Recent content by csin

Yes that's possible too. I guess there are several factors at play, perhaps she feels that when push comes to shove, if there's a conflict between her and your mom, you will choose your mom, and that does not give her confidence in the marriage.

Any chance to get time with just your wife and kid, away from your mom and her aunt? Keep the extended family out of things? Hire a helper to help your wife and kid.. 3rd party might be better for everyone. Don't get in laws involved if possible. If you do this, your wife will see that you're...

My apologies.. i forgot to mention that i don't mean people should cut their families out, just that your "closeness" to your family should reduce once you're married as your priority should be your spouse and your new family unit.

Once married, you have technically started your own family unit and you need to sort of cut the apron strings from your mother and family.. They are in a way, your "extended" family once you get married, and your wife/husband and baby are your immediate family now. I think the problem is that no...

Yes this is correct. works both ways. husband must choose wife, and wife must choose husband if situation is reversed. those that fail to choose their spouse in such a situation.. things usually don't end well. If you follow the quran/bible, they teach this as well. After god, your spouse comes...

the good thing is he realises it, and that's the first step to improving things. i know of cases where the "guilty" party refuses to acknowledge any "fault" and nothing can be done to save the marriage. In fact, in most cases, i realise that heavy conflicts tend to occur when one or both parties...

Actually this is the most important thing in marriage. Both parties need to put each other first and have each other's back, before kids, before their "former" family. Not sure if you have already spoken to him about this. Perhaps you may even offer him solutions on what you feel he can do to...