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beebuzz (beebuzz)
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Username: beebuzz
Post Number: 1
Registered: 8-2010
| | Posted on Monday, August 09, 2010 - 10:10 pm: | 
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Anyone experience the same, I have been married for 10yrs and sex was less than 10. |
Snowpony (snowpony)
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Username: snowpony
Post Number: 12
Registered: 6-2010
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 11, 2010 - 1:09 pm: |
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You are not. I was married for 6 years n no sex too. |
Dragon (dracano)
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Username: dracano
Post Number: 11
Registered: 5-2010
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 11, 2010 - 1:37 pm: |
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Ladies,
What about before your marriages? Was it this infrequent too?
This is an important information to try finding out what might be the root cause(s). |
beebuzz (beebuzz)
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Username: beebuzz
Post Number: 2
Registered: 8-2010
| | Posted on Thursday, August 19, 2010 - 9:29 pm: |
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my husband is a conservative guy no sex before marriage, after marriage he don't enjoy sex as he experience pain when his foreskin being retracted. |
ezmeralda (ezmeralda)
Member
Username: ezmeralda
Post Number: 654
Registered: 7-2009
| | Posted on Tuesday, August 24, 2010 - 11:53 am: |
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hmmm im really shocked..i didnt know a marriage without sex exist..
hows the relationship.. have u both talk to hubby abt it? so whats ur thoughts on this?? |
joyrob (joyrob)
Junior Member
Username: joyrob
Post Number: 232
Registered: 11-2004
| | Posted on Thursday, September 02, 2010 - 10:10 pm: |
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i find it surprising too... but if is mutual, then i dun think marriage will be affected. If is some other phychological problems, might wana see doc. |
Che V. (casey31)
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Username: casey31
Post Number: 17
Registered: 8-2010
| | Posted on Friday, September 03, 2010 - 12:24 am: |
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I am shocked too...if it bothers the other partner then something might be wrong...if the couple is ok with that..maybe it works for them...i wonder how they communicate intimacy? As far as i know men is very sexual ... sex is one of there basic needs...i might be wrong... |
joyrob (joyrob)
Junior Member
Username: joyrob
Post Number: 235
Registered: 11-2004
| | Posted on Tuesday, September 07, 2010 - 11:23 pm: |
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for me, i never knew a man who do not like intimacy. is nothing to shy about, as is part and parcel of life and renewal.. |
LVBY (loverboy)
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Username: loverboy
Post Number: 4
Registered: 2-2011
| | Posted on Saturday, February 05, 2011 - 2:53 pm: |
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hmmm ?? wow ... thats surprising, a sexless marriage, how do you even control your urges ladies ? |
Jolyon (toblerone)
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Username: toblerone
Post Number: 70
Registered: 6-2009
| | Posted on Tuesday, April 19, 2011 - 3:07 pm: |
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sexless marriage is getting common.
For men, there are three main common reasons.
1. having an affair (or visiting prostitutes)
2. work/family pressure (men face it all the time)
3. having sex with other men (I know it is unbelieveable. There are many married men having sex with men) |
Lau (mrlau)
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Username: mrlau
Post Number: 1
Registered: 4-2011
| | Posted on Tuesday, April 19, 2011 - 7:58 pm: |
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me too, i am a man whose sex life is very limited and nothing much i can do. Married for 10 year, average sex per year less than 10 times.
so what reasons will that be ... |
It'sYourLife (amibad)
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Username: amibad
Post Number: 26
Registered: 7-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, June 01, 2011 - 12:02 pm: |
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Hi Lau, You are not alone. I am surprised to hear that men dun like sxx! Normally, it is the woman who reject sxx. What Jolyon said also quite true although i dun really agree on the pressure part. I though sx can be used as a form of pressure release, thus all the more human beings should want it instead of rejecting it.... |
beatrice chue (beatrice_chua)
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Username: beatrice_chua
Post Number: 2
Registered: 8-2011
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 24, 2011 - 2:19 am: |
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is there any problem with the marriage...just try to move on first..read some magazine to know what to do....best magazine cosmopolitan! |
Cindy ong (happyzhuo7)
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Username: happyzhuo7
Post Number: 21
Registered: 5-2011
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 24, 2011 - 9:13 am: |
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Wish i can have a marriage with no sex... Or sex just to have kids n when mission accomplish no sex again. Or mayb once every one-two mths..
Sadly men i met r all creatures who thinks with lower body.. Hais. |
Curious (guest28)
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Username: guest28
Post Number: 6
Registered: 3-2012
| | Posted on Sunday, March 04, 2012 - 10:34 am: |
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hi beebuzz
maybe u wan try foreplay, caress, fondling to stimulate ur hubby first. can give it a try. |
Shoppixe (shoppixe)
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Username: shoppixe
Post Number: 58
Registered: 11-2011
| | Posted on Monday, August 13, 2012 - 1:11 pm: |
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Do men just lose interest after marriage? |
Ang Sze Wei Kelvin (kelvinangsw)
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Username: kelvinangsw
Post Number: 10
Registered: 9-2011
| | Posted on Monday, August 13, 2012 - 1:52 pm: |
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I will say high probability is a No unless like what Jolyon says. I am the one who is always pestering my wife for sex. Not trying to scare u but it may be your hubby is having someone outside or it may be really due to have medical problem. If so, better ask him to see a doctor, It may be helpful if you try to be more sexy. |
Bek (shinco)
Junior Member
Username: shinco
Post Number: 134
Registered: 3-2012
| | Posted on Monday, August 13, 2012 - 2:11 pm: |
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Hi,I'm new here.. When man start to lose interest in having sex,we wives better do something rather than just let it be. To me,it's like a wake up call!!
It happens to me before but now I try to prevent it! He doesn't make the first move,I GO!! Oops! I'm sorry if I'm Too valgur.. |
Lau (mrlau)
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Username: mrlau
Post Number: 2
Registered: 4-2011
| | Posted on Monday, August 13, 2012 - 2:32 pm: |
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My last post was in apr 2011. The sexless situation was getting worse and we divorced.
Recently, i remarried and sex is great with my new found partner.
My life is on track now and in love with flames!!!! |
Bek (shinco)
Junior Member
Username: shinco
Post Number: 135
Registered: 3-2012
| | Posted on Monday, August 13, 2012 - 2:55 pm: |
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Hi mrlau,I salute to u! U've done a great job!! |
Bebe (bebenewborn)
Junior Member
Username: bebenewborn
Post Number: 447
Registered: 6-2010
| | Posted on Tuesday, August 14, 2012 - 3:32 pm: |
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This thread quite suprise me. I always thought that a sexless marriage cannot maintain.
I will prefer not to have sex if there is a option. |
seleena (asiabeautyitis)
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Username: asiabeautyitis
Post Number: 5
Registered: 8-2012
| | Posted on Tuesday, August 14, 2012 - 7:36 pm: |
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Confused (i_m_confused)
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Username: i_m_confused
Post Number: 8
Registered: 11-2012
| | Posted on Thursday, November 22, 2012 - 5:04 pm: |
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Mrlau, did you have kids back then? |
Jolyon (toblerone)
Junior Member
Username: toblerone
Post Number: 179
Registered: 6-2009
| | Posted on Thursday, April 25, 2013 - 7:25 pm: |
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There are many reasons for "sexless marriage". Below are the three common ones (of course, there are many reasons).
No.1 Husband has erectile dysfunction (ED) - 身理因素。跟压力没有直接关系。He may look healthy but he could be suffering from ED. It is very hard to cure ED. 
No.2 Husband has disease - He could be a Hepatitis B and/or Herpes or other STD carrier. Herpes is not as deadly as HIV but it is still cause destructive to a certain stage. Yet, many women and men do not know they have it. Such sickness certainly no cure for it.
No.3 Husband is a Bi or Gay - He has no idea about marriage or being forced to get married. Despite of this, it is unbelievable and extremely common to see married men having affair with other men! I am afraid, Singapore is one of the worst developed countries to have this headache issue. Still, they are tell-tales signs whether husband is one or not.
I am sharing the above based on my experience (including people I've met and interacted). Probably, there are women who can't accept my views and please do not get upset with my post.
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