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Lynn02 (lynn02)
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Username: lynn02
Post Number: 5539
Registered: 11-2007
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 11:21 am: | 
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Nshahi
hahaha... mesti plan "jauh", try not to take so many days of AL.. kita merancang je, Dia yg tentukan.. hehehe
nora
ur hb nak cat rumah?? boleh ke dia cat ur house tu?? |
m@m@of2b@bies (nshah)
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Username: nshah
Post Number: 7980
Registered: 5-2007
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 11:25 am: |
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lynn
hehe taklah bila ku terpikir balik a'ah eh tul gak seh u amik e flwg monday sbb confirm byk jalan & makan & penat, pancit kan hehe pandai gak eh.. aiks tu quote cam kenal je ;)
NAw
a'ahlah ku pun terpikir wow superb lah ur hub cat ur rumah yg besar tu hehe rajin.. we hv not been catting our house since e last 5yrs jus lap2 je ah |
Shahlynn (shahlynn)
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Username: shahlynn
Post Number: 4748
Registered: 1-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 11:30 am: |
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hello hello |
sma||dreams (smalldreams)
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Username: smalldreams
Post Number: 3251
Registered: 2-2007
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 11:31 am: |
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Lynn
Bagus idea you! I pun nak amik leave the following Monday lah! Actually I boring tau coz I am involved in an event on the Friday yang betul2 lepas raya. Nak amik leave sampai Rabu pun tak sedap sebab sure ada banyak loose ends to tie. Grrr...apa nak buat eh, dah tugas :S
So I think I shall take a break that Monday.
Nshah
style, ko main lap2 dinding rumah? hehe, Teringat my hubby's aunt. After kenduri last week, dia first to go home, sebab dia kata dia kerja & penat. So the other aunts suruh dia exercise, kerja rumah pun a form of excercise. Tapi dia dah penat sangat, dia kata dia buat housework, lipat kain & "mop Baju" We all had a good laugh!! Nampak sah dah penat sangat, tak sabar nak balik. |
nora aw (noni1)
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Username: noni1
Post Number: 7893
Registered: 2-2007
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 11:32 am: |
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my hb cat mane yg sampai jer lah... sikit sikit
kat luar cat porch only
ruamh ade budak, u know lah... picasso banyak noh
but our living room lampu badly needs cleaning, macam mane eh?
tak sampai, nak pakai scaffolding, mahal
any ideas gerls |
sma||dreams (smalldreams)
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Username: smalldreams
Post Number: 3252
Registered: 2-2007
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 11:33 am: |
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Nora
susah jugak eh ! I punya rumah rendah gitu, nak tukar lightbulb dah macam apa. I saw my neighbour ada ladder, i told my hubby, gi pinjam tu ladder, pasang lampu sebelum raya. |
m@m@of2b@bies (nshah)
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Username: nshah
Post Number: 7981
Registered: 5-2007
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 11:34 am: |
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peah
a'ah sbb mine is those rockstone yg bleh lapnya wen kotor or berabuk haha so takyalah nak cat over coz tak da org nak cat pung.. janji still ok, dahlah even langsir pun ku tak tukar, i dont do major changes ah for raya.. ala kadar je bt like those cushion covers, bedsheet ah mesti mau tukar hehe n beli baru hehe |
Lynn02 (lynn02)
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Username: lynn02
Post Number: 5540
Registered: 11-2007
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 11:35 am: |
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Heloo Shahlynn
reporting from bangkit ofis ke??
Nshahi, smalldream
bagus kan idea i.. hehehe
tak payah amik too many leave on hari raya wk tu.. lagi pun wkdays byk org keje kan.. take leave just to rest at home.
smalldream
betol punya penat lah tu.. sampai kan nak "mop baju".. LOL |
m@m@of2b@bies (nshah)
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Username: nshah
Post Number: 7982
Registered: 5-2007
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 11:36 am: |
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NAw
a'ah seh camne tu eh? tg noh nak panjat.. sorry no idea, my kipas tu pun ku lap terkial2 silap langkah je gedebuk.. hehe |
sma||dreams (smalldreams)
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Username: smalldreams
Post Number: 3253
Registered: 2-2007
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 11:38 am: |
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Lynn
I agree, I suka amik leave time raya bukannya sebab nak jalan. mainly to slack & rilek makan kuih raya sendiri. Tido... catch up on rest. Best! |
Shahlynn (shahlynn)
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Username: shahlynn
Post Number: 4749
Registered: 1-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 11:40 am: |
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lynn,
bangkit ofis... |
m@m@of2b@bies (nshah)
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Username: nshah
Post Number: 7983
Registered: 5-2007
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 11:40 am: |
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peah
*lol* hehe
oh yeah dat dae kita nampak dis big ketupat tght nak beli & gantung luar balcony is it ok eh to do that? it can be hung thru the "flag" loops.. will it goes against HDB rules?
oh btw its a deco ah, lampu |
m@m@of2b@bies (nshah)
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Username: nshah
Post Number: 7984
Registered: 5-2007
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 11:41 am: |
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slynn
u skg byk amik leave ke? or work from home or jadi homemaker babe? jus curious& kepo sbb selalu gak reporting from bangkit hehe |
san (hanasan)
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Username: hanasan
Post Number: 3128
Registered: 12-2007
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 11:42 am: |
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smalldreams,
That's funny!
MOP BAJU -- betul punya penat tu smpi tersasul!
Nshah,
jgn tak shopping bedsheet, cushion cover tau...kang lupa...
Nora,
If your ladder is high enough, shld be ok eh?
Kalau tak...hmmm, I pon tk tahu mcm mana nk lap atau tukar...hihihi
Hello SLynn... |
m@m@of2b@bies (nshah)
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Username: nshah
Post Number: 7985
Registered: 5-2007
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 11:44 am: |
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san
bedsheet mmg dah ada stdby hehe dah lama beli tgl tg bentang je.. cushion cover tgk ah if ada yg berkenan else kai je apa yg ada  coz rumah ku not really a place for ppl to come, takda yg sudi, ku pun tak kisah hehe |
san (hanasan)
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Username: hanasan
Post Number: 3129
Registered: 12-2007
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 11:46 am: |
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Nshah,
Don't say that...kalau u buat open hse, mesti meriah... |
Shahlynn (shahlynn)
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Username: shahlynn
Post Number: 4750
Registered: 1-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 11:47 am: |
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{jus curious& kepo sbb selalu gak reporting from bangkit hehe}
nampak sgt tak pay attention eh...
hepp!
i on leave lah...
my babysitter aka mom & whole household kena self quarantine....
my sis & husband H1N1 positive.
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Shahlynn (shahlynn)
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Username: shahlynn
Post Number: 4751
Registered: 1-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 11:52 am: |
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rumah...
last year i dah cat.
dh kata, kita ikut HDB nyer schedule.
once every 5years baru cat.
langsir, throw, cushion,
i still using last year's...
cadar, last year i bot a few from Aussino... blom gunakan... |
sma||dreams (smalldreams)
Intermediate Member
Username: smalldreams
Post Number: 3255
Registered: 2-2007
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 11:54 am: |
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Nshah
Kadang2 youngsters ni, tak ramai orang datang. Bagus lah, tak yah susah2 nak kemas2, masak2 etc
Shahlynn
Ouh dear, I baru tau! kesiannya yr sis. How did she get it & Hubby get it?
Semalam I naik train balik rumah, aduhhh...stress seh. Mana2 orang batuk2... I felt so unsafe. I just made doa, only Allah can protect me at that time |
mas (momma_naqi)
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Username: momma_naqi
Post Number: 6882
Registered: 11-2007
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 11:54 am: |
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bedsheet aku da beli....
cushion cover pun da beli...semua thru multiply...
this yr aku pakai semua english rose |
Shahlynn (shahlynn)
Intermediate Member
Username: shahlynn
Post Number: 4752
Registered: 1-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 11:54 am: |
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san,
every year, my kuih muih i only order/ngecek/buat 20-30pcs each...
tak kuasa nak buat macam2...
tahun nie korang sudi tak, datang rumah akuuu??? |
san (hanasan)
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Username: hanasan
Post Number: 3130
Registered: 12-2007
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 11:58 am: |
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Naqi,
Rosy house lah this year... =)
SLynn,
Aaaah...ala beb, janji we open our hse for those who visit us. I sndri tk beraya kat rmh sndri. Tak tahu bila tapi 1 day insyllh... |
Shahlynn (shahlynn)
Intermediate Member
Username: shahlynn
Post Number: 4753
Registered: 1-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 11:58 am: |
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peah,
my sis 6mths pregnant sumore, noe...
how she got it eh?
good question.
she's a nurse. But in OT.
but she's been on unpaid leave since last mth till she deliver. to rest.
so takkan kena at work kan?
her husband, nurse. @ ward.
so mungkin from him.
my 3rd sis, demam panas.
flu & cough.
but she din test for H1N1..
so due to dat, my mom's place out of bound to everyone. |
mas (momma_naqi)
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Username: momma_naqi
Post Number: 6883
Registered: 11-2007
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 11:59 am: |
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.....eh nek slampit....aku tak perasan kau...
mana menghilang...windu seh aku kat kau.. |
sma||dreams (smalldreams)
Intermediate Member
Username: smalldreams
Post Number: 3256
Registered: 2-2007
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 12:02 pm: |
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Shahlynn
I hope yr sis gets well soon. I'm in my 5th mth of pregnancy too. I read about some pregnant women who got it, but they recovered. Cuma I takut kena makan tamiflu lah. And I takut Adam jangkit... just pray & try to avoid crowded places for now.
Ya maybe dia jangkit hubby dia. Kesiannya. Do they have other children?
Yr 3rd sis still sick? She should go test for it.
My colleague's brother kena H1N1 a few weeks ago. My colleague yang jaga dia, tai dia sanitise very regularly. Ahamdulillah dia tak kena.
Good lah, so you jadi temp SAHM lah ni. Nasib baik yr boss understanding |
san (hanasan)
Intermediate Member
Username: hanasan
Post Number: 3131
Registered: 12-2007
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 12:04 pm: |
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SLynn,
That's reali bad!
I hope they'll get well soon.
My prayers for you and family.
Kesian you kena amik unpaid leave. |
Shahlynn (shahlynn)
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Username: shahlynn
Post Number: 4754
Registered: 1-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 12:25 pm: |
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my sis expecting their 1st.
my 3rd sis dah okay, alhamdulillah...
now, all 3 dah takder fever...
just cough & flu skit2 ajer.. |
Shahlynn (shahlynn)
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Username: shahlynn
Post Number: 4755
Registered: 1-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 12:28 pm: |
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persiapan raya, dis year, budget.
i got songket pakistan for $20/set. 4mtr.
the boys, i beli kain satin plain @ arab st.
dah siap pun.... my mom jahit.
mine, still @ larkin...
just the other day, i told hubby...
beg i taknak baru. masih elok lagi.
kasut, beli @ C&K ajer nanti. |
Shahlynn (shahlynn)
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Username: shahlynn
Post Number: 4756
Registered: 1-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 12:33 pm: |
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peah,
my boss tak understanding?
i masuk ofis bawak anak i den tinggalakn kat ofis dia!
heheheh
San,
thanks... |
Shahlynn (shahlynn)
Intermediate Member
Username: shahlynn
Post Number: 4757
Registered: 1-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 12:41 pm: |
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mas,
dis year concept kau english rose la?
sweet... very country... |
sabrina (eliza_hairi)
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Username: eliza_hairi
Post Number: 2921
Registered: 8-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 12:43 pm: |
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hi sumer!
my persiapan raya dis year kat anak2 jer.
new shoes and clothes for them buat jln raya, most likely untuk dorang ikut d granparents jln raya. The grans rajin ziarah rumah sedara mara..
mak and bpk dorang pakai aper yg ader... sumore me n hb susah ambik leave..  |
ღDanRyanღ (maswan02)
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Username: maswan02
Post Number: 7299
Registered: 7-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 12:43 pm: |
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hello semua
greeting fr home
nari masak asam pedas ikan pari, goreng mini drumstik & goreng sayur boncis with tahu & mushrooms
Apek kol me early morning & asked wats up??
so i jawab nari tak werk lah coz semlm dah werk wholeday...
Not that he said abt the resignation letter...
betul ku tak ingat abt that...
i just told him i got new place to work |
sma||dreams (smalldreams)
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Username: smalldreams
Post Number: 3257
Registered: 2-2007
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 12:46 pm: |
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Sabrina
Ya lor, you teacher, mana lah nak amik leave? Tunggu holidays aje lah.
I pun just waiting for my baju, sent thru my colleague. Hopefully sempurna bila jadi. Kalau tak, just buy 1 set of outfit for the 3 of us anak branak lah...
I tersasul, told my hubby, baju only siap after ramadhan. Terbukak my hubby's eyes big big...hahah!
Dan
Sedapnya! Yr lunch sounds so "Kena"!
Seterok2 apek tu pun i rasa dia dah very nice to you eh? He still kept you although his business was not doing well |
sabrina (eliza_hairi)
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Username: eliza_hairi
Post Number: 2922
Registered: 8-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 12:46 pm: |
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nshah,
asal ko ckp umah ko takder org sudi nak dtg? Aku dtg kang! bwk sumer kaum puak baru ko tau! hehe! |
ღDanRyanღ (maswan02)
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Username: maswan02
Post Number: 7300
Registered: 7-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 12:47 pm: |
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Raya tahun nie...ala kadar coz mom kat spital
the kids baju kurung, me & hb will buy at Angsana
kasut kids & baju dah beli kat Dubai...so tak byk belanja kat sini..
baju lace me n gal dah siap kat tampines
Umah dah 10yrs tak pernah cat...hb gd mood going to paint it for this yr..
kueh muih ku byk chocodates fr dubai too...lol
will beli a few jenis je
my kasut dah 3thn tak beli might beli at c&k |
ღDanRyanღ (maswan02)
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Username: maswan02
Post Number: 7301
Registered: 7-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 12:51 pm: |
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Smalldreams
he told me to comeback on sat for paperwork...")
actually he so chinchai type of boss...
so far i tak pernak kol him boss or Mr Tan
but just kol by his name |
mas (momma_naqi)
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Username: momma_naqi
Post Number: 6884
Registered: 11-2007
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 12:52 pm: |
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kasut memang tak plan nak beli dis yr...kasut raya thn lepas lagi ok...
dh pun smlm cakap dia tak need apa2.....so oklah...
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mamaliz (mamaliz)
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Username: mamaliz
Post Number: 3524
Registered: 2-2007
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 12:55 pm: |
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wah semua rancak planning raya ehhh...
for me....kids modern clothes dah settle, 2 pasang...cuma kasut sarah leceh skit...she a bit ngada ngada...tu taknak ni taknak...pening kpala aku...belum beli baju kurung...not even for any of us...hubb dah cakap for him takyah...jus carik mana yg masih bole pakai kat gerobok tu..
bag n kasut...i memang nd to buy cos the whole yr i memang tak beli kasut cuma selipar...kakakaka...bag semua dari zaman dulu kala..my arwah mak slalu bising pasal my cupboard tak nampak macam bini org punya....no bags/accessories/barang kemas....jus shirts n jeans... |
Shahlynn (shahlynn)
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Username: shahlynn
Post Number: 4758
Registered: 1-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 1:11 pm: |
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Dan,
kena sgt lah ur lunch!
if asam pedas, i dun take the fish.
only kuah kasi pinggan banjir, ayam goreng & boncis/bayam!
alih2 sedar, dah 2 kali tambah!
ehheeh
kasut pun, dah 3tahun i tak beli kasut ketak-ketuk... (tumit tinggi lerrr)
asyik2 slip ons, sandals...
the only tumit tinggi dat i have, dah koyak.
nie pun, KIV.
coz my $150 timberland slip ons pun bleh buat jalan raya... cumer tak cun ajer lah... |
nora aw (noni1)
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Username: noni1
Post Number: 7894
Registered: 2-2007
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 1:14 pm: |
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crocs pun can buat jalan raye, selesa,
tak melecet,
senang nak pakai, tak lah terkial kial depan pintu orang..
banyak color to match match lagi.. hehhheh |
zu (mixedup)
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Username: mixedup
Post Number: 3634
Registered: 3-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 1:18 pm: |
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hello..!
rancak bobal pasal raya.. |
Shahlynn (shahlynn)
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Username: shahlynn
Post Number: 4759
Registered: 1-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 1:19 pm: |
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i sukkerrrr skali buat open house.
bukan aper... but sekali kerja!
sekali masak, sekali entertain, sekali serak, sekali kemas...
my family, makcik pakcik include, will come on the day kita kluar jalan ramai2... convoy.
tu, i skali masak...
den usually 3rd sat, i will just masak2 & open for all friends & relatives yg blom datang & sudi datang...
dah habis! |
Shahlynn (shahlynn)
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Username: shahlynn
Post Number: 4760
Registered: 1-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 1:20 pm: |
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zuuuuu.....
lama tak nampak??
adam skool wat time? |
notty (nottygal)
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Username: nottygal
Post Number: 4099
Registered: 5-2008
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 1:21 pm: |
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Hello...hello...
Nora
Crocs - kau pakai tau eh..hhhheehe |
zu (mixedup)
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Username: mixedup
Post Number: 3635
Registered: 3-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 1:22 pm: |
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yo shahlynn!
adam da skool dah...
nanti jap lagi ard 2 aku nk pi fetch dia. |
notty (nottygal)
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Username: nottygal
Post Number: 4100
Registered: 5-2008
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 1:23 pm: |
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Quote: "sudi datang... "
Slynn
Aku! aku! aku! |
nora aw (noni1)
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Username: noni1
Post Number: 7895
Registered: 2-2007
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 1:25 pm: |
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Dulu takde anak, jalan raye kasut fancy..
berbatu batu ade sling backs, ade slip ons..
sure match with purse (note its purse as in party bags)
sekarang.... lain benar u. |
Shahlynn (shahlynn)
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Username: shahlynn
Post Number: 4761
Registered: 1-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 1:25 pm: |
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notty....
terima kasih lah kerana sudi datang...
malu aku tau....
rumah aku tak seberapa.. |
Shahlynn (shahlynn)
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Username: shahlynn
Post Number: 4762
Registered: 1-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 1:25 pm: |
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zu,
mika pun finish @ 2pm....
tekak cam nak pi makan eskrem ah... |
zu (mixedup)
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Username: mixedup
Post Number: 3636
Registered: 3-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 1:27 pm: |
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nora,
skrg pun lagi party bag per...
cuma saiz nye jer beza.
pat dalam 'prty bag' ade:
1. biskut
2. susu
3. activity book
4. game
5. baju extra
..... and the list goes on! :P |
Shahlynn (shahlynn)
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Username: shahlynn
Post Number: 4763
Registered: 1-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 1:27 pm: |
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nora,
ah seh....
sekarang, angkut diaper beg,
kasut, kalau bleh macam nak pakai slippers jer...
walaupun mika dah tak pakai diapers,
aku tetap angkut susu dia...
for times wen dia dah penat & cranky, the susu does wonders! |
zu (mixedup)
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Username: mixedup
Post Number: 3637
Registered: 3-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 1:29 pm: |
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haha...
pi ajer mac!
byk flavor!
nari aku ambik adam trus aku alik.
perut aku da 2 3 hari sakit2 ajer.
jgn jadi mcm abg ipar aku sudah.
tau2 kene stomach cancer! |
notty (nottygal)
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Username: nottygal
Post Number: 4101
Registered: 5-2008
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 1:29 pm: |
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Slynn
bumbung rumah kau atap pon aku dtg lah..cedebah!
rumah aku pon bukan semewah mane pon.. |
Shahlynn (shahlynn)
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Username: shahlynn
Post Number: 4765
Registered: 1-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 1:32 pm: |
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zu,
dulu2 nyer party beg, only ezlink card, atm card & ic...
& hp jer... |
Shahlynn (shahlynn)
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Username: shahlynn
Post Number: 4766
Registered: 1-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 1:33 pm: |
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zu,
kau taknak pi makan eskrem?
notty,
kau lah teman sejati....
tak macam kawan tiri tuuuuu.... *winks* |
zu (mixedup)
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Username: mixedup
Post Number: 3638
Registered: 3-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 1:34 pm: |
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notty,
rmh tak mewah takpe asal ade tmpt berteduh..!
last week aku tgk Ch u tis widow and her kids, takde umah.
then volunteers buatka rmh kayu, mcm org main kem2 gitu... its not a whole house tau.. pintu tingkap pun tarak. tapi sungguh bahagia dorang.
then the roof and walls buat dari daun! mcmne la alo hujan. tinggal betul2 dpn laut. |
zu (mixedup)
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Username: mixedup
Post Number: 3642
Registered: 3-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 1:36 pm: |
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kau nak turun lot 1 ke?
Aku nak tanye korang smtg eh,
tadi aku post pat FB, now i post here plak.
How does one become a GOOD FULLTIME HOUSEWIFE if she is a GOOD WIFE and A GOOD MOTHER?
i kip tinking pasal soalan nie tapi aku takde jawapan nyer... |
nora aw (noni1)
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Username: noni1
Post Number: 7897
Registered: 2-2007
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 1:37 pm: |
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shahlynn
aku yer party bag ade duit, driving licence, tissue, bedak and lipstick
pssstt.. ade cosmetic bag full of supplies dalam keta |
nora aw (noni1)
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zu
u mean
good wife and good mother not equal to good full time housewife??? huh??? |
zu (mixedup)
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yup.. dats wat i mean..
aku pun tak faham...
aku rasa org nie mencari maid kot? |
Shahlynn (shahlynn)
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| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 1:41 pm: |
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zu,
kalau kau taknak singgah, malas lah aku! |
mamaliz (mamaliz)
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| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 1:41 pm: |
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allo....(baru antar hilmi to sch bus)
zu...
kau biar betul cakap bukan bukan sampai stomach cancer...kalau worry go n see doc k...
aku pon dah 2 hari sakit pewut...menses tak datang abt 6 mths ni...haiz...pening kepala, entah bila nak datang...jgn aku dah syiok nak posa baru datang plak...
hubby i skang dah pandai...kalau i nak beli bag raya dia pon tau kena carik bag yg besar...if possible he wants a bag that he also like...hahahahaha...pasal kekadang he hv to carry cos its heavy to lug hilmi's things ard... |
zu (mixedup)
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| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 1:42 pm: |
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shlynn,
aku slalu singgah la..
cos aku nak trf bus.
:P |
mamaliz (mamaliz)
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| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 1:43 pm: |
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zu...
aku rasa kalau kau tanya balik the person who asked u dat...he/she also cannot answer....hehehehe....doesnt make sense lehhhh |
notty (nottygal)
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Zu
ya lor...mesti syukur ape yg kita ada skrg...
Ur BIL how old yg dpt stomach cancer..kesian eh..
Nora
aku pun keliru ni psl good full time housewife tu.. |
Shahlynn (shahlynn)
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| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 1:43 pm: |
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kay... aku pi amik mika dulu...
later sambung....
a good housewife = cleanaholic
a good mother = always there for the kids
a good wife = ready to kangkang
izit? |
Shash Salamat (shash_2901)
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| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 1:43 pm: |
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afternoon earthlings...
oh i hope im not too late to say thanks to notty,lynzi(walaupun tak nampak bayang),wati,lina yg sudi dtg Rizqi's party...cuma i was so mad to myself tak dapat nak layan u all pasal mcm i sorang who needs to run the show
penat,pissed and bingit dgn adik ipar i...
dtg macam dijemput,duduk goyang kaki macam mam..
i hubby n her sister yg kelam kabut dari decorating to the end...thanks gurls jgn serek k..
wah pasal raya semuer da ready to go eh..wah siap dgn persiapan skali...cadar,baju,etc..hehehe
like me mcm biasa cuma diff is this year rizqi da blh pakai baju melayu,so i da tempah buat baju dia n hubby,as mine masih blum siap...since i dun haf my own place tak la kecoh sgt nak beli mcm2,kuih mmg kena beli kuih tunjuk2,i tak tau buat la...but im trying to find simple2 yg i blh try this year..insyallah...
shahlynn,hope ur family will recover soon,especially ur sis yg pregnant tu...and i pun sudi dtg ur house kalau dijemput,insyallah.. |
Shash Salamat (shash_2901)
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a good wife = ready to kangkang =>
hahahahahahaha.....kangkang..jgn tak kangkang,lol |
Shahlynn (shahlynn)
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| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 1:46 pm: |
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kay... aku pi amik mika dulu...
later sambung....
a good housewife = cleanaholic
a good mother = always there for the kids
a good wife = ready to kangkang
izit? |
mira_tan (mira_tan)
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| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 1:48 pm: |
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Zu,
In the first place, how to become a good wife and mother? To become a good housewife is it have to cook 3 meals clean the house(must be very clean) look after the children, do all housework...at the same time must run errand for husband and children...etc???? |
m@m@of2b@bies (nshah)
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Slynn
sesungguhnya seh i didnt noe pasal H1N1 thingy
hope ur sis recover soon eh..
yelah u kan mmg selalu buat open house, w/o fail.. untung sapa yg dtg dpt menjamu selera masakan u..
as for me lau masak pun provided MIL's nya kompuak coming either we masak lontong or soto tu je.. dats e normal dish.. tp tu ah ingat nak try smtg else any simple recipe to share.. muak plak aku asik masak ni dua dish je hehe
zu
sesungguhnya ku pun cant answer to ur question..pelik ah i tink sm men are jus too much.. they want everything smuanya bini buat, clean e house, cook for them, jaga e kids, jaga makan minum dorang & also kangkang for them too kan? bt sudah terang we women are not super women???
i jus got a box of kurma from my thai collg.. so sweet n she hugged me syg happy ramadhan |
zu (mixedup)
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| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 1:49 pm: |
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liz,
no la.. aku rasa aku gastric la.
psl abg ipar aku tu betul la.. dia slalu complain sakit perut,
then tau2 stomach cancer..
and kakak aku pun tak keje mcm aku...
i wonder how she's gonna cope.
liz,
org tu insist dia tau aper yg dia cakap ler.
and dat person tu laki aku...
dats y im sooo sooo upset. |
zu (mixedup)
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| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 1:53 pm: |
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notty,
my BI i tink he's born in 74 or 75?
aku pun tak tau la.. hahaha
not old la.. my sis born in 76.
shash,
aku sorrie tau dat time aku tak dapat dtg party.
budak2 baru baik sakit and dat day i was down w migraine! now gastric plak.. i soo hate the weather la.. |
zu (mixedup)
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| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 1:54 pm: |
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mira, im just as baffled la..
so i really dunno the answer.
i hope that person can find the answer la. |
zu (mixedup)
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| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 1:55 pm: |
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http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/messages/449169/2697849.html?1250657270
org minta belas ihsan then kene shoot...
dunno how true is the situation. |
mamaliz (mamaliz)
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| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 1:56 pm: |
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aiyoh.....i think theres no answer to zu nya question...cos no human is perfect lahh....nak cakap aku good wife pon takleh mesti ada buat silap perr...good mother also cant...im not always energized enuff to layankan those 2 cute lil monkeys of mine...hahahaha...a goos housewife....no way that i am..cos at times even hubby tells me to leave the mess n laze ard wif him...
what we can be is ...Do the best we can Do...ahhhhh...that sounds more realistic...hehehehe....
ps: umah aku ngah in a mess lagi ni...tapi aku jeling ajerrr...kekekeke... |
Lynn02 (lynn02)
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| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 1:57 pm: |
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Quote **How does one become a GOOD FULLTIME HOUSEWIFE if she is a GOOD WIFE and A GOOD MOTHER? **
Good wife - u jaga makan, pakai, minum and layan dia dgn baik
Good Mother - u jaga ur kids dgn sempuna dlm semua hal eg, makan, minum dorang and their education
GOOD FULLTIME HOUSEWIFE - jaga kebersihan rumah, e surrounding environment.. menghias rumah maybe??
seriouly, i dont neo what the ans for ur Q! ni aku main tembak je.. |
zu (mixedup)
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| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 1:58 pm: |
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liz,
haha.. tau takper..
aku rasa kalo la aku bole bli robot mcm citer korea tu, yg BF dia robot, i will buy it for him! lol!
okie la.. adios!
aku nk pi ambik adam! |
mira_tan (mira_tan)
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| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 2:00 pm: |
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Zu, I feel. this question depend on individual family lah. good to meeting now later continue |
mamaliz (mamaliz)
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| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 2:00 pm: |
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zu...
kalau laki kau yg cakap gitu...kau cakap ngan dia...to tell u aper yg kau kurang...tell him to tell u straight in the face lahh...maybe ada yg we as wives dont realised wat we lack...maybe dia nak attention ke...saper lah tau...
my hubby dia pon suka putar belit at times..tapi bila aku dah sound suruh shoot...baru dia cakap...then thats where we debate/discuss...
no point kan kalau kita dont understand the question/comments but still not improving... |
sma||dreams (smalldreams)
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| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 2:01 pm: |
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Shash
Hope Rizqi had a good time at the party!
Alah, sudah lah, no hard feelings k? Since you dah tau, next time, tak payah combine2 party ni semua...kurang stress.
Shahlynn
There are many ways to measure whether you're a good wife & mother. I think asalkan you buat your tanggungjawab, memadai lah tu. having a good wife is not just about sex what. Kalau siang malam sanggup standby tapi makanan, kain baju tergendala, bagus ke macam tu?
Did you gals read about the Afghan president who said husbands had the right to starve their wives if they refused sex? Kena backlash habis2an. So sad, dah jadi mcm zaman taleban.
Zu
How does one become a GOOD FULLTIME HOUSEWIFE if she is a GOOD WIFE and A GOOD MOTHER?
Tanya lah your hubby apa dia mean since he knows what it means. Tapi pada I, that phrase langsung takde makna. Pusing2 kat situ jugak
Tapi i agree with what Mamaliz says |
sma||dreams (smalldreams)
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Zu
See lah I tengah baca the thread link. Rabaks. Tak tau mana yang betul. Tapi eh I heran tau how orang boleh meminta-minta kat sini. Entah lah eh, maybe sejauh ni kita tak payah minta2 atau alhamdulillah tak lah sampai ke tahap tu.
Haiz...biar lah, only God will repay his actions. If he's a genuine case, then nothing to worry lor |
m@m@of2b@bies (nshah)
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| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 2:28 pm: |
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yuhoo then smua senyap
tido ke tgh ujan2 ni? |
Shahlynn (shahlynn)
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| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 2:32 pm: |
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nshah,
like i said tadi...
my open house is stakat guest datang all on d same day...
menu depends...
once, i masak ayam merah & rendang daging.
so i rebus lontong & masak nasi jagung...
dah dapat 2 types of dish |
Shahlynn (shahlynn)
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| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 2:35 pm: |
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smalldreams,
it takes both party to make a marriage work.
mana yg kurang, both mesti tegur.
& jgn mintak yg bukan2, if u jolly well noe the other party susah nak adakan.
rumah bersih, pakai jaga, anak2 terurus, makan siap dgn dessert skali....
tapi malam, toooo tired to do other things. jgn cakap sex, but nak diskus laki bini pun dah tak larat....
a good wife? masing2 lah... |
m@m@of2b@bies (nshah)
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| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 2:36 pm: |
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Slynn
so babe u masak 2 main dish & rebus lontong & buat nasi jagung eh? hmm ok gak eh ada variety to choose from..
so u ada any other thing yg senang nak masak tak? lau nak suruh ku masak both cam ur lauk tu tak terbuat ah nak2 rendang woi kang jadi kari plak
sana ujan babe? |
Shahlynn (shahlynn)
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| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 2:38 pm: |
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a good wife is not about kangkang la...
ehhehe
also about being a good listener, supporter, 'caregiver' for the husband...
ingat drama Rahsia perkahwinan 2 tak?
husband's issue tak habis2 nafkah batin!
wife argued, "asyik2 hubungan intim! kurang ker aper yg saya buat slama nie?" |
Shahlynn (shahlynn)
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| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 2:40 pm: |
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sini tak ujan....
panas terik.
pandai2 choose menu lah...
rendang soooo easy.
lebur & wait.
if masak kari ayam pun, bleh taruk lontong & roti perancis. and roti kirai, if senang! |
sma||dreams (smalldreams)
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| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 2:41 pm: |
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Shahlynn
Ya lor, boil down to compromise. Tapi I think it's a constant challenge for SAHMs. Already given up so much for the family, yet the best will never be good enough. Bersabar aje lah eh....
Nshah
Ko ni cam yer yer je tau what Zu is going through (saw on FB). You're not a housewife to begin with rite :P
Tapi re: sex, I think memang lah, lelaki live for sex. It's a very important thing for them. Walaupun it's unsaid, I think many marriages break down due to unmet sexual needs.
Just now at lunch, my colleagues organised a birthday party for 5 of us, Aug babies. So surprised! We went there thinking it was a farewell for another colleague but they bought a small cake for each of us. Dapat present lagi! Haha... things like this make me want to stay on here |
lina yh (myohmy)
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| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 2:47 pm: |
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SAHMs expection towards them terlampau tinggi tak?
since there r at home so 'certain' things r expected...
jadi isteri\ibu banyak tanggung-jawap....tak kiralah SAHM or FTWM |
notty (nottygal)
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| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 2:49 pm: |
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Shahlynn
ko buat aku teringat ape mak aku akan masak on 1st day of raya..
1. Lontong
2. Sambal Tumis Udang
3. Sambal Tumis Sotong
4. Kari Ayam
5. Ayam goreng
6. Rendang daging
7. Sambal goreng pengantin
8. Desserts - Green beans with durian / honeydew sago |
Shahlynn (shahlynn)
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| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 2:51 pm: |
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{ Tapi I think it's a constant challenge for SAHMs.}
jgn cakap SAHMs jer...
kita FTWM pun ada same set of problem...
PLUS, time factor is not on our side.
u noe, whenever i turn SAHM for a week,
i btol2 absorb the full challenges.
penat beb! there were times i wished i'm back in the ofis!
and wen husband came back, takkan i nak terus go, "ur turn! i'm tired!"?
bottomline, SAHM or FTWM, it takes 2 to tango. |
lina yh (myohmy)
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| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 2:51 pm: |
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Notty,
Time bapak aku ade...
1. Ketupat Instant
2. Ayam Barbeque
3. Ayam Pencok (Santan)
4. Udang Rendang
5. Kuah Lodeh
6. Sabsuka
7. Sambal Goreng |
mamaliz (mamaliz)
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Post Number: 3531
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| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 2:55 pm: |
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SAHM always have this prob....People always think we are able to take things easy at home...dapat goyang kaki 24/7...can do more than wat we said we have done...expected to do more other than the household things cos we ARE at home the whole day...
my hubby dulu slalu argue like dat tau..
until i ada time tu burst out at him...and asked him to bloody well stay at home n jaga budak budak ni n masak ..nothing else...jus that...wen he thinks abt it,,,jus the jaga budak2 part dia dah cair.....hahahaha...
we caqn jus sit quietly n wait for the kids to start complaining ...fighting...tumpahkan air..make a mess of watever...dah bleh stress... |
lina yh (myohmy)
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| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 2:56 pm: |
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psssst smalldreams dapat hadiah ape tu |
sma||dreams (smalldreams)
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| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 2:58 pm: |
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Lina
wow, yr menu is so international
Nottygal
It's amazing how our moms can cook all these eh! Bila lah I nak jadi cam mak2 ni... haiz...
Shahlynn
Memang lah there are different challenges for SAHM & FTWM. Tapi I rasa for SAHM, the challenge is even greater, coz they gave up their earning power, yet their contributions to households might be questioned from time to time.
FTWM pun different set of challenges. Unless you have a good support system, there's always the guilt of leaving yr child at home under someone else's care. Cam Susan in Desperate Housewives...one of the examples (tapi dek tu memang one kind...haha) |
m@m@of2b@bies (nshah)
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peah
well not fully i noe what shes gg thru bt im facing with e same question now so i can feel her half pressure babe..
furthermore im working n im sure i cant do all soo sempurnaly ok..
mmg tul kata Slynn bottomline whether u r SAHM or FTWM takes 2 to tango.. well if sm hub yg not particular & tak kisah ok ah, bt there sm i noe who are jus too ridiculous smua nak kena ikut cam sunnah nabi, baik lau camtu bini dorang tu tak ya work, duk je pat umah jgn jumpa org smua.. tp bila part dorang lelaki nya tanggungjawab tak plak kita pertikaikan balik... anyway i tink its up to individual lah..
we will b bless to get a gd hub or wife bt if either one sucks, there goes ur marriage.. will jus get worst & reput or worst vanish along e way.. |
nora aw (noni1)
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| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 2:59 pm: |
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banyak yer lauk for raye
i think my mom usually
masak ayam merah
daging rendang
sambal goreng
kuah lodeh (optional)
serunding (we buy from kedai)
buat ketupat (not instant) |
lina yh (myohmy)
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| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 2:59 pm: |
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liz,
that is the stigma SAHM always have...aku dulu SAHM for nearly a year ajer.... |
mamaliz (mamaliz)
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Post Number: 3532
Registered: 2-2007
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 3:00 pm: |
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dulu masa i FTWM...can say hubby was more relaxed wif me sehh...
balik jerr i can pengsan on the bed..we will clean the hse onli wen off days..either him or me..masak onli wen im off w him...if not he will masak nasi n fry french fries....hehehehe...
but now...since hubby dah paham the stress of a hsewife..he's more lovable....kekekeke...*mentel* |
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