lah tadi pagi kat warna ada something like this being discussed.
This family has other issues, it's not just abt the child abuse. The child is in a better place. Kalau tak, terus tersiksa kat dunia. Wallahualam. |
Lynn (lynn02)
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Username: lynn02
Post Number: 5681
Registered: 11-2007
| | Posted on Friday, October 16, 2009 - 9:55 am: |
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Lina
i felt soo sad tadi pagi bila baca paper pasal ni..!! and tis is not the first time cases like tis... mom's boyfren dera anak..!!
mcm betty cakap, it really make me wonder.. where is the mother bila anak2 ni kena dera..??? |
athlete (athlete)
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Username: athlete
Post Number: 690
Registered: 9-2005
| | Posted on Friday, October 16, 2009 - 10:14 am: |
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Morning ladies...
Oh dear, such sad horrible news...
Seems like more and more of these kind of cases lately.
I tend to agree also, that for such families, think that the child is better off now.
I think of all those couples who are unable to have children of their own and will do anything to have a child.
And then there are those who can have them but don't treat them well.
Situations like this I wonder, why don't they just put up their kids for adoption...
On a side note, the other day, around 9pm, I heard the sound of baby crying outisde.
I looked out and at the multi-purpose hall, saw a teenager carrying a baby, who was not wearing anything except diapers.
Then a couple of her teenage friends, I assume, came over, with milk bottle and a stroller.
After giving the baby milk, she put the baby in the stroller.
Baby was quiet so I assume was sleeping.
Then they all proceeded to start smoking and play cards.
Felt a bit sad watching this scene... |
sma||dreams (smalldreams)
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Username: smalldreams
Post Number: 3687
Registered: 2-2007
| | Posted on Friday, October 16, 2009 - 10:18 am: |
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athlete
tat's sad 
I have had encounters with similar profiles but
wouldn't be able to share them in such a public platform.
It's a sad social issue. |
Lynn (lynn02)
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Username: lynn02
Post Number: 5682
Registered: 11-2007
| | Posted on Friday, October 16, 2009 - 10:23 am: |
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athlete
dat kind of scene, really disturb me..
during Ramadan kemarin, bila both me and hb jln after iftar kat bazar.. boleh nampak byk these teenagers group carry or pushing stoller wit tots or babies..
and sad thing is, dorang gather lepak2 sambil hisap rokok, cakap maki2.. i feel for the kids. |
Sri Leo (sri_leo)
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Username: sri_leo
Post Number: 1975
Registered: 7-2008
| | Posted on Friday, October 16, 2009 - 10:25 am: |
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sedih nye..... tts y i try nt to fall in love again... i ragu2 other man will treat my doter like their own cz her own father sendiri tk... so I rather dedicate my time & love for Shadiyah.. And I want her all for myself... HAHAHAHA! tk mau share! hehehe.. |
Sri Leo (sri_leo)
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Username: sri_leo
Post Number: 1978
Registered: 7-2008
| | Posted on Friday, October 16, 2009 - 10:27 am: |
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case mcm tu byk bangsa kita eh..... i tink they find it cool la... |
athlete (athlete)
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Username: athlete
Post Number: 691
Registered: 9-2005
| | Posted on Friday, October 16, 2009 - 10:28 am: |
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Smalldreams,
Yup, I understand.
Just that, at that moment I looked at my sleeping boy and thought of the massive responsibilty that I have on my part to raise him well and to be the best he can be... |
athlete (athlete)
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Username: athlete
Post Number: 692
Registered: 9-2005
| | Posted on Friday, October 16, 2009 - 10:30 am: |
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Lynn,
Same, same... |
nora aw (noni1)
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Username: noni1
Post Number: 8226
Registered: 2-2007
| | Posted on Friday, October 16, 2009 - 10:42 am: |
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Yesterday i went to visit my neighbour who are conservative indian muslim family
he asked us, what is happening to the malays?
he's been seeing all these malay youngsters with tatoos and piercings?
we talked abt this for a while ..
i also asked them how is it that they maintained their culture and lifestlye?
why they are not influenced by the secular and mainstream?
they said its a way of life. they did not change form the methods that their father and mother taught them
they know the kids will be annoyed by their ways
but they rather the kids annoyed at them than be wayward
how to strike a balance?? |
sma||dreams (smalldreams)
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Username: smalldreams
Post Number: 3688
Registered: 2-2007
| | Posted on Friday, October 16, 2009 - 10:42 am: |
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Sri
You're very young. You still haven't experienced the joys, ups & downs of marriage. If you meet a responsible man who's able to guide you & provide for you & Shadiyah, you might want to re-consider.
Just use the examples we see around us and aspire not to make the same mistakes. Nanti kalau you dah ada BF/partner, you mustn't trust him with Shadiyah alone selagi dia belum jadi your hubby or hasn't gained your trust. Only you as a mum boleh dipercayai. No offence yah, just my 2 cents
Athlete
Sama lah. Sedangkan children with priviledged backgrounds, masih ada banyak lagi aspects parents nak kena juggle. Kasi makan, shelter is one thing. Teaching him the right values is another thing. |
m@m@of2b@bies (nshah)
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Username: nshah
Post Number: 8384
Registered: 5-2007
| | Posted on Friday, October 16, 2009 - 10:47 am: |
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abt tattoos & piercing & pakaian tak senonoh cam makin "beranakkan" amg our youngsters,
kkdg ku heran seh tgk camne dorang bleh lepas buat camtu? padahal kkdg theres parents with them seh.. n esp the elders pakai tudung for e mums.. dont e mum care? dont e dad care or kasi duit utk dorang buang tattoo tu? how do they discpline their kids? y did they resort to do all dat? cam menjijikan di mata kita tp setiap kali i saw them, il mengucap seh & berdoa agar jauhkan anak2 dari ini smua?
r e parents keep gvg them face till spoilt them?
apa yg terjadi within my "bounds" mmg ada n byk.. even those anak luar nikah of tem pun n even e family can bcome so tunggang langgang seh.. ada ke e boy which is supp to be e cucu bt is being brought as anak instead n e mak of e boy call her kakak camne tu? |
Sri Leo (sri_leo)
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Username: sri_leo
Post Number: 1979
Registered: 7-2008
| | Posted on Friday, October 16, 2009 - 10:54 am: |
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smalldreams
tts wat my colleagues told me.. but it just me... nt ready yet to share our life wit a man... cz my life doesnt evolve me & shadiyah jer.. hv to tink of Nur juga...
k, frankly... i takut if one day I happily married..den few yrs dwn the road my ex nk fight custody..for sure it will stress me up..I don want ltr HB will said smth like "ni la..kahwin ngan u byk prob!".... LOL! I know i shld tink positive but juz cant help it la... Well, for nw I'm very contented wit my life.... if dh jodoh tk ke mana... |
sma||dreams (smalldreams)
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Username: smalldreams
Post Number: 3690
Registered: 2-2007
| | Posted on Friday, October 16, 2009 - 11:04 am: |
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Sri
Betul, kalau dah jodoh insya-Allah you'll find the right person some day
Tapi kenapa Nur jadi tanggungjawab you pulak? You already have Shadiyah under your wings. Isn't Nur yr sister's daughter? |
lina yh (myohmy)
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Username: myohmy
Post Number: 8200
Registered: 9-2008
| | Posted on Friday, October 16, 2009 - 11:09 am: |
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smalldreams...satu hari i nak date u....i nak interview u... |
sma||dreams (smalldreams)
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Username: smalldreams
Post Number: 3691
Registered: 2-2007
| | Posted on Friday, October 16, 2009 - 11:13 am: |
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lina
Apahal you nak date I ni? Bukannya I ni professor pandai mana pun :P
You interview budak2 yang tolak stroller at a young age lagi bagus. Be a good mentor to them. Sometimes what they need is just a positive role model... |
lina yh (myohmy)
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Username: myohmy
Post Number: 8201
Registered: 9-2008
| | Posted on Friday, October 16, 2009 - 11:16 am: |
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smalldreams...
i nak interview dorang...but takut dorang tak terima lak...
so i interview u lah.....*muke i pon tak pecah kena bedal* |
Lynn (lynn02)
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Username: lynn02
Post Number: 5683
Registered: 11-2007
| | Posted on Friday, October 16, 2009 - 11:16 am: |
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Lina
kau nak interview smalldream sorang je?? kau tak nak interview aku sekali??
**iye lah aku sedar siapa diri aku ni..** LOL |
athlete (athlete)
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Username: athlete
Post Number: 693
Registered: 9-2005
| | Posted on Friday, October 16, 2009 - 11:17 am: |
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How to strike a balace, note, this is just my POV:
I take in how my parents have have raised us.
We all went to what they called goverment-aided, catholic schools.
But pergi class ngaji, sembahyang jemaah frequently.
Parents were v strict abt school work.
Everynight, at 8 pm, its homework and revision on together, its mandatory.
If not, kena pukul dengan ruler.
And not just any flat ruler but the technical ruler, with 3D sides.
All the way until were in JC.
And we maintained a close family relationship, outings together, dinner together everyday, birthday celebrations etc...
I compare that to my Hb's family.
From young, they're not really a close family.
Basically from sec school onwards, kau buat hal kau, aku buat hal aku.
No monitoring of school work, no family outings and tak mesra as a family.
But thankfully, he and his brothers didn't really "stray".
But I can see how that kind of "non-family" environment can be harmful at this day and age.
Again, just my POV, don't mean to offend anyone... |
lina yh (myohmy)
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Post Number: 8202
Registered: 9-2008
| | Posted on Friday, October 16, 2009 - 11:19 am: |
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lynn,
meh meh i nak interview u tapi hal lain...hihihihi
anak dara aku baru 10 years...but i feel that i got so much to tell her...but she is soooo young.... |
sma||dreams (smalldreams)
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Username: smalldreams
Post Number: 3692
Registered: 2-2007
| | Posted on Friday, October 16, 2009 - 11:22 am: |
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Tapi kan lina
kalau free, meet for lunch ah today :P
Unless you nak kena check mesen...hehehe...
we could meet in toa payoh or novena if you want |
lina yh (myohmy)
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Post Number: 8203
Registered: 9-2008
| | Posted on Friday, October 16, 2009 - 11:24 am: |
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""non-family" environment can be harmful at this day and age"
nie pon my POV....
non-family environment kids r at greater 'risk ' walaupon tak dinafikan...those close-knit family\strict agama pon r at risk too |
Sri Leo (sri_leo)
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Username: sri_leo
Post Number: 1980
Registered: 7-2008
| | Posted on Friday, October 16, 2009 - 11:25 am: |
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smalldreams
I jaga nur when she still a NB... masa tu semua keje shift so left me & her at hm... bonding very strg..dh mcm anak sendiri... I shld let go but nt the time yet... she still needs me... once my sis dh ada keje & umah sendiri, I'll hand over the responsibility to her... soon i guess cz sis dh dpt surat frm HDB... hurhur... |
m@m@of2b@bies (nshah)
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Username: nshah
Post Number: 8385
Registered: 5-2007
| | Posted on Friday, October 16, 2009 - 11:25 am: |
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sri
dari dat dae act ku ni kepo nak tanya... u called Nur kakak2 is she kakak to shadiyah or setakat pangkat je eh? i also heran gak cam peah.. hehe |
athlete (athlete)
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Username: athlete
Post Number: 694
Registered: 9-2005
| | Posted on Friday, October 16, 2009 - 11:34 am: |
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on a lighter note...
what's for lunch today everyone? |
Sri Leo (sri_leo)
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Username: sri_leo
Post Number: 1981
Registered: 7-2008
| | Posted on Friday, October 16, 2009 - 11:36 am: |
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Nshah
Oh..pangkat..since i preggie i dh latih dia panggil shadiyah adik... we live under one roof.. for 2yrs nur is the only 'child' in the family...confirm dia pampered kan.. kesian nanti if tiba2 ada satu lagi baby... jealous kang...and she attached to me...
so in order to make her understand the meaning of sharing...i train her to be a elder sister...a leader...hv to protect her lil sis.... give in mana yg patut...jgn lokek... etc2... |
lina yh (myohmy)
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Post Number: 8204
Registered: 9-2008
| | Posted on Friday, October 16, 2009 - 11:37 am: |
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smalldreams...
alamak today cannot...
i can meet for lunch at tao\payoh or novena...
we set another date eh....nanti i mail u.... |
sma||dreams (smalldreams)
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Username: smalldreams
Post Number: 3693
Registered: 2-2007
| | Posted on Friday, October 16, 2009 - 11:38 am: |
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athlete
entah lah tak tau nak lunch apa eh? Fast food pun macam sedap :P
yourself? briyani lagi ke?
Lina
Ouh, you sibuk angkat mesen ke hari ni? K insya-Allah |
sma||dreams (smalldreams)
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Username: smalldreams
Post Number: 3694
Registered: 2-2007
| | Posted on Friday, October 16, 2009 - 11:39 am: |
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Sri
Is Nur going to school already?
She's about 3 to 4 yrs old now? |
athlete (athlete)
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Username: athlete
Post Number: 695
Registered: 9-2005
| | Posted on Friday, October 16, 2009 - 11:43 am: |
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smalldreams,
heh, its raining in loyang.
so looks like its gonna be either white sands or downtown east again...
dunno know what to have...
heh, anyone in the east nak lunch? |
nora aw (noni1)
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Post Number: 8227
Registered: 2-2007
| | Posted on Friday, October 16, 2009 - 11:47 am: |
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haiyah i MUST eat rice today..hope ade lauk best
laparrrrr |
m@m@of2b@bies (nshah)
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Post Number: 8386
Registered: 5-2007
| | Posted on Friday, October 16, 2009 - 11:50 am: |
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athelte
alamak loyang raining?
hmm hope it wont prolong as im gg for lunch at ARNOLDs with mu, sis & son ehhe a nice time to brg them out |
Sri Leo (sri_leo)
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Post Number: 1982
Registered: 7-2008
| | Posted on Friday, October 16, 2009 - 11:52 am: |
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smalldreams
Nur going to 3yrs! cpt eh bdk2 ni membesar... :D Yup, shld be going to sch but sis lum make any plans.. i cant afford as sis still nt working.. so subsidy only $150 kan instead of $300? perit ahh... I enrol shadiyah in CC... insya'allah when she is 18mths under waiting list.... sigh..i ada bias sikit.. hehehe..feel unfair i noe..guilty as charged.. but my priority will always be Shadiyah... she needs me too..atleast nur ada mummy dia... tapi part lain i try to be fair eh... apa shadiyah ada, kakak dia pun ada... |
nora aw (noni1)
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Post Number: 8228
Registered: 2-2007
| | Posted on Friday, October 16, 2009 - 11:57 am: |
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*TWO THUMBS UP FOR SRI*
U deserve a big pat on the back gerl .... |
sma||dreams (smalldreams)
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Username: smalldreams
Post Number: 3695
Registered: 2-2007
| | Posted on Friday, October 16, 2009 - 12:02 pm: |
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Sri
Yeah i agree with Nora, you're trying yr best for Shadiyah! Well done.
Anyway kalau you nak enrol Nur, she wouldn't qualify for the subsidy. Hopefully yr sis gets a job. A simple one would do so the fees wouldn't be so rabakzz.
Nora
You nak makan kat mana? :P
You selalu buy back ke lunch with coleagues? |
nora aw (noni1)
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Post Number: 8229
Registered: 2-2007
| | Posted on Friday, October 16, 2009 - 12:06 pm: |
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Peah
i usually buy back bec its hard to get seats ah here
and i simply hate the tissue chopping technique
i go to cuppage plaza or tehbuilding next to it
these places got malay stall |
athlete (athlete)
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Username: athlete
Post Number: 696
Registered: 9-2005
| | Posted on Friday, October 16, 2009 - 12:14 pm: |
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the class 95 morning show is always talking abt the tissue chope-ing issue lately...
hungry... |
m@m@of2b@bies (nshah)
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Post Number: 8387
Registered: 5-2007
| | Posted on Friday, October 16, 2009 - 12:24 pm: |
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klah ladies
nak siap2 to go hehe tak da govt nak cabut siangs hehe
happy diwali, happy holiday, happy wkd |
athlete (athlete)
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Post Number: 697
Registered: 9-2005
| | Posted on Friday, October 16, 2009 - 1:02 pm: |
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bye nshah.
have fun at arnolds.
me out too. |
lina yh (myohmy)
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Post Number: 8205
Registered: 9-2008
| | Posted on Friday, October 16, 2009 - 1:03 pm: |
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selalu yg chop chop pakai tissue the women...
kalau i go out with my guy coligs....tak pernah dorang buat cam gitu.... |
zu (mixedup)
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Username: mixedup
Post Number: 3755
Registered: 3-2006
| | Posted on Friday, October 16, 2009 - 1:35 pm: |
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hi sumer..!!
pasal chop chop tisu-
kenape eh bleh jadi habit?! i dun see those pat Orchard tau but once i step into RP or TPagar area its v norm. No offence la, cos i tak keje, isit necessary to chop w tisu? tak bleh ke kalo makan then jalan? knape nak lepak? if everyone just eat their meals, then jalan, i dun see the need for this tisu culture. Boleh jadi gaduh tau, esp btwn Singaporeans and foreigners. :P
Pasal masalah teenagers,
no komen lah cos like lina cakap, ade from close knit family or strong religious background pun bleh haywire... it all boils down to kids personality i suppose. so i believe everything sumer kene start and nurture from young. take my family, sumer perangai lain2 tapi sumer kluar dan dididik dari satu emak. mcmne nak explain tu? :P
Violence-
i tink kids nowadays are getting very violent. tak tau nk salahkan didikan dorang, tv or ... take for example eh, just few days ago, aku pass by tis teenage couple in school uniform, kene pukul and maki hamun by the teenage bf. lucky got one man masuk campur.. if not habis pompuan tu! and thats not the 1st time.. da 3,4 kali aku nmpk teenage gal being abused by the bf in public. |
nora aw (noni1)
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back form luch
punyer lah panas outside...
zu
i dun think they want to lepak
they wan to secure teh seat so that when they come back with their food dah ade seat
kat orchard pun ade lah...
dulu kat goldenshoe pple can be carrying their bowl or plate of food and just standing behind those seated to get that seat later
tu yg buat i malas nak lunch out |
zu (mixedup)
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no lah nora.. i know.
tapi bleh suruh kawan dorang wait while they buy per. takkan sumer nak bli together then letak tisu...
so ugly la. mcm lina ckp, if the guys tak buat knape plak eh pompuan nk buat?
hehe... aku byk komen eh, skali nxt time kau nmpk aku buat mcm tu plak.
well, kalo in Rome, do wat the Romans do rite? :p
yah.. tadi pg hujan lebat.. now panas! |
nora aw (noni1)
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zu
yep yep ... betol kau cakap
if i go with a coliq we just tak turns to jage the seat
kalau sorang aku tapao la |
zu (mixedup)
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nora,
aku rasa malu ler kalo buat mcm tu..! :P |
nora aw (noni1)
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ya lor rase cam kat AMK.. oooppsssss |
lina yh (myohmy)
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zu\nora...
yg ade chop ngan payung! hihihiihih |
nora aw (noni1)
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i saw before also ...
but once i saw at mac d
these boys put their sch bags to chop
then this man with family act samseng
just took the seat
and put all the boys stuff on the floor
whn the boys came back
they told the family its their seat
the man started shouting at the boys
the boys back off and collectted their things
whicn the man had placed on the floor
the man's son had such a smug look on his face
see what example he's showing his kid |
lina yh (myohmy)
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nora...bad bad example.... |
san (hanasan)
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Senyap jer...
Neway, HAPPY DEEPAVALI & LONG HOLS TO WHOEVER GOING FOR OFF-IN-LIEU.
Heading for my Friday chips with the rest.
Have a blessed wknds ladies! |
sma||dreams (smalldreams)
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Morning all! Decided to take urgent child care leave today cos not much motivation for office!
Saw on fb mamaliz dah gi zoo. How about the rest? Any ideas what I can do with adam today?
Wati hope your plans with maya went well! |
san (hanasan)
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Morning smalldreams...
Spent my wknds finishing my assingmnts.
Now having big bfaz...hehe! |
m@m@of2b@bies (nshah)
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morning peah & san
wah liz pi zoo? bestnya hehe for me stuck in office jelah.. |
Nora.Rossi (norarossi)
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Morning2 everyone wave wave... |
san (hanasan)
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Nshah,
Gi Impak Maksima sey...best tak? |
Mdm Wati The Great (wati)
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Selamat Pagi kengkawan..
Had a blast with Maya on her b'day... Even though ada yg i plan tak menjadi, we still had fun. Total, Maya b'day is 3 days 2 nites series.. Hehehe |
whatyouare (bettybad)
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Morning ladies.
Would be doing my own girly errands today and a visit to the gynae later. No, not pregnant yet =) Then off to seek quotations from IDs.
Mamaliz and Norra Rossi use which reno co eh?
Wati, untungnya Maya birthday sampai 3 hari 2 malam. Agak-agaknya kalau dia jadi pengantin, kau buat 7 hari 7 malam tak? Hehe. |
Mdm Wati The Great (wati)
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Hahah.. Betty..tu lah. Dia baru turn 2 eh. Belum sweet 16, 21, 30...kahwin pun belum. Tapi kan.. It's me lah. Aku yg make sure that she is very happy. Next to organized will be my mum's 51 b'day and my hubby's 31 b'day.. in Dec. |
lynzi (lynzi1606)
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morning ladies in de house!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
betty,
mamaliz used the same as mine..
kenneth from ideal house. |
lynzi (lynzi1606)
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wati,
dapat my mail tak?
i takut tak fit so gave u a bigger size..ehehe..kiasu me |
Mdm Wati The Great (wati)
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Hi Lynzi,
Thank you so much for the mail. You should not have lah. Thanks for the thought eh... |
Mdm Wati The Great (wati)
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aik senyap ye... sumer dah gi makan eh ? |
m@m@of2b@bies (nshah)
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hello smua
nari cam mendak seh.. nobody to chat at msn haiz boringnya... |
whatyouare (bettybad)
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Lynzi, thanks for the info. I'm sourcing out quotations from a few and Ideal House is in my list. Mamaliz used Mr K eh. I thought you use another guy? |
lynzi (lynzi1606)
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wati,
muat tak?
nshah,
hi!
how r u? |
lynzi (lynzi1606)
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betty,
i took mr k first then halfway thru while finalising the details i changed to max cos mr k was too busy with 3 other houses as its coming to cny..
u can try another id at toa payoh hub also..my cousin used them..very good and affordable too.
who else are u considering? |
whatyouare (bettybad)
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Lynzi, what's the name of the ID? I'm shortlisting some of the big names and a few contractors bawah blok =) Just want to compare the prices first. Ideal Hse is recommended in a reno forum so I want to go and take a look also. |
Mdm Wati The Great (wati)
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Lynzi, i tak muat lah baju tu... hehehe
Maya muat plak... hehe
Wah, betty.. best nyer nak reno rumah.. i loike ! |
lynzi (lynzi1606)
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ideal house dah quite ex now.
my cousin got a higher qoutation from them as compared to the toa payoh one.
its called homely image..ada website..u go and view ah. |
whatyouare (bettybad)
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Wati, dulu rumah u reno dengan siapa?
Best tu best but fikirkan balik, sebenarnya malas tau. Banyak kerja nak buat. Hehe. Thinking of the moving and unpacking later dah buat aku lemau. |
Mdm Wati The Great (wati)
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Betty, i tak reno pun. I masuk rumah tu in move-in condition. I cuma tampal wall paper.. wall paper tu yg buat cantik. Hehhee. Yes.. compare prices. But i did a platform in my living room. I carik kat HDB approved contractors for Jurong area. Then i ask them to come my house and measure and quote. No obligations. |
lynzi (lynzi1606)
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betty,
what concept u looking at?
doing lots of built in tak? |
lynzi (lynzi1606)
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cip..
ler mestilah not meant for u..hehehe..
eh maya muat eh?
tak longgar? |
whatyouare (bettybad)
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Lynzi, not much built in. I'm changing the fittings macam windows, grilles, doors, renovating kitchen and toilets, repolish parquet, rewiring. Not major overhaul.
Our concept's still simple, mix and match and instead of all white, trying to inject a lil bit of colours. |
m@m@of2b@bies (nshah)
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hey all.. back from diwali lunch..
hehe sedap from sakunthala, ada tapau lagi noh hehe |
Mdm Wati The Great (wati)
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Oh shit.. aku baru habis lunch with a galpal and we were talking about somebody thinking that someone tak dgr... but actually she heard the whole conversation... how ?!!! |
Mdm Wati The Great (wati)
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eh.. takder orang layan aku ker... |
Danryan (maswan02)
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kesian Wati bebual sorang... |
nora aw (noni1)
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| | Posted on Monday, October 19, 2009 - 2:00 pm: |
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Cip
aiyohhh tak tau ..... *wags finger* |
nora aw (noni1)
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cip
u cant undo it
hopes for the best
put yourself in the other persons shoe
my pov
kalau dia approach kau
u apologise
kalau tak
u better watch ur step..
she maybe planning something for u
PS: this is assuming u were not discussing pleasant things abt that person lah |
Mdm Wati The Great (wati)
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Sigh*... I really regret tau talking about her.. tapi it was .. hmm.. to me innocent ah...
We talked about
1) How can she not offer food to us, when we always think of her...
2) How can she not treat us like sisters....kita kat sini cuma ada 3 melayu jer...
etc etc......
Yes.. the moment i step out of the pantry and saw her, i terus menyesal giler... now actually tgh badi tau.. mcm ...very sick feeling.. tapi aku tahu aku menyesal lah...Sigh** |
nora aw (noni1)
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Cip
aku pernah nak sms kaki kau pasal one coliq
sekali aku TERsms that coliq herself
MENGIGILL beb ... my hands were shaking
I can imigine how u feel |
Mdm Wati The Great (wati)
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Gosh Nora.... yes ! I feel the same way... haiz.. it's a sick feeling kan... haiz..entahlah. Memang padan muka aku.. dah mengumpat..nie lah dosa yer...
Dan.. kenapa you tak pakai font merah ?..
Wow...raya pun dah habis eh... buang yg keruh amik yg jernih... mana yg silent reader tu, marilah masuk sini... kita chit chat.. kesunyiaan beta di sini... |
Mdm Wati The Great (wati)
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Maya looking very happy.. |
nora aw (noni1)
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So how did the events of MAya celebration goes? |
lynzi (lynzi1606)
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hallo all..just back from lunch.
wati,
if org tu tak approach u then u buat dek jelah like nothing happen.
but if he/she does then just say nicely the facts and how u feel about it..maybe she has her reasons..
yelah kiter mana tau rite.. |
m@m@of2b@bies (nshah)
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wati
yelah buat donnoe je ah if she dont approach or apa.. or if dia approach u, apologise je.. wats done cant be undone kan? |
Mdm Wati The Great (wati)
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Lynzi, thanks for your input.. Haiz. Now i must watch my surroundings.. Walls have ears...
Nora...since you ask.. i explain in details... jgn boring tau..
Thursday Nite - Went dinner with in-laws. No pressie received. In-laws say got no money this month, cukai for next month. Padahal sat & sun dorang gie KL ikut rombongan.. Sigh* No comment.
Friday - Morning went to the zoo and then Singapore Flyers. Change plan sebab my dad demam and batuk and flu.. so I have not yet have a celebration with my side..so again Maya got no presents from her grandparents and auntie and uncle.
Sat - Snow City and Sentosa (We took the luge and skyride and went to Underwaterworld)
Sun - Went to Tumbletots and the teachers sang b'day song for Maya..even gave her a small token. Then we went Snow City and Science Centre again.. ehehhe...
Lepak eh... Not that we spent money ...ada orang kasi pinjam family card..so kita lanyak...can go to the Singapore Attractions for FOC.. save duit. |
m@m@of2b@bies (nshah)
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babes
any eye cream to recc eh? my dark circle makin menjadi2 ah since for a mth liao coz every nite i sure bangun as hub asik batuk2 n ill urut dada dia, taruk vicks, amik air wait till he sleeps then i sleep.. so my eye bag makin rabak seh i tink concealer pun tak tahan seh peh bertepek ku tampal |
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