Recent content by MoeLanYong

That was my view when I was a 7 year old. In a broken family. I promised myself if I can ever grow up, I will want to help someone caught in my same situation. Because no one helped me then. Now, I married 20 years and have come full circle. To carry out a promise. My bread crumbs was the time...

As a young child that seen my parents go through a traumatic divorce, I disagree. I can be either be with my dad or my mom. It can never be complete. Ever. In my life. I cried most nights. Before my parents divorced, even though they quarreled most times, there were some days they didn't. I...

Oh. I forgot. Till today when someone asked me haha. TS, I am in a Divorce/Sexless/Loveless chat group with 200 other people. It is a support group for people going through divorce. For people to ask divorce questions, ask relationship issues, seek views or just to find someone in the same...

Forgive, without working on why it happened and how to prevent a recurrence, is as good as waiting for it to happen again. You need to figure out what went wrong, rather than just forgive. Else you are just chasing your tail.

There you go. Options for TS to consider. (In case you don't know, your first answer is to divorce and your second is to fix it)

I don't get why others don't see it There are only 2 options. 1. Divorce 2. And everyday TS is not divorcing, she is "choosing" to stay. And since she is staying, her best option is to fix it. Not do nothing. Yes the husband did wrong. Yes I feel sorry for TS. But please tell me there is a...

Go ahead and divorce then. Exchange lawyer letters. Sell home. Buy new home. Renovate. Day time go work. Night time bring up 2 kids on your own. Get used to being alone. No big deal ya

Someone wise told me Every marriage is a work in progress. It never ends. At least he is admitting to a problem. You can try working it out with him. The alternative is a messy divorce

Did you guys quarrel too often?

I too came from a divorce family. So I know the pain. Maybe this is why I am back ......to confront my monsters. If you need any help, shout out.

TS hubby is obviously in the wrong. I belong to the generation that fix things when they are broken. Not anyhow throw things away and buy new ones. TS has 2 young kids. The calculation is more complex, and not just based on what she wants. Please do not follow me around to make personal...

My opinion. Your battle starts now TS. Do think why your hub said he wasn't happy "those 5 years".

I dunno why this forum is full of ladies that are trigger happy with divorce. Is it because those that advocate it are already divorced and want others to join them in misery? Or they are people who have not gone through a divorce and do not know the pain involved? You ladies think the process...

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How old is your husband? I think you guys are just not accustomed to being naked with each other. I doubt he has ED. Maybe just nervous. Perhaps you both can warm up by being naked with each other. Dont rush it. Spend time looking into each other's body. Be comfortable with each other bodies...