Recent content by mangopudding

i went thru this before.. then become today.. so must becareful.. dun fall.into his trap.

yah the sweet talking who knows what will happen next

dun agree.. cos he.might ask u go out of the house..

i learned a hardway also.. so when he go lawyer straight his heart is dead.. all he care is himself and what he wants.. so best is to seek legal advise..u can dun sign. but tell him u have lawyer.. lawyer protects your rights.. important your safety.. and your child safety before he uses kids...

by the way the house how?

you need maintenance, child support. he abandon, deserted you.. thats unreasonable.. seek lawyer help.. i was also unofficial separated..no support.. now see lawyer for help.. no choice..

both of you cool down first. and u should consult lawyer.. he has made the move of separation.. if u have the evidence if lust.. he have to pay maintenance etc.. please dun drain yourself out.

i read your story.. i had two kids, sold two houses,two cars, went counselling before.. i tried all means.. like what u said.. and what u believe.. until depression until i lost my job. until i am here writing.. your husband has choosed to moved out.. sign what paper? dun anyhow sign sis..

i mean move back to his parents house..

my first marriage how i know moving out is legal separation.. he was nice then move back become not nice.. i also with lots of question mark..

this is my first marriage his second marriage. but he refused to give any i married twenty years..

any advice for my case.. i dun have legal knowledge..i am his second marriage..

i married for twenty years..moved two houses three affair..i went to file before but withdrawl.. he was quite firm one time..but manage to beg him go counselling to reconcile.. unfortunately depression caught me.. it went downhill.. then i convinced him to try one more time and things got...

i dun understand when man become avoidance.. himself no fault? silent kills marriage.. miserable.. he can spend time at pub talking laughing with girls he doesnt spend time come looking for wife or understand me.. i lost my house because he ignore, spend time drinking.. now he going to lose...

now u may worry too many things he is still the child father.. he will still need to do his part as co parenting.. he will have his access.. he might find his own happiness one day, the same goes for you..nobody know what is going to happen in the future.. i going thru it now.. its...